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wale.star (m)
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Pusssy make my relationship success, because I worked for money and fuckk my girl always
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Treetop20 (m)
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@Poster.
Very interesting question.
Im 28 yrs old and currently engaged.
Iv been with my partner for 7 years. 7 long years.
Il cut a long story short.
Be honest and open with your partner, Never make them mistrust you. Learn to be forgiving and understanding. Be a good listener. Be like your partner's best friend.
Hope that helps.
wow good to see you got a ring afterwards a lot of men won't commit to a women they've been with for that long
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chic2pimp (m)
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Pusssy make my relationship success, because I worked for money and fuckk my girl always
Wahlai Tahlai u no well oo  . Na so so pu.ssy,ahn ahn  .
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Ekpoma1
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It baffles me when it comes to issues that are foundation which are needed to be taken with every sense of seriousness,because it affect us,even if not us but people who are very close to us inform of family members,friends and neigbhours, Here is no place for jokes.if you dont have something to say,hold your peace and learn from others.If you close your eyes to facts,you will learn through accident.A word they says is more than enough for the wise.
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YEMI LOVE (f)
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There are many things that work together to make relationship a successful one. But as for me this three (3) is very important.
First, in all things I always put God first likewise in my relationship He is the foundation • Trust is one of key that hold my relationship till today. because I can’ continue in relationship if there is no trust. • Openness is another one and lastly • Communication.
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yorke (m)
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I go with your points, couldn't have say it more than that.
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Atreus (m)
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Wow. Good question. I've been in a r/ship for about 2 years,and i recently got married. What's made my r/ship a success? First of all,having the good luck to find a truly amazing woman. Then trust comes into play,mutual respect is important,and a great deal of self-control is necessary. I'm not a particularly religious person,but following the bible's principle-'Let not the sun set with you in a provoked state',has helped,especially since we both have tempers. Then you have to be willing tn be flexible,to yield. Tolerance. And most important,love. All-encompassing,self-sacrificing love. That kind of love covers all things,and it's that kind of love that makes my relationship a success.
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whitelexi (m)
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Trust Communication Tolerance
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Ekpoma1
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Thanks everybody so far for your response, Can i now jump into conclusion that the reasons for break ups here and there is as a result lacking one or two of those elements mention so far, or there is just more to it?
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wale.star (m)
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The popular proverb says insurance is like marriage – you pay and pay and pay, and never get anything back. But marriage is also a relationship and but what makes everything sweet is sex, fuckk each other daily, secondly.pickkin intervention, before you knows it, collapse due to lack of money then man must work hard.
If your wife is rich and you are poor then forget respect, you will be called the living dead. 10 years marriage without a child will never have peace from both side of the family, need more posting but at all all , Na God hand the tine dey O
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iice (f)
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Thanks everybody so far for your response, Can i now jump into conclusion that the reasons for break ups here and there is as a result lacking one or two of those elements mention so far, or there is just more to it?
Yes
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Lord_Reed (m)
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Quote from Ujujoan: I think God has too much on his plate to worry about our relationships!! Thank God it's just u thinking so but in actuality this not the case.
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posakosa (m)
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The popular proverb says insurance is like marriage – you pay and pay and pay, and never get anything back. But marriage is also a relationship and but what makes everything sweet is sex, fuckk each other daily, secondly.pickkin intervention, before you knows it, collapse due to lack of money then man must work hard.
If your wife is rich and you are poor then forget respect, you will be called the living dead. 10 years marriage without a child will never have peace from both side of the family, need more posting but at all all , Na God hand the tine dey O
YOU ARE SOO IN TOUCH WITH REALITY. 
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Ekpoma1
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Yeah, we've heard it from the only man with the star, WALE STAR saying you should keep posting until the arrival of our lord jesus christ, and i strongly believe that will only keep happening if there are successes in relationships and people with it will continue to share it here.i definitely believe i'll be part of the success.
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yorke (m)
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Me too, i believe there are more failure than success considering the thread of heartbreak which are just too much, people wouldn't open up even if they are the causes of the failure in there relationship.
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Musty450 (m)
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on a scale of 1-10 how important is sex?  Interesting question poster  I wouldn't dare pick a number, any takers???
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yorke (m)
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Finally, Someone asks a truly constructive question, NLanders please share your thoughts on this with us; For me i think Communication (even though it may sound cliche-ish) is one of the factors that has really helped to make my 6 year old relationship a success; obviously we being human and all means that there ll always be some sort of misunderstanding between partners but as long as the lines of communication are open; and you re both open minded; a solution will always be at hand.  of course there are always cases which are exceptions . . . 
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mirababy
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see,just do your thing on your own way.
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sylve11
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The popular proverb says insurance is like marriage – you pay and pay and pay, and never get anything back. But marriage is also a relationship and but what makes everything sweet is sex, fuckk each other daily, secondly.pickkin intervention, before you knows it, collapse due to lack of money then man must work hard.
If your wife is rich and you are poor then forget respect, you will be called the living dead. 10 years marriage without a child will never have peace from both side of the family, need more posting but at all all , Na God hand the tine dey O
So true! 
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mirababy
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what do u mean by (so true)i think u dont understand those words because u re writing out of understanding.
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ThoniaSlim (f)
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Our ability to trust, respect, communicate and understand each other.
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Mcleo007
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I believ in dis norm-TTU(Trust,tolerance nd understanding).My rtnshp is 3yrs plus nd its bin rough cos somhw my gal failed 2 apply d above wit me.Jst discovad i'v bin d cause,cos i'v nt bin open enuf 2 her. Openness is very imp 2 mak a rtnshp work.Jst tel her no matta hw hard,it shws your woman u respect her.
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eyonigger (m)
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I believ in dis norm-TTU(Trust,tolerance nd understanding).My rtnshp is 3yrs plus nd its bin rough cos somhw my gal failed 2 apply d above wit me.Jst discovad i'v bin d cause,cos i'v nt bin open enuf 2 her. Openness is very imp 2 mak a rtnshp work.Jst tel her no matta hw hard,it shws your woman u respect her.
When you talk about openness, what exactly are u opened about?
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190 (m)
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up ekposki
confirmed broda rite on the sites~ we are few yet we nor dey carry last~
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whitesturd (f)
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understanding,loyalty and honesty
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spoilt (f)
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my perseverance, my patience and my long suffering. 
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Mcleo007
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@Eyonigger,bein open implies u tel your woman everytin no matter wat it is.Evn wen your boning som1else.It goes 2 shw u hv her in mind nd respect her.
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eyonigger (m)
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@Eyonigger,bein open implies u tel your woman everytin no matter wat it is.Evn wen your boning som1else.It goes 2 shw u hv her in mind nd respect her.
I was thinking part of being open is to tell your gf you cheated on her after you did. Is that a part of it?
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Mcleo007
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@Eyonnigger,whc will u prefer-2 tell her u cheated on her nd ask 4 4gvness or nt 2 tel her den she finds out somehow? I knw its hard,bt i tel u d 1st option is beta.
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eyonigger (m)
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Well they said in such instance you might lose her or she might never have to trust you again.
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Ekpoma1
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@Eyonnigger,whc will u prefer-2 tell her u cheated on her nd ask 4 4gvness or nt 2 tel her den she finds out somehow? I knw its hard,bt i tel u d 1st option is beta.
Some ladies, we never forgive a guy who cheated on them even if he was the one who confessed.Don't you think alot of guys will go for the second option hoping & praying she never find-out, alot never find-out. @190 I hail o.
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