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larimo
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its a sad tale but it isnt new and ITS NOT EVERY GIRL ON CAMPUS THAT DOES THIS. infact the percentage is a small one.
its all about societal status. like someone rightly said, its INSECURITY AND INFERIORITY. You dont need good clothes to read your books!!!!
the shameful men are equally as guilty. afterall, no one can do such stuff by himself. it takes two to be messed up.
As a caution, lets not get carried away by looks of such women/girls emanating from lust and eventually bring disaster into our homes.
God save our schools from moral decadence.
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na2day? (m)
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Very unfortunate. People gotta eat though, there are no jobs, parents are struggling themselves. Women have turned to the sex-trade business and the men have turned to the yahoo/kidnapping business. That country is on a down way spin into destruction.
so your "holier than thou" attitude is just BS. u are willing to give a pass to women that do prostitution but raise righteous anger against men that cheat, HYPOCRITE! ! !  |
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na2day? (m)
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I'll rather call it FEMINISM   no mind them |
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Ebonyeyes (f)
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Funny how you conveniently forgot to highlight the yahoo/kidnapping/marrying-for-papers business your gender is world-wide famous for. I dont condon it but I understand where they are coming from. |
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na2day? (m)
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Funny how you conveniently forgot to highlight the yahoo/kidnapping/marrying-for-papers business your gender is world-wide famous for. I dont condon it but I understand where they are coming from.
but u don't understand where men are coming from? it is called hypocrisy  |
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Ebonyeyes (f)
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but u don't understand where men are coming from? it is called hypocrisy Duhhhhhhhhhhhh Re-read my post, I said the guys do yahoo and the girls sell sex because conditions are hard in the country  . I sympathize with both parties who have to do those things though I dont condone both activities. |
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na2day? (m)
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Duhhhhhhhhhhhh Re-read my post, I said the guys do yahoo and the girls sell sex because conditions are hard in the country . I sympathize with both parties who have to do those things though I dont condone both activities. unfortunately i was referring to your general pattern of posting which is a crusade against men, so my point is why do u understand the girls prostituting conditions and u don't understand the condition of a cheating man, hypocrisy i tell ya! |
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Playboy* (m)
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Shame on Nigerian girls, bunch of useless ingratese. Tomorrow carry your prostitution certficate to come and look for Job in our company, Animals.
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Playboy* (m)
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It is this issue of prostitution that made Playboy to build NaijaHotSingles , a social network and forum with live text and video chart where you can be seeing the person you are charting with, and he included a forum discussion board where issues like this can be discussed,
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Ebonyeyes (f)
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unfortunately i was referring to your general pattern of posting which is a crusade against men, so my point is why do u understand the girls prostituting conditions and u don't understand the condition of a cheating man, hypocrisy i tell ya!
Common now you are clutching straws here |
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phraoh (m)
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Common now you are clutching straws here U left. |
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na2day? (m)
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Common now you are clutching straws here straws ke? Read my 1st post that has been my stance from the beginning |
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martinosi
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Even the Oyibos are Coming to Naija for the "Nookie"
See this report below from a forum for oyibos
that scout africa on "Sex-Tours"
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A white guy from turkey, Europe, who went to Nigeria, Lagos, Port-Harcout
Been a while since I posted, mainly because I have written all there is to be written about my regular stomping ground, Istanbul.
Anyways, been in Lagos for a couple of months, and I can now give my opinion about the mongering scene here.
Pretty dreary. Few places to go to, always filled with the usual suspects, and too expensive for a 3rd world counrtry!! Now to the details ,
First things first, all of you guys flying in for a couple of days, please STOP paying what you are paying! I have yet to meet any girl who will not accept and even (eventually) be happy with ₦4000 to ₦6000, that is from whenever you take her home to whenever you kick her out, in my case ususally by 11 am on weekends . I have not paid more than ₦5,000 plus about 500 for the “taxi”. They moan and complain, and act all pissed off, then sad, then threatening, but don’t let that get to you, it’s just part of the act and part of dealing with the WG in Nigeria. DO NOT PAY THEM IN $ or €, just make sure you have locsl currency and use that!
Hotels – I stayed at 2 different 5 star hotels in Lagos, and at the Hilton in Abuja, believe me they have no problems with girls coming in. Just be casual about it when going in, and have some small change on hand in case one of the “security” people starts to be a pain and makes a big deal. Again, do not exaggerate, ₦500 is VERY good, and may even be on the high side if it is only a regular guard. Thankfully I am at a guest house now so I don’t have that issue anymore.
Cover it up guys. All this BS about whether there is HIV or not! If there ain't you're safe, if there is , you're still safe. Just do the right thing and slap a condom on. End of story.
Massage parlours (and the fees paid!) - Paying the sum of 6000 niara for a massage is CRAZY! Why go, just get a fine lass to come visit you, and give you a massage with all the trimmings in the peace and qiuet of your room.
Short-time places, I guess you like risks. DO NOT go anywhere but your home with a girl. Getting laid ain’t worth the hassles of getting robbed at some nasty “short-term” motel. I get a feeling that some of the folks on here do't quite realize how dangerous this country can be! Go to Oyibos online and read reports. It does not happen often, but when it does, watch out!
About “university” students, if you believe all those girls are that, I have an oil field in Calabar for sale…, cheeeap. please call 0803 SUCKER
Which leads to my next point, you do not need anyone to “hook you up” here in Lagos. If you are going to the usual bars, you will have too much to choose from! Especially anyone who has a bunch of girls that “know how to behave themselves”. If you have a pulse, and can speak fairly decent English, you will ALWAYS find something to take home from any of the regular joints in town.
Spots – I cannot add anything new but they are as mentioned by others on here -
Pat’s Bar
Trick’s / Tarzan’s
Ynot
Piccolo Mondo
Girls
There seems to be a variety of girls working at the bars , generally ranging from 2s to 6s. In talking to many of them, it seems that many of them are here from PH(followed the exodus of the oil crowd, post kidnapping and war in that area?). A lot of them are true pros and don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. You have to go thru a few, and talk to them, then sort out the bad from the really nasty. After that it is all pure luck.
I have pick a cute girl (a 5-6 on my Richter scale), that seemed decent enough when talking to her but she turned out to be a nightmare once we arrived at the house. What did the man say …. You pay a hooker for LEAVING, to true in this case! I think the main thing to remember is that you have to be firm and not to fall for all the BS they spout. Just pay them, lead them to the door, and promise you will call them … sometime.
Sexually, most girls I have taken out are open to pretty much anything, but then again I am not on the freaky side of the sex scale so I may not have asked for anything truly outrageous.
Other than that, I don’t do pics, or detailed descriptions of copulatory activity, so that’s all for now folks.
Remember,
Take care, lock and load, suit up, and enjoy the ride!
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Hmmm interesting how this Oyibos are subtle and look for quality sex-tourism
at an affordable price!!!
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redsky1
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So its the same nigeria u men are going home to pick wife - I don laugh tire for this issue!!
when i was in school i kept a very low profile on campus in fact i was seen as a serious jew girl i remember how the aristos used to look at me thinking i was below them cos i actuall put my head down and did what i sent to uni to do - that was to study - bigest joke is i was the one that travelled every semester and grew up abroad so it was so funny watching these "big girls" its pure greed and lack of contentment - poverty is not a good enough reason. what about integrity - these are probably the same girls that will leave a good man who is doing well in nigeria and go and marry one americana brother who will take them to "abroad" and when they get there they will shine eye for the man or even worse the man is a drunk and wife beater.
these girls should carry on - as a great believer in karma everybody gets what is coming to them eventually
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candylips (m)
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lol na wa o |
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emiemi (f)
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They are called "Bigs girlz" according to sulia |
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deolu_ajay
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This is just a proof that our economy is terribly gettin worse because in a good economy ,you will have to take a girl out a few times and make her like you and try to show her u care and all sorts because she isnt starving neither does she have parents and siblings to feed, why would a girl with a promising career and parents who care enough to sponsor such education,be willing to suffer the emotional trauma of sleeping with an absolute stranger?back in d days the job used to be for the professional prostitutes only ,but now you can hardly tell.it's too sad,
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sjeezy8
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Yea naija babes are alittle more desperate and call more. The amount of babes that really believe naija guy will marry them when he comes back form abroad is alarming and hilarious. yea ^^^^^ tooooo fineand its also rich babes that fu/ck around, so its definately not a poverty thing. Babes(who are rich) i know give it up EASILY to the sons of govenors, senators and millionaire, billionaire |
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martinosi
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ALARM BELLS ALARM BELLS!!! THE PLOT JUST GETS THICKER AND THE FOOLISHNESS GET DEEPER A FRIEND JUST FORWARDED ME A SOCIAL NETWORK FORUM WHERE NAIJA GIRLS R POSTING THERE NUMBER AND LOCATION FOR LOVE AND FRIENDSHIP!!! CHINEKE!!! MY THE LORD HELP US! *Just cant put myself together to post the link* WHY ! WHY! WHY! IS IT THAT BAD?  |
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danfido (m)
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Hi guys, I've taken some time to read thru these, and I concure to most of the points raised here. I'm presently in school (ANSU) and its more or less a common sight these days for men to come in their cars scouting for girls. Its painful. I kinda liked the issue about those silent, well- trained girls , though from rich homes. My description of a beautiful soul. Lets not also forget the not-so- wealthy ones, who still hold their heads up high in dignity and self respect. Just remembered my talk with a lovely girl I met some weeks back. Had to literally appreciate her calm nature and simplicity. My idea of an ideal woman. To all the ladies out there, including my little sis, just be yourself, and don't try to compete with anyone over wealth or status, and like TI'd say, 'Just Live Your Life' On an offnote pls, I need cool friends as textmates and my cliq on my Etisalat line- 08097028645. Peace!
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Czarskit (m)
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Hmmn. . . Girlfriendism is over for me. Str8 to the monastery. . .
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LadyT (f)
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Its very sad that films like Jenifa make us laugh but dont make us think.
We Africans are the first to scream and cry about having the most respectable cultures and customs yet there is a serious disease killing our future.
GREED!
I know not all cases are the same but the majority of these stupid girls and dirty men do what they do just out of pure greed.
Why wont a pot bellied govt. official waste money on the vagina of the girl, young enough to be his daughter the mony is stolen so what does he care.
The useless University student who comes from a good home where her parents/carers struggle to pay her fess but due to her own greed and the need to be vain and flashy she doesnt mind spreading her legs for her fathers agemates
Some parents are also to blame when you see your child driving car and spending money home to YOU for shopping dont you think its time to step in?
Maybe Nigeria wants to end up like South Africa with a high HIV/AIDS rate or we end up with a generation who cant have children because they have had one or two abortions that went wrong.
We are too greedy and we need to stop it.
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na2day? (m)
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ALARM BELLS ALARM BELLS!!! THE PLOT JUST GETS THICKER AND THE FOOLISHNESS GET DEEPER A FRIEND JUST FORWARDED ME A SOCIAL NETWORK FORUM WHERE NAIJA GIRLS R POSTING THERE NUMBER AND LOCATION FOR LOVE AND FRIENDSHIP!!! CHINEKE!!! MY THE LORD HELP US! *Just cant put myself together to post the link* WHY ! WHY! WHY! IS IT THAT BAD? my friend, better put your shitz together and post that valuable link! |
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redsky1
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LMAO - U PEOPLE WILL KILL ME |
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THE-AMAKA (f)
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na wa ooooo
but there is money to be made and a lot of rich businessmen willing to give it.
i watched a nigerian movie about this once.
its an old movie, from the late 90's.
forgot the title though, i own it here in my house.
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na2day? (m)
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na wa ooooo
but there is money to be made and a lot of rich businessmen willing to give it.
i watched a nigerian movie about this once.
its an old movie, from the late 90's.
forgot the title though, i own it here in my house.
u mean your apt or parent's, maybe guardian house |
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Sisi_Kill
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Rotflmao @ bargaining. How on earth will that convo go? Man - how much? Ashawo - only 50,000 Man - ehn? For what? Ashawo - Haba oga, i'm fresh oh. Nobody has touched me in the last hour. Man - But, Ashawo - look at my breast, just look, touch it. You will see i'm worth the price. Man - yes, it's firm but that price is high now. At unilag the girls there are cheaper. Ashawo - and they also come with all sorts of disease. Oga, i am authentic. I take my bath every other day and i don't smell, alot. Man - i'll pay 20 Ashawo - pay 40 Man - 30 Ashawo - oga look my yansh now and i know many moves oh. Have you heard of Crouching tiger or praying mantis? I invented those moves. Man - 35 Ashawo - ok bring it. I'll just take it because you are new and i like you. Everybody knows i'm worth the price i asked. Oya where's your car? And they naija girls have no head for business! |
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~Sissy~ (f)
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prostitution is a supply and demand sort of business, so dont just lay blame on the ladies alone
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na2day? (m)
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prostitution is a supply and demand sort of business, so dont just lay blame on the ladies alone
they should stop the supply and see if the demand won't go away |
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THE-AMAKA (f)
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Take heart Mama_Gee, its getting better, we have more private universities springing up, the girls doing runs r in the Minority, Even those babes like such below give some campus girls a bad name lol  This one below can run mouth "Haba" her favourite hanging out joint is the "Ikoyi-Club" in Lagos (Not to hard to see why she likes this place!!!) and her favourite tv programme is the "Playboy Mansion" (Your Guess is as good as mine lol!) To top up the Irony she says she is a good "Penticostal-Chick" "ROFLAMO", It goes to show you the Mentality of these "Narrow minded" "naive" and "Ignorant gone sour" girls that are on campuses these days!!! she kinda looks like Liz Benson. |
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~Sissy~ (f)
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they should stop the supply and see if the demand won't go away
when the demand is too much, they will be tempted by the offer and the demands. so you have to balance out the two |
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