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Gettolove (m)
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What's up people?
I am just curious to know if there is a big deal if I decide to pay for having sex. This is common in our everyday life but many may not just realise it.
I think instead of masturbating, I would rather pay for sex and enjoy it while it lasts. You know life is all about this and that, does this have any moral?
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4 Play (m)
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@Gettolove
most hookers have STDs
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Gettolove (m)
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hey don't go there now , i do not mean b**chs alone here , girls in naija will see you as someone who is not really interested in love, but will prefer to have her money while her back is on the floor 
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4 Play (m)
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@Gettolove Girls in Nigeria will give u a threesome for a stick of suya
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Seun (m)
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@4Play: Some hookers insist on using condoms with every client and undergo frequent medical checkups. I expect such hookers to have less STDs than the average university girl who engages in unprotected sex.
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Coco29 (f)
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wow Nigerian men talking about their sisters 
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ikamefa (f)
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hey don't go there now , i do not mean b**chs alone here , girls in naija will see you as someone who is not interested in love but will prefer to have her money while her back is on the floor  @Gettolove Girls in Nigeria will give u a threesome for a stick of suya
it really gives me the hibbies jibbies when guys make sweeping generalisations like this! 
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Coco29 (f)
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@4Play: Some hookers insist on using condoms with every client and undergo frequent medical checkups. I expect such hookers to have less STDs than the average university girl who engages in unprotected sex.
how do u know 
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eniola1310 (f)
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my brother go to PH i heard that u can't get enough there and u don't even have to pay !!  when ua re through just tell your family to start preparing for your funeral. because na u go lap aids abi na aids go lap u come back.
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Raymand (m)
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my brother go to PH i heard that u can't get enough there and u don't even have to pay !!  Wrrd! 
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mrmayor (m)
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A man takes his girlfriend out,buys her clothes,perfume,a car etc;at the end of the night he has spent €2000 and gets a kiss maybe a blowjob if he is lucky he has to deal with her drama,her friends and family = regular dating
The same man goes out pays €200 and gets his brains fu-cked out,no drama,no need to tell the woman where he goes or does = Sin=Prostitution
Whats the difference?
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mrmayor (m)
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The fact is men pay for sex either bygiving money directly or buying gifts for girlfriends,wives,ashawo etc it makes no difference.A popular Nigerian saying"Money For Hand,Back For Ground" aka No Romance without Finance.No money no Punani. Woman can say whatever they want but they only give Punani to those who can pay with money,gifts,influence,power etc
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ThiefOfHearts (f)
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Mayor don't make me break your neck  Besides why do you people keep thinking everyone wants your money? Never needed money. Not now. Not ever. I have my own money and if i wanted to I can pay you all to just shut the hell up. Not all girls sleep with guys for money. Here's a suggestion that you sexist freaks havent thought of, Maybe some do it because they actually LIKE sex as well. SURPRISE!
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gigitte (f)
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lol sorry, i agree with the men here
naija is changing, and it is quite a reasonable generalization to say that if you treat a girl nice monetarily, she will give you sex
so go ahead my dear and pay for that ish at least that way you will know what kind of girl she is.
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raphy (m)
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hi y do u have 2 pay 4 sex u don't have 2 do that u can get d virus.u need 2 get a nize girl go 4 blood check den know how she is make her your girlfriend u can start making love 2 her 
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waleleader (m)
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I am almost convinced that paying for sex is not wrong (i still hold my beliefs though), but what about the issue of sleeping with a strange woman? Regardless whether you are paying or not!
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echowords (m)
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I will advice u as I would advice my own brother,don't let temptation drive u to that angle.I had a friend in school who had this same issue,Masturbation,sex dreams, u name it.at the end of the day he went to a joint,got what he wanted.But till 2day ,his hooked on it like a drug. He was sad enough to confide in me that he hates himself for doing it and he can't face his parents without feeling ashamed and guilty But he just can't stop.
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ThiefOfHearts (f)
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Rofl masturbation leads to hooker addiction?
Lmfao
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echowords (m)
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Rofl masturbation leads to hooker addiction? Did i say that.!
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ThiefOfHearts (f)
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you might as well
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abiodunade (m)
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Basically, i think all men pay 4 sex directly or indirectly, even the woman someone married to, u still pay 4 sex. So nothing goes 4 nothing, u ve to wash your hands to eat elders, that implies that u ve to pay 4 sex to really enjoy yourself with ladies.
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ThiefOfHearts (f)
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, even the woman someone married to, u still pay 4 sex. .
How so? unless you have a lame housewife as a wife. If your wife has a career and is earning her own money how are you still paying for sex?
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LiquidMind (m)
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Any woman who is attracted to having sex with a man because of his wealth or position is a hoe, This is paying for having Sex, and it is wrong
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Radiant (f)
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roflmao. . . . brb 
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mrmayor (m)
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TheifofHearts, My dear I didn't want to sound mean but the fact is women are attracted to men who are more stable financially or atleast on the same status as themselves.I think that career women are more guilty of this because they wouldn't give any man who can not afford to pay their bills even if the woman can afford to pay herself. TOF,you wouldn't give a man who earns much less than you a chance,you would probably tell your girl friends about some loser trying to get fresh with you even if he is the finest man in the world . The fact is its not only a one way traffic,there are women who ACTUALLY PAY FOR SEX,from high power bankers,lawyers and business women. These successful women attract men who want a bit of the action,this is happening all over the world including Nigeria. Mayor don't make me break your neck  Haba wetin I do;I think say we get freedom of expression? Never needed money. Not now. Not ever. I have my own money and if i wanted to I can pay you all to just shut the hell up.
Proves that you can afford to pay me Sex(shut up) Not all girls sleep with guys for money. Here's a suggestion that you sexist freaks havent thought of, Maybe some do it because they actually LIKE sex as well.
Any women who just gives Punani for free is called a Slapper,Skanger in Ireland.She is called DONATUS in Nigeria,No Offense Cheers.
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Radiant (f)
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still roflmao. . . 
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mrmayor (m)
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still roflmao. . .  What's so funny 
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ThiefOfHearts (f)
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Of course I want someone who makes just as much as I do. I don't need anyone mooching off me. Although If they are fine enough but kind of poor, I might give them attention for a certain amount of time  I would never have anyone pay my bills, I was raised by parents who pay for their own stuff and I and my siblings never relied on others for anything. Sometimes I am amused by my friends whop get guys to get them stuff with sweet lies but I've never been the one to try such. I guess I just have too much Pride, who knows I just don't get the generalization. Let's see we have a couple. Both have enough money from working, every once ina while they buy each other stuff for holidays or whatever, would you still say he's paying her for sex? I'm confuzzled. and I don't know why you are saying "no offence" for those words. They have nothing to do with me so why would I be bothered. However it is amusing that there's words for someone who gives sex for money and one who gives sex because she likes having it with whomever. *shrugs* Life's a huge joke in my opinion and why the hell are people now calling me TOF!! 
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Radiant (f)
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Life's a huge joke? lmao. . . *patiently waiting for the next reply*
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nubian (m)
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paying for sex has its advantages, no emotional complications, ties and hassles of a relationship . You just pick what you want of the shelf and get a good f, ck without all the hassles of dating . Besides dating has a lot to do with finance these days . Your "wallet power", counts in getting women . So if all you really want is a "lay", no need for the long stress of "wooing" her ( which involes lots of money anyway), just pay and get you f, ck from a good pro that meets you specifications
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