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Gettolove (m)
Paying For Sex: How Is It Wrong?
« on: December 12, 2006, 06:06 PM »

What's up people?

I am just curious to know if there is a big deal if I decide to pay for having sex.  This is common in our everyday life but many may not just realise it.

I think instead of masturbating, I would rather pay for sex and enjoy it while it lasts.  You know life is all about this and that, does this have any moral?
4 Play (m)
Re: What Is Wrong In Paing For Sex ?
« #1 on: December 12, 2006, 06:07 PM »

@Gettolove

most hookers have STDs
Gettolove (m)
Re: What Is Wrong In Paing For Sex ?
« #2 on: December 12, 2006, 06:15 PM »

hey don't go there now , i do not mean b**chs alone here , girls in naija will see you as someone who is not really

interested in love, but will prefer to have her money while her back is on the floor Grin
4 Play (m)
Re: Paying For Sex: How Is It Wrong?
« #3 on: December 12, 2006, 06:18 PM »

@Gettolove
Girls in Nigeria will give u a threesome for a stick of suya
Seun (m)
Re: Paying For Sex: How Is It Wrong?
« #4 on: December 12, 2006, 06:19 PM »

@4Play:
Some hookers insist on using condoms with every client and undergo frequent medical checkups.
I expect such hookers to have less STDs than the average university girl who engages in unprotected sex.
Coco29 (f)
Re: Paying For Sex: How Is It Wrong?
« #5 on: December 12, 2006, 06:20 PM »

wow Nigerian men talking about their sisters  Shocked  Shocked
ikamefa (f)
Re: Paying For Sex: How Is It Wrong?
« #6 on: December 12, 2006, 06:21 PM »

Quote from: Gettolove on December 12, 2006, 06:15 PM
hey don't go there now , i do not mean b**chs alone here , girls in naija will see you as someone who is not interested in love but will prefer to have her money while her back is on the floor Grin






Quote from: 4 Play on December 12, 2006, 06:18 PM
@Gettolove
Girls in Nigeria will give u a threesome for a stick of suya

it really gives me the hibbies jibbies when guys make sweeping generalisations like this!  Angry

Coco29 (f)
Re: Paying For Sex: How Is It Wrong?
« #7 on: December 12, 2006, 06:21 PM »

Quote from: Seun on December 12, 2006, 06:19 PM
@4Play:
Some hookers insist on using condoms with every client and undergo frequent medical checkups.
I expect such hookers to have less STDs than the average university girl who engages in unprotected sex.


how do u know  Huh Shocked
eniola1310 (f)
Re: Paying For Sex: How Is It Wrong?
« #8 on: December 12, 2006, 06:32 PM »

my brother go to PH
i heard that u can't get enough there and u don't even have to pay !! Wink

when ua re through just tell your family to start preparing for your funeral.
because na u go lap aids abi na aids go lap u come back.


Raymand (m)
Re: Paying For Sex: How Is It Wrong?
« #9 on: December 12, 2006, 07:07 PM »

Quote from: eniola1310 on December 12, 2006, 06:32 PM
my brother go to PH
i heard that u can't get enough there and u don't even have to pay !! Wink

Wrrd!  Cool
mrmayor (m)
Re: Paying For Sex: How Is It Wrong?
« #10 on: December 12, 2006, 07:25 PM »

A man takes his girlfriend out,buys her clothes,perfume,a car etc;at the end of the night he has spent €2000 and gets a kiss maybe a blowjob if he is lucky
he has to deal with her drama,her friends and family = regular dating

The same man goes out pays €200 and gets his brains fu-cked out,no drama,no need to tell the woman where he goes or does = Sin=Prostitution

Whats the difference?
mrmayor (m)
Re: Paying For Sex: How Is It Wrong?
« #11 on: December 12, 2006, 07:38 PM »

The fact is men pay for sex either bygiving money directly or buying gifts for girlfriends,wives,ashawo etc it makes no difference.A popular Nigerian saying"Money For Hand,Back For Ground" aka No Romance without Finance.No money no Punani.
Woman can say whatever they want but they only give Punani to those who can pay with money,gifts,influence,power etc
ThiefOfHearts (f)
Re: Paying For Sex: How Is It Wrong?
« #12 on: December 12, 2006, 07:45 PM »

Mayor don't make me break your neck  Angry Tongue

Besides why do you people keep thinking everyone wants your money?

Never needed money. Not now. Not ever. I have my own money and if i wanted to I can pay you all to just shut the hell up.

Not all girls sleep with guys for money. Here's a suggestion that you sexist freaks havent thought of, Maybe some do it because they actually LIKE sex as well.

SURPRISE!
gigitte (f)
Re: Paying For Sex: How Is It Wrong?
« #13 on: December 12, 2006, 07:48 PM »

lol sorry, i agree with the men here

naija is changing, and it is quite a reasonable generalization to say that if you treat a girl nice monetarily, she will give you sex


so go ahead my dear and pay for that ish
at least that way you will know what kind of girl she is.
lovito (f)
Re: Paying For Sex: How Is It Wrong?
« #14 on: December 12, 2006, 07:55 PM »

Think twice
raphy (m)
Re: Paying For Sex: How Is It Wrong?
« #15 on: December 12, 2006, 08:09 PM »

hi
y do u have 2 pay 4 sex u don't have 2 do that u can get d virus.u need 2 get a nize girl
go 4 blood check den know how she is make her your girlfriend u can start making love 2 her Grin
waleleader (m)
Re: Paying For Sex: How Is It Wrong?
« #16 on: December 12, 2006, 08:20 PM »

I am almost convinced that paying for sex is not wrong (i still hold my beliefs though), but what about the issue of sleeping with a strange woman?
Regardless whether you are paying or not!
echowords (m)
Re: Paying For Sex: How Is It Wrong?
« #17 on: December 12, 2006, 08:32 PM »

I will advice u as I would advice my own brother,don't let temptation drive u to that angle.I had a friend in school who had this same issue,Masturbation,sex dreams, u name it.at the end of the day he went to a joint,got what he wanted.But till 2day ,his hooked on it like a drug.
He was sad enough to confide in me that he hates himself for doing it and he can't face his parents without feeling ashamed and guilty
But he just can't stop.

ThiefOfHearts (f)
Re: Paying For Sex: How Is It Wrong?
« #18 on: December 12, 2006, 08:33 PM »

Rofl masturbation leads to hooker addiction?

Lmfao
kitaun (m)
Re: Paying For Sex: How Is It Wrong?
« #19 on: December 12, 2006, 08:40 PM »

*peeping into thread* Cool

Shocked Shocked Grin
echowords (m)
Re: Paying For Sex: How Is It Wrong?
« #20 on: December 12, 2006, 09:14 PM »

Quote
Rofl masturbation leads to hooker addiction?
Did i say that.!
ThiefOfHearts (f)
Re: Paying For Sex: How Is It Wrong?
« #21 on: December 12, 2006, 09:18 PM »

you might as well
abiodunade (m)
Re: Paying For Sex: How Is It Wrong?
« #22 on: December 12, 2006, 09:22 PM »

Basically, i think all men pay 4 sex directly or indirectly, even the woman someone married to, u still pay 4 sex. So nothing goes 4 nothing, u ve to wash your hands to eat elders, that implies that u ve to pay 4 sex to really enjoy yourself with ladies.
ThiefOfHearts (f)
Re: Paying For Sex: How Is It Wrong?
« #23 on: December 12, 2006, 10:03 PM »

Quote from: abiodunade on December 12, 2006, 09:22 PM
, even the woman someone married to, u still pay 4 sex. .

How so? unless you have a lame housewife as a wife. If your wife has a career and is earning her own money how are you still paying for sex?
LiquidMind (m)
Re: Paying For Sex: How Is It Wrong?
« #24 on: December 12, 2006, 10:11 PM »


Any woman  who is attracted to having sex with a man because of his wealth or position is a hoe,

This is paying for having Sex, and it is wrong
Radiant (f)
Re: Paying For Sex: How Is It Wrong?
« #25 on: December 12, 2006, 10:55 PM »

 roflmao. . .  .brb  Tongue
mrmayor (m)
Re: Paying For Sex: How Is It Wrong?
« #26 on: December 12, 2006, 11:17 PM »

TheifofHearts,

My dear I didn't want to sound mean but the fact is women are attracted to men who are more stable financially or atleast on the same status as themselves.I think that career women are more guilty of this because they wouldn't give any man who can not afford to pay their bills even if the woman can afford to pay herself.

TOF,you wouldn't give a man who earns much less than you a chance,you would probably tell your girl friends about some loser trying to get fresh with you even if he is the finest man in the world .

The fact is its not only a one way traffic,there are women who ACTUALLY PAY FOR SEX,from high power bankers,lawyers and business women. These successful women attract men who want a bit of the action,this is happening all over the world including Nigeria.

Quote from: ThiefOfHearts on December 12, 2006, 07:45 PM
Mayor don't make me break your neck  Angry Tongue

Haba wetin I do;I think say we get freedom of expression?

Quote from: ThiefOfHearts on December 12, 2006, 07:45 PM
Never needed money. Not now. Not ever. I have my own money and if i wanted to I can pay you all to just shut the hell up.

Proves that you can afford to pay me Sex(shut up)

Quote from: ThiefOfHearts on December 12, 2006, 07:45 PM
Not all girls sleep with guys for money. Here's a suggestion that you sexist freaks havent thought of, Maybe some do it because they actually LIKE sex as well.
Any women who just gives Punani for free is called a Slapper,Skanger in Ireland.She is called DONATUS in Nigeria,No Offense

Cheers.
Radiant (f)
Re: Paying For Sex: How Is It Wrong?
« #27 on: December 12, 2006, 11:23 PM »

still roflmao. . .  Grin
mrmayor (m)
Re: Paying For Sex: How Is It Wrong?
« #28 on: December 12, 2006, 11:25 PM »

Quote from: Radiant on December 12, 2006, 11:23 PM
still roflmao. . . Grin

What's so funny Huh
ThiefOfHearts (f)
Re: Paying For Sex: How Is It Wrong?
« #29 on: December 12, 2006, 11:26 PM »

Of course I want someone who makes just as much as I do. I don't need anyone mooching off me.
Although If they are fine enough but kind of poor, I might give them attention for a certain amount of time  Tongue

I would never have anyone pay my bills, I was raised by parents who pay for their own stuff and I and my siblings never relied on others for anything. Sometimes I am amused by my friends whop get guys to get them stuff with sweet lies but I've never been the one to try such. I guess I just have too much Pride, who knows

I just don't get the generalization. Let's see we have a couple. Both have enough money from working, every once ina  while they buy each other stuff for holidays or whatever, would you still say he's paying her for sex? I'm confuzzled.

and I don't know why you are saying "no offence" for those words. They have nothing to do with me so why would I be bothered. However it is amusing that there's words for someone who gives sex for money and one who gives sex because she likes having it with whomever. *shrugs* Life's a huge joke in my opinion


and why the hell are people now calling me TOF!!  Angry Undecided
Radiant (f)
Re: Paying For Sex: How Is It Wrong?
« #30 on: December 12, 2006, 11:30 PM »

Life's a huge joke? lmao. . .  Grin


*patiently waiting for the next reply*
nubian (m)
Re: Paying For Sex: How Is It Wrong?
« #31 on: December 12, 2006, 11:30 PM »

paying for sex has its advantages, no emotional complications, ties and hassles of a relationship . You just pick what you want of the shelf and get a good f, ck without all the hassles of dating . Besides dating has a lot to do with finance these days . Your "wallet power", counts in getting women . So if all you really want is a "lay", no need for the long stress of "wooing" her ( which involes lots of money anyway), just pay and get you f, ck from a good pro that meets you specifications
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