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goodguy (m)
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If she was really serious about keeping the boy away, she wouldn't have created this topic in the first place.
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whiteshark (m)
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well I believe that is another symposium discussion for the future....We will only klnow that after she has answerted this simply but very crucial question... Oya my darlin, shoot
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Dark_Night (m)
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There's gotta be more to it. ...In time, we 'll see.  |
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snazzydawn (f)
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yes,we will see.  |
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whiteshark (m)
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I smell sometin fishy
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aso
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oh pity. Nigeria syndrome. i looked for a professional advise from those that mail you but found none. they all turn it laughing matter. you made it worst by bringing the matter to net for discussion. my dear, u have just drop his self esteem. i never believe he will ever forgive you except if he is kind at heart like me. your kid brother must have read this, how do you want him to feel about his friend. by 21 i expect that you should be more matured than hurting people's feelings. well tell him you're sorry because the deed as already be done. next time when someone ask you out, just tell the person how you feel about you guys going out. presently at my age, I've got a girl six years older than i. and she knows. if she had treated me bad, i don't know what would have happen to my self esteem by now.
nice topic you've got. much love from weekend dreamz.
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davidylan (m)
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the age palaver again? na wa for una? when will you learn that age is just what it is, a number? my first real relationship was when i was 18, she was 24 and believe you me that was the most enjoyable and stressfree relationship i've ever had in my entire life. we were together for about a yr and if u saw us together u'D never believe she was even older than i was. much more mature and sensible than all those tiny agemates of mine then. never once did i see her get angry, not once did she ever raise her voice, would not mind to do anything i asked her to do. extremely nice and likeable. we eventually broke up because she was going to get married soon to someone else her family had already known about. Even after the breakup we remained best of friends till today, 5 years after (though she's yet to be married!). Because of that i find it harder putting up with the foibles of younger girls, too clingy, and their idea of love is the mills and boons stuff. this girl was a down to earth realist and independent. It took me a good 4 years before i asked someone out again and it did not last at all. my brothers, if you are looking for mature ladies for a SERIOUS relationship, abeg don't overlook the older ladies. they make more sense than many of the socalled "sweet 16s" hanging around only looking for what they can get from you! So please all u "old" girls, learn not to look down on younger guys, u may be missing something beautiful. u never know. |
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goodguy (m)
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I feel you bro. Personally, I'D prefer to date an older girl.
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chillin (f)
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hey goodguy how old r u?? lemmee hook u up!
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nike4luv (f)
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i'll tell u his age jare..
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chillin (f)
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go gurl!!! datz what i'm talkin about!!
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nike4luv (f)
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hes..hes..hes um.. um.. vingt deux ans  |
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chillin (f)
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lol lol lol thxs nikezzz i tot he waz trente deux ans!! itz all good tho!! i'D surely hook him up with sum...  |
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WesleyanA (f)
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nike and chillen, you both are wrong. he's only dix sept ans. |
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chillin (f)
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nike and chillen, you both are wrong. he's only dix sept ans. wattt wesley!!! where did u get that from lol lol lol lol dix sept ans??? whoa datz serious!! |
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goodguy (m)
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What's all these supposed to mean??
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alheri (f)
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don't you speak fench? They said youre dix sept ans. So you be small boy?
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goodguy (m)
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I understand what they are saying. It's why they are saying it I don't understand (or like).
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alheri (f)
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ok then. come on guys GG isnt happy about you guys talking about him like that.
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nike4luv (f)
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lol..chilling?..hope i didnt mess with ur head too much..he aint de age i told u and wesley was also messing..hehe..  @ alheri..small boi? u joking write.. actually hes ...... years..{he'll tell u himself} |
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holyghost (m)
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Hi SE...., have gone to re correct the boy as supposed? i need to know how it went
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Z4M4eva (f)
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HolyGhost Power |
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chillin (f)
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 ..chilling?..hope i didnt mess with your head too much..he aint de age i told u and wesley was also messing..hehe.. mess with my head?? nahh...i'm gooood! |
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dakmanzero (m)
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Looks like the issue is not that the boy is *younger than* snazzy. Its more like he is *too young* for her.
That makes sense. But she is also very young as is evidenced by her approach to the issue (trumpeting it to the high heavens....the internet for Ghod's sakes.... and attempting to drive the boy off by humiliating him)
A more mature person would smoothly have fallen into the big sister role and become the boy's guiding hand to a potentially more fulfilling relationship with someone of his own age group.... if he's bold enough to step up to his senior, he will be perfect for his mates. The fact that he is her younger brother's friend should have made this easier.
But what does she do? laugh into his face and attempt to make a fool of him.
Snazz, you could say you simply do not care one jot about him, and couldnt be bothered about becoming his big sister or whatever, but guess what- he's your little brothers friend so you already are his big sister, by proxy. You need to take responsibility sometimes. It isnt always about finding some older guy with pay and a job so u can cling to him and suck him dry. I sincerely hope I am wrong about you, but if you are the type I get the impression you are, I have absolutely no pity for your type when they get whats coming to them.
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CimonJorr (m)
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Intimate places??..  Na I'm you no slap am??... Girl.. to me.. maybe you didn't handle the issue in the correct way at the onset.. No one, and I repeat, no one takes such liberties without any encouragement.. Still, I'm sure you're handling your business.. one way or another.. I must agree with DMZ though.. the issue here appears to be more you than your kid brother's friend.. Are u sure you're not sending out the wrong signals.. Well, since we haven't heard from the "Mare's mouth" on any developments on this since the last time she posted, I guess it's all been sorted..  dakmannwoteva,see,I don't have your time ooo!!!what of when you have tried to be diplomatic with this kid,and he still goes ahead,even touching you in intimate places,do you still maintain that I "be his big sis"?big sis indeed.Some people are so plain ---------- |
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goodguy (m)
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@snazzy, dakmanzero is absolutely right. You shouldn't have brought this up to the internet in the first place. Afterall, he's too young for you, so you should have been able to handle the very young guy. You seem to me like you can't make decisions on your own (no insults intended). You sound as if the guy does things to you that you just have no choice but to accept. Following Lizzy's advice was indeed a very big mistake.
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davidylan (m)
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dakmannwoteva,see,I don't have your time ooo!!!what of when you have tried to be diplomatic with this kid,and he still goes ahead,even touching you in intimate places,do you still maintain that I "be his big sis"?big sis indeed.Some people are so plain ---------- touching you in intimate places? that one is solely your fault. it still boils down to two things? 1. how did you treat the issue the first time the boy brought it up? 2. Does the boy respect you as his friend's elder sister? the fact that the boy was able to touch you shows you either encouraged him (knowingly to taunt him, girls do that!) or he has no shred of respect for you. it might be in your best interest to look inwards and learn to act more maturely. if you carry yourself with respect and dignity, no guy not even a guy 10yrs older than u will touch you anyhow. not to imagine a younger fella who must by now be gloating over "i was able to touch her"! only God knows the exageration he must be telling his friends now! |
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snazzydawn (f)
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there is no need replying you all sef.Those that know whats up know whats up.You people are simply drawing me back.
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