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africhika (f)
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i heard this guy on the radio saying that he doesn't want his girlfriend (who he's been dating for just 2 weeks) to wear sexy clothes outside or go to clubs anymore. (even though he met her in a club!)dozens of women and some men called the radio station saying the guy is being stupid, overprotective, and jealous. but, i've seen ladies LET THEMSELVES GO after they catch a BF (not a husband, just BF). why??? i mean, if she was wearing sexy clothes when you met her, should she stop looking good just becuz she now has a bf?guys, what do you think? ladies welcome too  |
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ibkaye
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Depends on your definition of sexy, there's 'trashy' sexy, then there's 'sophisticated' sexy.
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africhika (f)
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ok, sophistated sexy. what do u think?
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ibkaye
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Well, if she isn't dressing inapropriately I guess I see no harm done, he can't just tell her what and what not to wear (2 weeks mate?).
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ezinne1212 (f)
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hmmm, he's not her father and she's above 18. It's not his place to tell her how to dress, but if he's uncomfortable with how she dresses he can lay his cards down for the chick to know.
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africhika (f)
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it seems like guys can't stand the idea of their GF showing even her legs in public, esp. if she has nice legs. but she was exposing legs b4 the relationship.
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Ebonyeyes (f)
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2weeks Are you kidding me? The idiot hasnt even put a ring on it yet. A bf will not dictate how I dress.
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Delivar (m)
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heey!! If my GF is so bootylicious, I would encourage her to dress nasty sexy so I can have something to boost about in the midst of my guys. yeah baby!!! make me proud.
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Igwe.
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2weeks Are you kidding me? The idiot hasnt even put a ring on it yet. A bf will not dictate how I dress.
Hey sweetie, i think it tells no good of you as you use the term ''idiot'' for people, even when you 've not met with the person before. . . no matter what.
@ Topic,
It depends, the guy could just be a heaven sent.
Dont judge the book by its cover.
Dalu.  |
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Ujujoan (f)
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heey!! If my GF is so bootylicious, I would encourage her to dress nasty sexy so I can have something to boost about in the midst of my guys. yeah baby!!! make me proud.
Are you okay   |
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oge4real (f)
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There is no way I will let a 2 week old bf dictate my dresscode.!
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Igwe.
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oh my ! you'r still on it, c'mon girl, Checked out your profy for the ebony eyes but non was found,lol
@ post, it's not a function of time here, but the advice, is it ok? else whats the big deal. . . Afterall, one can marry someone straight up without bf/gf, dating or what have you.
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africhika (f)
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quote by igwe:
« #8 on: Today at 02:56:27 PM »
@ Topic,
It depends, the guy could just be a heaven sent.
Dont judge the book by its cover.
Dalu. Smiley
so the guy sent by heaven can dictate his GFs attire? |
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CrazyMan (m)
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I would definately monitor the way my girl dresses; because I can't picture myself going out with a girl that dresses like a whore. She definately has to put on something decent or I'm out.
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Igwe.
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so the guy sent by heaven can dictate his GFs attire?
Before nko, some girls are damn too impossible, for me, two wks is even too much.
one can correct someone that is not his gf let alone alone someone you have feelings for.
If she's in love, i bet you, she won't hesitate at all. |
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iice (f)
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Bwahahahahaha tell me how to dress?  Pesin nefa jam rock
It's all about understanding and trust i would say and the kind of woman she is. I know guys who let their gfs go to the club looking all sexy or trashy coz they know who they've got and maybe to tease other guys that they can't have her 
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africhika (f)
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quote by Crazyman:
« #15 on: Yesterday at 08:12:10 PM »
I would definately monitor the way my girl dresses; because I can't picture myself going out with a girl that dresses like a whore. She definately has to put on something decent or I'm out.
crazyman, u don't understand the q. here's what i'm saying, if she was dressing sexy when u met her and u liked it, why should she have to change now that she is your gf?? |
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Hoh-Dee (m)
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wut make sum guys do stuff like tht is due to their insecurity.
thinkin to emselves other guys is gonna b hittin on his gf,cuz she
dress in sum ways, bt i feel sorry 4 da dude u use as an examp
2week relationship & he's already threatened.lol(thts pathetic),
personally, i dnt really giv a F,cuz gurls lik tht rily boost ma EGO.
bt i can tell a GF wut to put on,whenever i ga a special date..ladies luv it @ time wen u do dis, abi i lie?)
they can count on me fashion wise,
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Igwe.
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c'mon people, it takes only a second for a change to occur, there's nothing like insecurity. you can't trade decency with self assurance.
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posakosa (m)
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If he can't buy her clothes, he shouldn't complain about what she wears!
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Hoh-Dee (m)
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c'mon people, it takes only a second for a change to occur, there's nothing like insecurity. you can't trade decency with self assurance.
c'mmn dog, i get yo point.bt most time(99%) of young guys who do dis is bcuz of 1 thang & its INSECURITY, & i fink da guy Africhika is talkin abt here is an AKATA guy, Nw tell me wut AFRICA AMERICAN knw abt decency? & wen we luk @ it in 9ja/Afriko way,as u said decency, y shud u.i say again Y shud u b hittin on a gurl @ a club when u nid a decent lady (y nat go vigil on friday nite,instead of takin ya stanky leg to a club), |
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Igwe.
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If he can't buy her clothes, he shouldn't complain about what she wears!
This reminds me about a friend of mine that gave his gf some money to change her wardrobe as he wasn't comfortable with the mode of her dressing.
That definitely should follow suit. |
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africhika (f)
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quote by Hoh-Dee:
« #22 on: Today at 08:57:15 AM »
i say again
Y shud u b hittin on a gurls @ a club when u nid a decent lady(y nat go vigil on friday nite,instead of takin ya stanky leg to a club),
true talk. and yes, it was akata guy who called in radio station |
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Igwe.
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c'mmn dog, i get yo point.bt most time(99%) of young guys who do dis
is bcuz of 1 thang & its INSECURITY,
& i fink da guy Africhika is talkin abt here is an AKATA guy,
Nw tell me wut AFRICA AMERICAN knw abt decency?
& wen we luk @ it in 9ja/Afriko way,as u said decency, y shud u.i say again
Y shud u b hittin on a gurls @ a club when u nid a decent lady(y nat go vigil, on friday nite),
Still did not understand why you'd be answering dog, Where and how you found your spouse is not my business, I still belief that when the time comes, all fowls shall find their way to their owners, no matter how stubborn they are.
I'm outta here. |
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iice (f)
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c'mon people, it takes only a second for a change to occur, there's nothing like insecurity. you can't trade decency with self assurance. |
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Igwe.
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Don't huh me, you heard me right, if i like you  and asked for some undesirable qualities in you be changed as you would have done if you were in my shoes, and you argued about it, Nne, i'm out.
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y me (f)
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tell me how to dress ko, tell me how to dress ni it all depends on trust tho |
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CrazyMan (m)
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@Africhika.
I won't approach a girl that dresses indecently so the issue of how she has been dressing before we met is totally out of the question.
The only reason that might just make me take my chances is if the girl is quite attractive and I just feel like succumbing to the temptations of the flesh; but trust me, that relationship would be nothing but a mere fling.
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Hoh-Dee (m)
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guess i mix a word in ma post earlier, used hittin on a gurls instead ON A GURL, PARDON ME or u deal wit it(lol), true talk.
and yes, it was akata guy who called in radio station
Thxs dearest, ma post explain it all then (can make it any better), lol Still did not understand why you'd be answering dog, Where and how you found your spouse is not my business, I still belief that when the time comes, all fowls shall find their way to their owners, no matter how stubborn they are.
I'm outta here. lol.hey! Mr man, u jst gotta dil wit it  (dog)jst bin part of me, lol understand sumthang tht a stubborn fowl can b kill by another person, b4 avin da mind of goin back to d owner, lol i hope u not tryna go 2 club & find a soul mate thinkin i can change her(lol)  ask ppeo wey don try am& u sound lik a pretty young man arnd late20s/30s --cuz u talk lik 1, A man start talkin abt DECENCY wen ready to settle down, sum1 presentable to take to mama & papa, i can sense settling down in ya post, Best of luck man, lol |
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