poster:
1) What do you mean, exactly, by "buttons not showing up well?" It is possible to explain what "well" is so that we know the opposite? I guess my point here is that we aren't mind readers. Looking at the page, where the buttons are (assuming my idea of buttons equals yours) look fine to me.
2)
just finished the designing work with MS Frontpage
a) Does your host support front page extensions? If not, that is your problem right there.
b) Why use a 3rd party FTP program? I haven't used frontpage since 2000 or so but last I used it, it had its own in-built file transfer program. All you do is click the necessary button, specify ftp address, username and password, and frontpage does the rest for you.
good luck!