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kolaa007 (m)
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i caught my girl friend in bed with another woman, what should i do???i am confused here she is a lesbian ,
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CrazyMan (m)
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Maybe she's into that awful act because of your inability to show her proper love and care. Therefore, I would suggest that you sit her down an have a heart to heart chat with her; tell her how you feel about her and how disappointed and heart broken you felt when you caught her in bed with another woman.
If she decides to change, fine. If she doesn't, then you better look else where for the love of your life.
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Eshyy (m)
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U must be a joker u saw dat & u're askin wat 2 do, comeon its u lucky day 4 a 3some.
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Ebonyeyes (f)
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You should have joined them, I thought that was every mans dream  |
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CrazyMan (m)
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Ebony, you no good
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CrazyMan (m)
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Ebony, you no good
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CrazyMan (m)
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Ebony, you no good
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Ani Lee (f)
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You should have joined the, I thought that was every mans dream
@crazy, wats up wit dem repeated posts? got probs dat side?Maybe she's into that awful act because of your inability to show her proper love and care. Therefore, I would suggest that you sit her down an have a heart to heart chat with her; tell her how you feel about her and how disappointed and heart broken you felt when you caught her in bed with another woman.
If she decides to change, fine. If she doesn't, then you better look else where for the love of your life.
gotta say this makes good sense |
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Ebonyeyes (f)
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Ebony, you no good
Free me jare you know say I dey talk the truth  |
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CrazyMan (m)
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@Ani lee. Yea I'm cool. I guess its server problem. When the server is slow, it behaves like that. @Ebony. Trut for where?  |
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justwise (m)
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You should have joined them, I thought that was every mans dream I always knew that there is something freeky about u |
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julian_H (m)
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My brother, this shits happen from time to time;
and to tell you the truth they are very few women who have not done that and that does not - necessary make such girls lesbians.
A (true) lesbian will never date a man!
Y?
Men irritate them just like a man irritate you who is straight!
Just ask around; some will admit it and some will not.
I remember being in Abuja sometime 2 years ago for 2days.
My chicks very close friend came to the house and for lack of things to do
they started watching adult movies.
One thing led to the other and they did it!
Did I catch them in the act?
No Sir!
She told me when I came back because she felt bad after all.
what I did, told her to put it behind her!
Today she is my wifey!!!!!!!!!
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Ebonyeyes (f)
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My brother, this shits happen from time to time;
and to tell you the truth they are very few women who have not done that and that does not - necessary make such girls lesbians.
A (true) lesbian will never date a man!
Y?
Men irritate them just like a man irritate you who is straight!
Just ask around; some will admit it and some will not.
I remember being in Abuja sometime 2 years ago for 2days.
My chicks very close friend came to the house and for lack of things to do
they started watching adult movies.
One thing led to the other and they did it!
Did I catch them in the act?
No Sir!
She told me when I came back because she felt bad after all.
what I did, told her to put it behind her!
Today she is my wifey!!!!!!!!!
Dayum. An openminded 9JA guy? Kudos to you.I always knew that there is something freeky about u
Im just speaking from a guys perspective  @Ebony. Trut for where? |
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PHILEOLOVE (m)
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HI,
IT SHOWS U DON'T KNOW HER.CALL FOR A MEETING,HAVE A HEART TO HEART CHAT,DON'T BE TOO HARD.
FROM NOW ON,ORGANISE AN OUTING TO GET THE REAL HER OUT & SO THAT AN INFLUENCE CAN MADE ON WEAKNESS SUCH WILL BE STRONG.THERE MIGHT BE AN UNDERLYING FACTOR THAT IS RESPONSIBLE FOR IT.
GOD HELP U.
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desthan (m)
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opens a pack of gum, chewing irrirably, @poster, How can i get in touch with her please 
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justwise (m)
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Dayum. An openminded 9JA guy? Kudos to you.Im just speaking from a guys perspective The truth from a mans perspective I trust u and your cheeky brain. |
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oge4real (f)
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I think you should find out if it is a regular thing or just a one-time mistake. That will be the determinant of your next line of action.
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kolaa007 (m)
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thank you all for your advice but its so ridiculous cos i am sure we enjoy sex when we are doing it cos of the shouts and the moans i get maybe she was faking it after all.some of you say i should get in bed with them do you guys know what is love this is my fiance that i am hoping to marry if it was one of my ashewo that will be a different case one thing that is on my mind is that she will keep doing it no matter what she is asking for my forgiveness but i am not going back to her,
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Dr. Lorenz (m)
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@kola I'm happy you brought this up. I've always wanted to ask a question such as the one you asked but never had the time to. I personally don't believe that you weren't doing your job properly that's why she did what she did. U should consider these: 1. The fact that she did it and begged you won't stop her from doing it again (99%). 2. If she decides to do it again, believe me, you won't catch her next time. 3. 'Only once' can make someone hooked to something. Is it sex, smoking, drinking etc etc? I know of a guy who's gay and when i 'interrogated' him, he said it was just asking about the 'phenomenon' called homosexuality that made him so cus he found out that later on, he developed the feelings. My advice is this: Even if she wasn't a lesbian before, the feelings will not just go away. She might not be a full blown lesbian, but she deff is bi. Afterall, she has sex with you too.  So if you know you can cope with that, then go ahead, forgive her and continue. But if not, well, just forget her and move on. I think you should find out if it is a regular thing or just a one-time mistake. That will be the determinant of your next line of action.
From the storyline, i don't think it was a one-time thing. @Julian She's your wifey. Thank God for that. It doesn't mean that there's no possibility of her doing it or done it after you were married. Anyway i guess that's your own case. We're . U must be a joker u saw dat & u're askin wat 2 do, comeon its u lucky day 4 a 3some.
For you maybe. You should have joined them, I thought that was every mans dream Not every man. From what you said, i wouldn't be surprised if you're 'caught in the same act' too. I dey watch you with one eye closed HI,
IT SHOWS U DON'T KNOW HER.CALL FOR A MEETING,HAVE A HEART TO HEART CHAT,DON'T BE TOO HARD.
FROM NOW ON,ORGANISE AN OUTING TO GET THE REAL HER OUT & SO THAT AN INFLUENCE CAN MADE ON WEAKNESS SUCH WILL BE STRONG.THERE MIGHT BE AN UNDERLYING FACTOR THAT IS RESPONSIBLE FOR IT.
GOD HELP U.
Do men really know women? If it were to be you, i don't think you'd be saying so, rather you'd be wondering so |
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omega25red (m)
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i caught my girl friend in bed with another woman, what should i do???i am confused here she is a lesbian ,
Mumu and you are here complaining instead of you to join in then complain. you don miss your opportunity besides your relationship is over which is why you should have ended it with a BANG literally and figuratively. |
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kolaa007 (m)
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seriously all this while when they talk of gay people and lesbians i thought we did not have things like that in naija but now i know the truth its for real, what is nigerian turning into and to think i knew this gal for 8 months she said that was her first time but a thief will always tell you that is the first time its over i feel bad and also happy at the same time , does anybody know of any chatroom for naija people?
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Dr. Lorenz (m)
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Mumu and you are here complaining instead of you to join in then complain. you don miss your opportunity besides your relationship is over which is why you should have ended it with a BANG literally and figuratively.
Guy go and sleep! |
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ariblaze (m)
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i dont know why you had to ask this question
join in the act
kapish
two for the price of one , . . .lol
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kolaa007 (m)
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but why say all of una all u think of is sex,
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aisha2 (f)
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Poster, yeh right, you wish. Too much of nollywood melts the brain.
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Dr. Lorenz (m)
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Poster, yeh right, you wish. Too much of nollywood melts the brain.
What did you mean by too much of nollywood? Do you mean he watches too much of nigerian movies? What has that got to do with his problem? |
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kolaa007 (m)
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i dont watch nollywood films i dont watch naija films,
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Dr. Lorenz (m)
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i dont watch nollywood films i dont watch naija films,
I was asking aisha2 so that she'd explain more. . . |
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jassie (m)
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*Just passing by and singing t-pain's my girl got a girlfriend*
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rooney86 (m)
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opportunity comes but once.
u missed a 3some.
damn!!!
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