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dotman (m)
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I had i little mixed feelings about this event. I bumped into an old friend and i was happy to see until he said i miss you in a pertionate manner. i was happy to see him but i dont thinks he is allowed to say this.
Does this mean that guys are not allowed to say some certain things due to the rules of engagement or its just me? answers would determine how difficult it is for men to express themselves somthimes.
So are men allowed to openly say i miss you to a guy without been regarded as being gay faggish
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Shola2009 (m)
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N00!!, are u a mugu??  its ok for guys to miss each other!and say it too, unless he says, it then bats his eyelashes, |
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dotman (m)
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thats why i said 'if he says it in a funny way  |
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abrahym (m)
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Kini big deal? U gotta negative thinking@ poster
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whiteroses (f)
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does he live in nigeria oh then it doesnt m,atter anything goes in nigeria boys hug each other and stuff but if its UK its gay he shouldnt say that he should know better
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Ebonyeyes (f)
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Ok did he say it while smacking your bottom and looking at you like a piece of meat?  If yes then grab your coat hunny you have pulled  |
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Shola2009 (m)
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Ok did he say it while smacking your bottom and looking at you like a piece of meat? If yes then grab your coat hunny you have pulled lol,  Ebonyeyesssssssss |
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Ebonyeyes (f)
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Im just saying |
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puskin
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@ebony. .
Y is it U must alwayz add your own extra? ?
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CrazyMan (m)
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There's nothing wrong if a guy tells you he misses you. Where we would have a problem is if he tells you that he loves you.
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Ebonyeyes (f)
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@ebony. .
Y is it U must alwayz add your own extra? ?
I cant help it Its all jokes though I hope no one takes me seriously  |
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honsule (m)
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thats why i said 'if he says it in a funny way that is the key word" in a funny way".so what do u think? |
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dotman (m)
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Kini big deal? U gotta negative thinking@ poster that why i specifically included ina funny way he doesnt have to say i love, and in nigeria fags are now springing up more and more, thy even got their own club on the island now |
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mystikal (m)
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in today's world, the biblical David & Jonathan friendship would be considered very gay.
we're too sensitive sometimes
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faakay (m)
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I hate to hear that word from a guy sincerely, It pisses me off!! I miss you? What ?  Maybe in another way of approach!! Guy we don miss u for here ooo, I don miss u die!! guy!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and others stuffs like that But like ~ I miss you ~!! shit I will just snob or twist the topic! |
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chidyke77 (m)
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I hate to hear dat too frm a guy rather use 'its bn long' or 'longest time' dat wuld b more appropriate for me.
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dotman (m)
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Guy we don miss u for here ooo, I don miss u die!! guy!!!!!!!!!!!!!! very much better thank you in today's world, the biblical David & Jonathan friendship would be considered very gay. we're too sensitive sometimes the worl den was alot beta. nowadays you dnt kno who is straight or bended. |
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r231 (m)
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did he HUG you and then said that plus what was the relationship btw you and him b4. If you 2 are like very close b4 den maybe he did miss u for real cus he hasn't hrd frm u i a while
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OMO IBO (m)
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Fcuk that sh1t.
There are things guys shouldn't say to each other and 'i miss you' is one of those.
I'd be wary of that guy if i were you.
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justwise (m)
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Ok did he say it while smacking your bottom and looking at you like a piece of meat? If yes then grab your coat hunny you have pulled Typical!! Not suprise at all |
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Ebonyeyes (f)
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Typical!! Not suprise at all
Im an angel  |
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justwise (m)
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Im an angel Yea i know, can't do without an angel like u |
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membelle
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>:(men dis aint no issue u should know that everyone has a way of expressin their gestures, it depends on the kind of friendship u guys have if its a dude kind then so wat if he tells u he miss u he means it in a botherly way I mean u should know if your homies has gay traits and wat being gay is all about I feel u too nid to check urself cos wen a guy starts feelin insecured around anoda guy then he has a problem,
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sandee575
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wear extra underwear
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yemmy_tee
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Well you guyz have done well, it all depends on how he said it, never heard a guy say that before but am sure he doesnt mean it the way you taking it, but you too need to check yourself cos a normal guy wont read meanings to this,
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Nezan (m)
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We have gays in 9ja these days, be careful!
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triistar86
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Seriously why would you want to read an extra meaning to your friend saying he misses you. . . . Are we saying that is only allowed btw a guy and a girl or btw a girl and a girl. . .?
@poster Abeg go check yourself. . . . As long as your refer to him a s a friend then I am guessing you know the type of person he is.
And why all of a sudden have we all decided to give powers to harmless words.
I tire for this world o. . . Make everything just kuku end sharp sharp!!!!
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Macgreat (m)
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Abi, tire Ooo
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