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julian_H (m)
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I was with a friend last night and what he told me really got me thinking! We (myself and him) really need your advice before things goes awry!
What? You may ask.
Here is the story:
He is married to his sweet heart of so many years and they are presently having problem sex problem!
She seems to detest sex since their engagement and subsequent marriage!
I asked if it had always been that way and he answered in the negative.
Before this time it (sex) was really an exciting and wonderful experience as it was something they both looked forward to.
He confided in me that one of the reason(s) (apart) from love was because he thought they were very compactable in bed as she seemed to be on the same wavelength with him sexually and he saw this as good since he would not want to cheat when married but all that had changed since he married her.
Severally he told me that he had had to go get his sexual appetite satisfied by some of his old chicks and this really makes him feel bad afterward.
He has tried discussing the issue with her severally but she feels that he complains unnecessary!
People a word for a troubled pal please.
WE DEY WAIT!
Thank you.
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candylips (m)
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that sucks pal
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smooooooth
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she's a witch. women like that shld not be touched with a 10ft pole. she is out to ruin his sexual career.  |
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izeek (m)
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we now have sexual careers!
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whitelexi (m)
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Na women like this dey promote uni girls/married aristo relationships  Give the guy the thing till him belle full! |
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jaystunt
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Now dis is sum serious itsh! Why would a woman wanna even think of doing that?My dear,I feel theres more to this than meets the eyes.Get dis man to explain more clearly 2u(He could be hiding sum selfguilty facts frm u jst cos u're a lady).
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Ebonyeyes (f)
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There is more to this story than meets the eye.
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izeek (m)
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yes there is more than meets the eyes,
but the koko be say she no dey give am do!
how dare utell your hubby to go get satisfaction outside.
if nah me, i don go since morning.
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fizzybaba (m)
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she's a witch. women like that shld not be touched with a 10ft pole. she is out to ruin his sexual career. EXCUSE ME! |
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sexybabes (f)
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she's a witch. women like that shld not be touched with a 10ft pole. she is out to ruin his sexual career. WTF? |
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Ebonyeyes (f)
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WTF?
NL has shown me that we still have 6th century men running about in society God help us all |
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scottN (m)
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Shey they've finally married, who is she saving it for again? Unless there is more to this story that meets the eye!
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sexybabes (f)
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@ topic
Me thinks the dude did something to his wife & she is punishing him. He must tell you the whole story.
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sexybabes (f)
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NL has shown me that we still have 6th century men They need an upgrade! |
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candylips (m)
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na which planet una come from sef
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joxiri
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sexual career lol
this is harsh though men d guy and d babe should go for counselling or he should simply give her an ultimatum to change her ways or leaves her theres no point being in such a relationship cos he will only go and stray and who can blame him
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julian_H (m)
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jaystunt
AM NOT A LADY/WOMAN/GIRL.
people seem to misunderstand that.
Am a MAN!
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Ujoan
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There is more to this story than meets the eye.
I agree with you!  |
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chaircover (f)
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There is certainly more going on than your friend is disclosing.
Has she caught him pants down with another woman?
She could be pregnant, tired, punishing him for something he has done, she could be ill, finds sex painful, he doesn't give enough foreplay, doesn't show her any affection apart from in the bedroom, she could be on medication that is lowering her libido etc . . .it could be a result of anything.
Surely there must be a reason for this and rather than your friend having illicit sexual encounters all over the place he should invest time in trying to work out what the problem is and they both solving it together.
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Ohsisi
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I was with a friend last night and what he told me really got me thinking! We (myself and him) really need your advice before things goes awry!
What? You may ask.
Here is the story:
He is married to his sweet heart of so many years and they are presently having problem sex problem!
She seems to detest sex since their engagement and subsequent marriage!
I asked if it had always been that way and he answered in the negative.
Before this time it (sex) was really an exciting and wonderful experience as it was something they both looked forward to.
He confided in me that one of the reason(s) (apart) from love was because he thought they were very compactable in bed as she seemed to be on the same wavelength with him sexually and he saw this as good since he would not want to cheat when married but all that had changed since he married her.
Severally he told me that he had had to go get his sexual appetite satisfied by some of his old chicks and this really makes him feel bad afterward.
He has tried discussing the issue with her severally but she feels that he complains unnecessary!
People a word for a troubled pal please.
WE DEY WAIT!
Thank you.
looks to me that this tale is about you. So what exactly did you to to this woman? |
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y me (f)
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we need the full story @poster  |
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candylips (m)
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y me u wan hear the full load down. to the minute detail  |
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y me (f)
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y me u wan hear the full load down. to the minute detail yes o i just hate slacking jare  |
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sandee575
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this is post marital frigidity syndrome(PMFS). a common occurence among
african women following marriage.
@poster
u had better accept your fate and do what you gotta do
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ikeyman00 (m)
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@@@@@
if u really wana know, right ask becomerich
u think those satellite emancipated for a joke
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tenhap (m)
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There is certainly more going on than your friend is disclosing.
Has she caught him pants down with another woman?
She could be pregnant, tired, punishing him for something he has done, she could be ill, finds sex painful, he doesn't give enough foreplay, doesn't show her any affection apart from in the bedroom, she could be on medication that is lowering her libido etc . . .it could be a result of anything.
Surely there must be a reason for this and rather than your friend having illicit sexual encounters all over the place he should invest time in trying to work out what the problem is and they both solving it together.
Wetin all this long list of possibilities come mean? Bottom line is, i wonder why women always want to play messiahs when it comes to, and pleaseeeee, what's this stuff about 'punishing him for something he has done'? Do wives still do that these days? My wife tries that, i guess she turns out to be the one that 'needs an upgrade'!!!
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bisiaet
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No reason deny her husband sex except their is a problem somewhere in the marriage which is best known to either of them
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al-qaeda (m)
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cuz she's a bitch.
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chupcake (m)
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mehn, thats some wild shi*, I think there is more to the story but if there is nothing more to it,Mehn, Let him continue getting the satisfaction outside and other things will fall into place.Believe me,They will,
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snowdrops (m)
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Sexual career!! Una go kill person o.  |
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sexyLeamon (f)
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It’s a friend’s marriage so its none of your business – remember you are asking on behalf of the two of them but you only have permission from one.
Approaching sex like it’s something the husband (or wife) is entitled to is what causes sexual dissatisfaction. It must be a statement of love between both parties.
So, if one partner doesn’t want it the other person is not entitled to it.
Therefore the only solution is for them – between themselves – to work this out and figure how they can enjoy a healthy sex life together and express the love they feel for each other.
Remember its none of your business to post this unless you have prmission from both of them or, as is more likely, the subject is actually you.
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dayokanu (m)
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So sex is now a means of punishment. I am sure this woman would cry to the heavens when the guy in question starts extra marital affairs.
The woman dey play with fire
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