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Seismic007 (m)
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As a single lady, u met this guy and start dating. You both got to really love each other after sometime and now he demands for sex. You are a virgin and the guy told you he's not really freaked with ladies keeping virginity till marriage; besides he's been used to having sex with his ex-girls. You can feel the guy really loves you and might be willing to marry you but u don't want to give up your virginity yet. Then by being sincere, he asked you if you will allow him to shag other willing girls while he keeps you till wedding night. This means he won't be spending all his free times with you as u might have to give way for some fast-runs  . Would you be willing to accept this condition or u'd rather give-in since he'd still be the one to deflower u anyways  . Comments are needed from ladies and guys too can share their experience. |
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ibkaye
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No conditions  |
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Ebonyeyes (f)
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As a single lady, u met this guy and start dating. You both got to really love each other after sometime and now he demands for sex. You are a virgin and the guy told you he's not really freaked with ladies keeping virginity till marriage; besides he's been used to having sex with his ex-girls. You can feel the guy really loves you and might be willing to marry you but u don't want to give up your virginity yet. Then by being sincere, he asked you if you will allow him to shag other willing girls while he keeps you till wedding night. This means he won't be spending all his free times with you as u might have to give way for some fast-runs . Would you be willing to accept this condition or u'd rather give-in since he'd still be the one to deflower u anyways . Comments are needed from ladies and guys too can share there experience. They say that to every girl hun. He probably said that to the girl before this and the one before that one and the list goes on. This is a sticky situation has he put a ring on her fingers? have they set a date? |
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Seismic007 (m)
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They say that to every girl hun. He probably said that to the girl before this and the one before that one and the list goes on. This is a sticky situation has he put a ring on her fingers? have they set a date?
No date fixed yet, of course the guy needs at least one year before he can be fully fit to marry  . |
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speachless (m)
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@poster u said u ve com 2 realize he realy loves u.if he realy does,he wont want to lose u.i think u shld give him 2 opptions of either getting wat he want outside nd loosing u.u shld nt loose wat u ve kept dis far.i beleive he wil sorcorm if he truly loves u.
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Ebonyeyes (f)
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No date fixed yet, of course the guy needs at least one year before he can be fully fit to marry . I think if he truly loves you he will appreciate you the way you are and wait that means he will not be messing with other girls while the both of you are exclusive. |
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posakosa (m)
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I know many men who do this, they fcuk other girls while keeping their wifey virgins, my conclusion and observation: he will NOT stop shagging other girls even after marriage and after u've lost your virginity, cause guess what ? u're probably pregnant now and he will continue his fcuking galore,
Love IMO concurs all, even if you both choose to have sex before or after marriage , if he loves you, he will be dedicated to you and you only. Virginity is no guarantee for success in marriage.
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kathreen (f)
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rita dats 2 silly of u.na luv blind u reach dat extent? |
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iice (f)
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 Did he miss the part of her telling him she will remain a virgin till marriage before dating her?
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bawomolo (m)
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I know many men who do this, they fcuk other girls while keeping their wifey virgins, my conclusion and observation: he will NOT stop shagging other girls even after marriage and after u've lost your virginity, cause guess what ? u're probably pregnant now and he will continue his fcuking galore,
Love IMO concurs all, even if you both choose to have sex before or after marriage , if he loves you, he will be dedicated to you and you only. Virginity is no guarantee for success in marriage.
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stillwater (f)
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As a single lady, u met this guy and start dating. You both got to really love each other after sometime and now he demands for sex. You are a virgin and the guy told you he's not really freaked with ladies keeping virginity till marriage; besides he's been used to having sex with his ex-girls. You can feel the guy really loves you and might be willing to marry you but u don't want to give up your virginity yet. Then by being sincere, he asked you if you will allow him to shag other willing girls while he keeps you till wedding night. This means he won't be spending all his free times with you as u might have to give way for some fast-runs . Would you be willing to accept this condition or u'd rather give-in since he'd still be the one to deflower u anyways . Comments are needed from ladies and guys too can share their experience. For him to have the audacity to say that not even because of the act, I'll kick him to the curb. I bet you told him you wouldn't be having sex before marriage. Why did he go all the way to date you if he knows he cannot keep his thing on a leash for the meantime? |
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scottN (m)
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I know many men who do this, they fcuk other girls while keeping their wifey virgins, my conclusion and observation: he will NOT stop shagging other girls even after marriage and after u've lost your virginity, cause guess what ? u're probably pregnant now and he will continue his fcuking galore,
Love IMO concurs all, even if you both choose to have sex before or after marriage , if he loves you, he will be dedicated to you and you only. Virginity is no guarantee for success in marriage.
You are on point fella. If she likes let her oblige and watch how some1 else takes her man. Love surpasses Virginity o! |
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faakay (m)
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Since you are in a relationship with her.
Why shagging other girls?
Thats bad!
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iice (f)
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I guess he thought he would jump that bridge when the time came i.e she would have been blown away by his charm and money that she would have dropped her pants when he snapped his fingers.  |
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Hotstepper (f)
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The guy is not serious, she shouldnt allow him 2 shag other girl and she shouldnt loose her virginity cuz of him either cuz at the end of the day, shit can still happen, bottom line, dem 2 should go their separate ways
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rita@NL (m)
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rita dats 2 silly of u.na luv blind u reach dat extent? What is silly abt it my dear ? I'm nt willing to give and he can get it else where,why should i bother? Even if i give,he will still get more outside ,so what's the point. |
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Ebonyeyes (f)
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It does happen but sometimes, guys hit a roadblock and can't have their way. They get the feathers all ruffled and what not and come up with hilarious scenarios like the topic of this thread.
I dont believe this man loves this girl because if he does he will not even think of suggesting something so ridiculous. |
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iice (f)
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Ahh but people can be manipulative, just as people can be deluded. The mind can be a feeble thing
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rita@NL (m)
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The lady should be happy he suggested it,what if he didnt n he was doin it else where ?
Some women sef,give your men free hand,you are nt even married to him yet.So let him groove.
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Ebonyeyes (f)
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Hopefully he doesnt come back with HIV |
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rita@NL (m)
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Hopefully he doesnt come back with HIV What you should understand is, you cant stop these men,even the married ones. We should just keep prayin they dont ruin us. |
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Ben-10
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rabbish |
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Johnnny (m)
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What you should understand is, you cant stop these men,even the married ones.
We should just keep prayin they dont ruin us.
@rita Are u male or female. Check your sex status well on the profile. it is showing you as a male. |
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Ebonyeyes (f)
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What you should understand is, you cant stop these men,even the married ones.
We should just keep prayin they dont ruin us.
So we are reduced to praying and hoping for the best even if they go out and play wow |
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BlueDiva (f)
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Offer him non-penetrative options.
If he declines, let him walk out.
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bawomolo (m)
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lol@non penetrative options.
you can as well perform the act rather than giving the poor dude blue balls. these women
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MrPrsdent (m)
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we know women very well.SOON she will make the guy smile b4 wedding day.
virginity?? what a disgusting word
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ikeyman00 (m)
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@@@ i see the reason tpia is so stressed out  tpia never worry; i go better ooo |
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