When Your Heart Is Broken:

How do you react when your heart has been broken by someone whom you love? Are you a stoic? Or do you sulk and grumble and complain about it? Do you end up hating the person? Do you vow to give hell to the opposite sex because of what has been done to you? Would you go the whole gamut to become outright gay/lesbian? Please be honest in your response.

The best thing to do when your heart is broken is to let go

Word of advice: Always envision being heartbroken even in the sweetest moments of the relationship, so that when it happens, it will not be a shocker because with naija babes u cannot predict the future; So, like my bestest friend and mentor in female affairs (Bobby!) always says, "With Nigerian women, expect not the unexpected, but the impossible".

@Radiant: I don't even want to talk to u right now because i just recieved a msg laced with stamps from magheru

Anyways, that method has worked for me over the years, once u master it, it gives u freedom to say things u would hardly say (for fear of ending the relationship), do things u would normally avoid. It made me alot more open-minded and straightforward, i don't beat around the bush anymore_{if u know what i mean}
Its a good approach and i'm sure some will agree, but just as one man's food is another man's poison; i don't expect it to work for everyone. Some people just dread the thought of a blissful relationship coming to an end, but they forget that the hottest love has the coldest end

maybe u'll sulk

u might cry

u might hate everyone around u

u might wallow in sorrow

u might be depressed and fraustrated

but one thing for sure is that, with time. . u'll get over it.

I once had a neighbor, a lady, who turned fully lesbian because she had been jilted. Till date, she's refused to marry or have anything to do with any man.

@whitelexi,i feel u boy,u yarn well.expect the unexpected from ladies not only nigerian girls.

-you could handle it the way i started handling mine: sulk!!! as in really sulk!!! feel sorry for yourself and think that nothing good in life ever lasts

-you could handle a heart-break the way mukina would,  take every oppurtunity you get to nail the integrity of the opposite sex and say constantly that you'D never give yourself again to any other person

-you could go the way of other cowards (the word's mine): Sleep around with any willing individual (ehm,  i said willing o!!! no raping please!!!) or just go gay/lesbo, 

-you could go the way of the pessimists: and say its just not possible to av a successful relationship, not hold a grudge about anyone but just search for "happines in other places"

-or you could pick yourself up, be honest enough to evaluate the causes of the previous heartbreak(s), determine to be better where its your fault and then dare to move on in life.

I personaly reccommend the last possibility, i've found out that no mata the numba of previous heart-breaks you've had, it only takes the right partner to make it seem like they were just a figment of ur imagination

. that's a good one  

I like that. 

hhhmmmm

What do you want me to do?
i'll just put in more efforts and make my life look more meaningful so if we happen to meet, my levels would be far above her's .
by this time, she would be the one regreting why she left me.

When u start appreciating life, u will definitely start handling break-ups more appropriately, its not the end of life. Its just a temporary setback, a trivial loss of mental and emotional stability, can be handled properly by showing maturity - if u're highly motivated, people wont even notice!

_{on very special arrangement, the devil can go to heaven}