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Radiant (f)
How Do You Cope Without Sex?
« on: October 09, 2009, 05:32 PM »

I was just wondering how married people cope without sex when they're far from each other. Let's say the man is doing business in Nigeria while his family is abroad and they probably see 3/4 times a year or even less. How do these two cope without cheating?  Shocked

Ermm. . . this is not the Black and White thread pls. This is real. Thanks for your understanding  Grin


Drunk
Re: How Do You Cope With Sex?
« #1 on: October 09, 2009, 06:23 PM »

First, are you married?
chamotex (m)
Re: How Do You Cope Without Sex?
« #2 on: October 09, 2009, 08:28 PM »

The Man Wanks

The Woman - hmmn A big ass Dildo
Radiant (f)
Re: How Do You Cope Without Sex?
« #3 on: October 09, 2009, 08:37 PM »

I'm not married. Must I be married before I can ask such a question?

You know people normally say, "if my boyfriend/girlfriend cheats I'll forgive her but if my husband or wife cheats I'll leave them". I mean, I find it hard to believe that people don't cheat while their spouse is away for long periods.

This brings me back to my question-how do married people cope without sex (with their partner)?
2Legit2Qui
Re: How Do You Cope Without Sex?
« #4 on: October 10, 2009, 02:55 PM »

the woman copes with toys, the man copes by fu cking female orifice all alive.
macfarland
Re: How Do You Cope Without Sex?
« #5 on: October 10, 2009, 03:54 PM »

It is very possible for married couple to keep to their matrimonial vows and stay faithful to each other no matter how long apart they may be, most especially when the two have the fear of God in them and have built their marriage that way too. I know in those good old days, spouses try to stay faithful to each other as a proof for love, civility for culture, decency for morality and respect for God. But today in our present generation sexual promuscuity knows no bound. Seeing what is happening in the society today, I pause to wonder if sex has got sweeter these days than ever before. I cant vouch for anyone anymore!
nwaka_80 (f)
Re: How Do You Cope Without Sex?
« #6 on: October 13, 2009, 12:46 PM »

If i can cope without sex now that am single, am not saying am a virgin o before some people go begin wag their tongues, just that it's not a do or die affair then why can't i do without it for some time of my husband's absence when i get married, abi na food.
!amebo no1
Re: How Do You Cope Without Sex?
« #7 on: October 13, 2009, 12:55 PM »

Wherever he is , i is

Its not easy especially if you have a professional in bed as a partner Kiss

i cant cope Lips sealed ( not saying i will cheat either Undecided , he is free to travel for a couple of weeks Cool , but when he comes back, he has to replace the lost virtue Grin Grin Grin
rosepearl (f)
Re: How Do You Cope Without Sex?
« #8 on: October 13, 2009, 01:04 PM »

the last one we did will linger till he comes
whiteroses (f)
Re: How Do You Cope Without Sex?
« #9 on: October 14, 2009, 12:07 AM »

Quote from: rosepearl on October 13, 2009, 01:04 PM
the last one we did will linger till he comes
exclusive to you only i gbadun NL members "it will linger till he comes"lmao
Radiant (f)
Re: How Do You Cope Without Sex?
« #10 on: October 14, 2009, 01:07 AM »

Quote from: !amebo no1 on October 13, 2009, 12:55 PM
Wherever he is , i is

Its not easy especially if you have a professional in bed as a partner Kiss

i cant cope Lips sealed ( not saying i will cheat either Undecided , he is free to travel for a couple of weeks Cool , but when he comes back, he has to replace the lost virtue Grin Grin Grin

Couldn't agree more. Smiley

Quote from: rosepearl on October 13, 2009, 01:04 PM
the last one we did will linger till he comes

Sister, we're not talking about him gone for a couple of weeks. How would you cope if you met once a year and you're married  Huh


I wonder where the men are  Cheesy

Kunbee
Re: How Do You Cope Without Sex?
« #11 on: October 14, 2009, 02:40 AM »

Quote from: nwaka_80 on October 13, 2009, 12:46 PM
If i can cope without sex now that am single, am not saying am a virgin o before some people go begin wag their tongues, just that it's not a do or die affair then why can't i do without it for some time of my husband's absence when i get married, abi na food.

Abi ooo
Fhemmmy
Re: How Do You Cope Without Sex?
« #12 on: October 14, 2009, 02:43 AM »

Sex na food oh, a man without sex for 2 weeks will make him to start acting weird and a woman without sex will make her acting funny and be rude, so i have no idea how married people can stay without sex, sex is important and special.
chika98
Re: How Do You Cope Without Sex?
« #13 on: October 14, 2009, 02:47 AM »

Quote from: Fhemmmy on October 14, 2009, 02:43 AM
Sex na food oh, a man without sex for 2 weeks will make him to start acting weird and a woman without sex will make her acting funny and be rude, so i have no idea how married people can stay without sex, sex is important and special.

How can sex be classified as food? That is how human beings let stupid things control who they are. How daft!
Kunbee
Re: How Do You Cope Without Sex?
« #14 on: October 14, 2009, 02:50 AM »

Chika thank u oo for pointing out the obvious what about monks and nuns are they dying
Fhemmmy
Re: How Do You Cope Without Sex?
« #15 on: October 14, 2009, 02:51 AM »

with what you just said, that means you just concluded that real food controls you.
Cos something is important doesnt mean you are controlled by it.
Sex is so important in Marriages, as a matter of fact, a marriage without sex is useless.
How can a man travel for 6 months and no contact btw him and the wife, be real.
Fhemmmy
Re: How Do You Cope Without Sex?
« #16 on: October 14, 2009, 02:52 AM »

Quote from: Kunbee on October 14, 2009, 02:50 AM
Chika thank u oo for pointing out the obvious what about monks and nuns are they dying

when you are single you are single, but when you are married, it is a different ball game
Kunbee
Re: How Do You Cope Without Sex?
« #17 on: October 14, 2009, 02:53 AM »

Ok ooo fhemmy Smiley
Fhemmmy
Re: How Do You Cope Without Sex?
« #18 on: October 14, 2009, 02:54 AM »

it is easy to be a virgin that to be a disvirgined virgin, cos once it is popped, you will always wanna ave fun
chika98
Re: How Do You Cope Without Sex?
« #19 on: October 14, 2009, 02:56 AM »

Quote from: Kunbee on October 14, 2009, 02:50 AM
Chika thank u oo for pointing out the obvious what about monks and nuns are they dying

Of course they are running mad in the streets because they've been deprived of "food" Grin
Fhemmmy
Re: How Do You Cope Without Sex?
« #20 on: October 14, 2009, 02:59 AM »

Quote from: chika98 on October 14, 2009, 02:56 AM
Of course they are running mad in the streets because they've been deprived of "food" Grin

it makes me sick when people compare apple to oranges.
A married woman cant be compared to a Nun, so be real
Kunbee
Re: How Do You Cope Without Sex?
« #21 on: October 14, 2009, 02:59 AM »

Quote from: chika98 on October 14, 2009, 02:56 AM
Of course they are running mad in the streets because they've been deprived of "food" Grin

Lol wassup

Quote from: Fhemmmy on October 14, 2009, 02:54 AM
it is easy to be a virgin that to be a disvirgined virgin, cos once it is popped, you will always wanna ave fun

Are u rili sure about this statement
chika98
Re: How Do You Cope Without Sex?
« #22 on: October 14, 2009, 03:00 AM »

Quote from: Fhemmmy on October 14, 2009, 02:59 AM
it makes me sick when people compare apple to oranges.
A married woman cant be compared to a Nun, so be real


Sex is no bloody food! It can never be food. It is all in the mind. If you choose to see it as that then good luck to you.
Fhemmmy
Re: How Do You Cope Without Sex?
« #23 on: October 14, 2009, 03:04 AM »

Quote from: Kunbee on October 14, 2009, 02:59 AM
Are u rili sure about this statement

Yes i am so sure, cos a virgin aint missing anything, but a popped punani always wants something to feed on.
It takes more energy to realign the mind and stay away
Quote from: chika98 on October 14, 2009, 03:00 AM
Sex is no bloody food! It can never be food. It is all in the mind. If you choose to see it as that then good luck to you.

It is all in the mind and i do agree with you on that, but as a married man, why would i wanna get it off my mind, when i have the certificate to do it whenever i want and however i want it, tell me why i have to realign my mind to stay off, that is why even the bible says, if you cant stay without it, then, marry.
That is why i said, i dont agree with a man leaving his wife longer than he can hold body.
good hunte (m)
Re: How Do You Cope Without Sex?
« #24 on: October 14, 2009, 01:14 PM »

Quote from: Radiant on October 09, 2009, 05:32 PM
I was just wondering how married people cope without sex when they're far from each other. Let's say the man is doing business in Nigeria while his family is abroad and they probably see 3/4 times a year or even less. How do these two cope without cheating?  Shocked

Ermm. . . this is not the Black and White thread pls. This is real. Thanks for your understanding  Grin




cheating nowadays became commom in our society specially for men but for ladies only the smart one's has the courage to do it coz the study well their husband reaction if they caught . lady who lives away from husband and cann't stand the pressure will surly bow and no toy on earth will ever cool her emotions .
Radiant (f)
Re: How Do You Cope Without Sex?
« #25 on: October 14, 2009, 01:23 PM »

Quote from: good hunte on October 14, 2009, 01:14 PM
cheating nowadays became commom in our society specially for men but for ladies only the smart one's has the courage to do it coz the study well their husband reaction if they caught . lady who lives away from husband and cann't stand the pressure will surly bow and no toy on earth will ever cool her emotions .

  Grin Grin Grin

Seriously, even for a month you're shaking like it's winter let alone when the man is gone for months and years in some cases  Shocked

good hunte (m)
Re: How Do You Cope Without Sex?
« #26 on: October 14, 2009, 01:32 PM »

Quote from: Radiant on October 14, 2009, 01:23 PM
Grin Grin Grin

Seriously, even for a month you're shaking like it's winter let alone when the man is gone for months and years in some cases Shocked


men always have the pleasure of hunting these home alone ladies we feel that they need love and care more than any ordinary woman you must always give her the confidence.
Radiant (f)
Re: How Do You Cope Without Sex?
« #27 on: October 14, 2009, 01:46 PM »

Quote from: good hunte on October 14, 2009, 01:32 PM
men always have the pleasure of hunting these home alone ladies we feel that they need love and care more than any ordinary woman you must always give her the confidence.

Ermm. . .no go chuk married woman o  Wink Grin
freeview (f)
Re: How Do You Cope Without Sex?
« #28 on: October 14, 2009, 01:52 PM »

 Embarrassed Undecided Undecided
good hunte (m)
Re: How Do You Cope Without Sex?
« #29 on: October 14, 2009, 01:56 PM »

Quote from: Radiant on October 14, 2009, 01:46 PM
Ermm. . .no go chuk married woman o Wink Grin

why married woman always prefer married man?
!amebo no1
Re: How Do You Cope Without Sex?
« #30 on: October 14, 2009, 01:58 PM »

Abeg chika98 sex is an emotional  food IMO

Its in the mind, yes, isnt normal food also in the mind? how do you know you are hungry?isnt there a message being sent across to the brain that reminds you?how do we know its time to pee and open our bowels?

Everything works with the mind, and i see sex as something emotional, even the prostitutes have to agree that at the peak of it all, there is a break down in emotions

so what are we not talking about? Undecided


MrCrackles (m)
Re: How Do You Cope Without Sex?
« #31 on: October 14, 2009, 02:01 PM »

Danke loves her sex so much she cant cope. . . .without it! Cool
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