How Do You Cope Without intimacy?

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Fhemmmy
Re: How Do You Cope Without intimacy?
« #64 on: October 15, 2009, 03:59 AM »

Quote from: Radiant on October 15, 2009, 12:54 AM
Did u hear me say "just a few sick ones"?  Tongue

in one word, the man is sicko
good hunte (m)
Re: How Do You Cope Without intimacy?
« #65 on: October 15, 2009, 05:51 AM »

cheating is ullimited to any age , women have to be satisfied specialy when you start good with them , some men who do pound their wives 2 times a day and go away n cannt see more than 2 times a year let him not think what his wife is doing without him coz the pounding has to continue, who told u pregnancy will divert her attention , this time ladies cannt die in silencs, they are saying that not me Lips sealed Lips sealed
good hunte (m)
Re: How Do You Cope Without intimacy?
« #66 on: October 15, 2009, 05:57 AM »

@radiant
where r u standing now?
davidif (m)
Re: How Do You Cope Without intimacy?
« #67 on: October 15, 2009, 06:48 AM »

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intimacy is no bloody food! It can never be food. It is all in the mind. If you choose to see it as that then good luck to you.

Yep, its all in the mind.


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I was just wondering how married people cope without intimacy when they're far from each other. Let's say the man is doing business in Nigeria while his family is abroad and they probably see 3/4 times a year or even less. How do these two cope without cheating?


Just do a lot of jogging and working out, just anything to take your mind of it. It is very effective.
good hunte (m)
Re: How Do You Cope Without intimacy?
« #68 on: October 15, 2009, 07:55 AM »

Quote from: davidif on October 15, 2009, 06:48 AM
Just do a lot of jogging and working out, just anything to take your mind of it. It is very effective.
and when your mind bounce back? Lips sealed
Radiant (f)
Re: How Do You Cope Without intimacy?
« #69 on: October 15, 2009, 02:05 PM »

Quote from: davidif on October 15, 2009, 06:48 AM
Just do a lot of jogging and working out, just anything to take your mind of it. It is very effective.

I wasn't asking how a woman can forget about intimacy  Huh My question is for couples who live separately and see very rarely. How do they cope without cheating, if you want  Huh

Quote from: good hunte on October 15, 2009, 05:57 AM
@radiant
where r u standing now?

Seriously I think when you're so far from each other there's bound to be cheating. I mean, if I see my man 2ce a year? Oh c'mon!  Tongue Smiley

Ben-10
Re: How Do You Cope Without intimacy?
« #70 on: October 15, 2009, 02:32 PM »

It's now like cheating is part of Marriage. na real wah.
Radiant (f)
Re: How Do You Cope Without intimacy?
« #71 on: October 15, 2009, 02:38 PM »

Don't give room for that.
Ben-10
Re: How Do You Cope Without intimacy?
« #72 on: October 15, 2009, 02:46 PM »

would you cope, if you're in the shoe?
Radiant (f)
Re: How Do You Cope Without intimacy?
« #73 on: October 15, 2009, 02:50 PM »

Quote from: Ben-10 on October 15, 2009, 02:46 PM
would you cope, if you're in the shoe?

Why don't you follow the topic and stop sticking your head in my face.
Ben-10
Re: How Do You Cope Without intimacy?
« #74 on: October 15, 2009, 02:58 PM »

If it's not working out, walk out.
Fhemmmy
Re: How Do You Cope Without intimacy?
« #75 on: October 15, 2009, 04:15 PM »

Quote from: Radiant on October 15, 2009, 02:50 PM
Why don't you follow the topic and stop sticking your head in my face.

hahahahaha  Tongue
skfa1
Re: How Do You Cope Without intimacy?
« #76 on: October 15, 2009, 04:17 PM »

Quote from: Fhemmmy on October 15, 2009, 04:15 PM
hahahahaha Tongue

Carry your head,let me see the topic now  Grin  Grin
Fhemmmy
Re: How Do You Cope Without intimacy?
« #77 on: October 15, 2009, 04:20 PM »

Quote from: skfa1 on October 15, 2009, 04:17 PM
Carry your head,let me see the topic now  Grin  Grin
u pple are so rotten
Radiant (f)
Re: How Do You Cope Without intimacy?
« #78 on: October 15, 2009, 04:36 PM »

What's rotten about this now? Femi!  Smiley
Fhemmmy
Re: How Do You Cope Without intimacy?
« #79 on: October 15, 2009, 04:37 PM »

Quote from: Radiant on October 15, 2009, 04:36 PM
What's rotten about this now? Femi!  Smiley

"head"

Make una no spoil me oh.
Radiant (f)
Re: How Do You Cope Without intimacy?
« #80 on: October 15, 2009, 04:47 PM »

I was talking about the one on your shoulders  Wink
Ben-10
Re: How Do You Cope Without intimacy?
« #81 on: October 15, 2009, 04:57 PM »

how do you cope without intimacy is still the topic, peeps.
Radiant (f)
Re: How Do You Cope Without intimacy?
« #82 on: October 15, 2009, 05:19 PM »

Quote from: Ben-10 on October 15, 2009, 04:57 PM
how do you cope without intimacy is still the topic, peeps.

Tell us  Grin
Fhemmmy
Re: How Do You Cope Without intimacy?
« #83 on: October 15, 2009, 07:06 PM »

Quote from: Radiant on October 15, 2009, 04:47 PM
I was talking about the one on your shoulders  Wink

OK. . .I will blv you, maybe i am the one with the bad mind then. . .  Tongue
davidif (m)
Re: How Do You Cope Without intimacy?
« #84 on: October 15, 2009, 08:08 PM »

Quote from: Radiant on October 15, 2009, 02:05 PM
I wasn't asking how a woman can forget about intimacy Huh My question is for couples who live separately and see very rarely. How do they cope without cheating, if you want Huh

I said ITS ALL IN THE MIND. If you can defeat it there then you can make it. If you let those thoughts defeat you or you feed it by watching things that you shouldn't be watching on TV or on the web, then you would succumb to it.
Fhemmmy
Re: How Do You Cope Without intimacy?
« #85 on: October 15, 2009, 09:00 PM »

Quote from: davidif on October 15, 2009, 08:08 PM
I said ITS ALL IN THE MIND. If you can defeat it there then you can make it. If you let those thoughts defeat you or you feed it by watching things that you shouldn't be watching on TV or on the web, then you would succumb to it.

Those things are all we see, those things are what is around us, and besides, our mind alone is a battle field of good things like intimacy, but the question is why shd a married man and woman wanna stay away from intimacy, never allow your man to be too much away
Radiant (f)
Re: How Do You Cope Without intimacy?
« #86 on: October 15, 2009, 09:54 PM »

Quote from: davidif on October 15, 2009, 08:08 PM
I said ITS ALL IN THE MIND. If you can defeat it there then you can make it. If you let those thoughts defeat you or you feed it by watching things that you shouldn't be watching on TV or on the web, then you would succumb to it.

For how long? Six months? A year? Two years? Please speak for both parties when replying.
davidif (m)
Re: How Do You Cope Without intimacy?
« #87 on: October 15, 2009, 10:15 PM »

Quote from: Radiant on October 15, 2009, 09:54 PM
For how long? Six months? A year? Two years? Please speak for both parties when replying.

That's why i said it is good to keep your mind pre-occupied by things like physical workout. Try burning some fat away from your belly and your butt so that you look good for your partner when he returns. If all you do is stay home and watch TV, then you are finished because all it takes is for a romantic movie to come on and that's enough to destroy you mentally.
Radiant (f)
Re: How Do You Cope Without intimacy?
« #88 on: October 15, 2009, 10:30 PM »

Quote from: davidif on October 15, 2009, 10:15 PM
That's why i said it is good to keep your mind pre-occupied by things like physical workout. Try burning some fat away from your belly and your butt so that you look good for your partner when he returns. If all you do is stay home and watch TV, then you are finished because all it takes is for a romantic movie to come on and that's enough to destroy you mentally.

Go and sleep or get a massage if you're too tired to think straight. What are you saying? Rubbish!
~Sissy~ (f)
Re: How Do You Cope Without intimacy?
« #89 on: October 16, 2009, 02:20 AM »

@ post

some probably do "phone intimacy"
Fhemmmy
Re: How Do You Cope Without intimacy?
« #90 on: October 16, 2009, 04:06 AM »

Quote from: davidif on October 15, 2009, 10:15 PM
That's why i said it is good to keep your mind pre-occupied by things like physical workout. Try burning some fat away from your belly and your butt so that you look good for your partner when he returns. If all you do is stay home and watch TV, then you are finished because all it takes is for a romantic movie to come on and that's enough to destroy you mentally.

u surely on some expired medication, else, you wont tell people to replace intimacy with burning fat of some backside, tell me a better way to burn fat off an backside than a nice canine?
Quote from: Radiant on October 15, 2009, 10:30 PM
Go and sleep or get a massage if you're too tired to think straight. What are you saying? Rubbish!

Lol
Quote from: ~Sissy~ on October 16, 2009, 02:20 AM
@ post

some probably do "phone intimacy"

True, but never enuf and who held her when she now come? her pillow?
davidif (m)
Re: How Do You Cope Without intimacy?
« #91 on: October 16, 2009, 04:14 AM »

Quote from: Radiant on October 15, 2009, 10:30 PM
Go and sleep or get a massage if you're too tired to think straight. What are you saying? Rubbish!

I am sure you have never tried it, you should try it, its not as bad as you think girl.
Fhemmmy
Re: How Do You Cope Without intimacy?
« #92 on: October 16, 2009, 04:22 AM »

love in the air.
The Sly
Re: How Do You Cope Without intimacy?
« #93 on: October 16, 2009, 04:36 AM »

Can a one hit wonder (Popularly known as one night stand) Be considered as cheating??
If no. . . .Then thats what i am going to do.

If Yes. . . .Then i wouldnt mind traveling to wherever she is just to phuck and come back home. Cheesy
After all, I have traveled thousands of mile just to phuck before until i was advised not to do it anymore. Cool
Arkison
Re: How Do You Cope Without intimacy?
« #94 on: October 16, 2009, 02:59 PM »

Quote from: Radiant on October 15, 2009, 12:54 AM
Did u hear me say "just a few sick ones"? Tongue
Quote from: r231 on October 15, 2009, 01:08 AM
^^^^ yea u r rite its kinda sick

These are the healthy ones.

The sick ones can't even get their thing up to pee let alone pounding
good hunte (m)
Re: How Do You Cope Without intimacy?
« #95 on: October 16, 2009, 04:18 PM »

every body on his own now, let the people who experienced that furnish us with info Lips sealed
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