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Radiant (f)
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These are the healthy ones.
The sick ones can't even get their thing up to pee let alone pounding
Yea, when I say sick I don't mean the ones with a catheter in their urethra. O ga o 
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Fhemmmy
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Yeeeeeeeeeeeeeee. U people wont kill me with lafter oh
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tRoOE (f)
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Naija people and sex 
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Radiant (f)
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Naija people and sex  That's not the topic. How do couples cope when they're far from each other? It has nothing to do with Nigerians.
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r231 (m)
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That's not the topic. How do couples cope when they're far from each other? It has nothing to do with Nigerians.
you have time
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~Sissy~ (f)
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True, but never enuf and who held her when she now cum? her pillow? probably. also some wouldnt mind the sex. i mean when you put your mind in other things you deem important, the taught of sex sort of becomes less of a priority.
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Radiant (f)
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probably.
also some wouldnt mind the sex. i mean when you put your mind in other things you deem important, the taught of sex sort of becomes less of a priority.
True, but for how long?
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~Sissy~ (f)
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it might be hard at first especially at, that initial time like the few weeks or months and some 1 yr or so after the separation but as time past, you sort of put it off. you lose the appetite and as long as the thought of sex isnt 24hrs/7week in your mind, you get through it. those who have the thoughts 24/7 are the prolly to cheat anyways
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Fhemmmy
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it might be hard at first especially at, that initial time like the few weeks or months and some 1 yr or so after the separation but as time past, you sort of put it off. you lose the appetite and as long as the thought of sex isnt 24hrs/7week in your mind, you get through it. those who have the thoughts 24/7 are the prolly to cheat anyways
 You wont want the that area to be sealed off oh
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rita@NL (m)
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 You wont want the that area to be sealed off oh which Area plz ? 
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~Sissy~ (f)
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 You wont want the that area to be sealed off oh not necessarily losing your sex drive but sort of controlling it
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good hunte (m)
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not necessarily losing your sex drive but sort of controlling it
every thing under control  no worry
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Fhemmmy
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not necessarily losing your sex drive but sort of controlling it
ok. . . .cos u kinda scare me oh.
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~Sissy~ (f)
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^^^^ dat would be double jeopardy  every thing under control  no worry its not hard as you might think 
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lannre (m)
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Believe me, I have not experience this and I dont pray to experience such. No ideal marriage in such situation. Only if someone will not be sincere here to say the truth,or maybe they are not too close. Well, there might be age group that can cope . We are still in the active group . The maximum I ever stay away was just forty days, I cant imagine what happen on my arrival. Let us be sincere its not easy. My Hormone wont take such.
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good hunte (m)
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@sissy , r u a preacher?
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Fhemmmy
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@ lanre.
I love when people are open and honest. Nice talk jare.
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Dclique (m)
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Hmmm. . . Lanre. U be bad guy. True talk sha. I feel u.
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Fhemmmy
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Lol 
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uplawal (f)
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what if one of them is in PRISON?
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good hunte (m)
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what if one of them is in PRISON?
in this case u r permitted 
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Fhemmmy
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in this case u r permitted  Even if one is incarcerated, you are still allowed to visit him/her, and in that case, you guys just have a quickie and be happy.
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youngalex (m)
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body no be firewood
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sayso (m)
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very important issue in marriage,@ poster I will simply think about it with her each time I call her,you know there is something call sex on phone.
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rubi (f)
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when you think about the implications of cheating eg getting pregnant, breaking marital home, contacting diseases and the shame you will go through will not be compared with one minute pleasure, the guilty conscience considering all this will make you calm down
The love and respect you have for your hubby will also help to hold on
Engage in activities or find two jobs to keep your mind occupied Reduce watching romance movies
One can sleep with his clothes till he comes back The last great sex will sustain till school resume
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Fhemmmy
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when you think about the implications of cheating eg getting pregnant, breaking marital home, contacting diseases and the shame you will go through will not be compared with one minute pleasure, the guilty conscience considering all this will make you calm down
The love and respect you have for your hubby will also help to hold on
Engage in activities or find two jobs to keep your mind occupied Reduce watching romance movies
One can sleep with his clothes till he comes back The last great sex will sustain till school resume
I think depends on how long they have to be apart.
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rubi (f)
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I think depends on how long they have to be apart.
It doesn't matter how long
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Fhemmmy
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It doesn't matter how long
So u can stay without the privates of your husband for years and still remain faithful? Be real and be honest oh.
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Radiant (f)
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LOL. . . Femi, she can do it unlike you 
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Fhemmmy
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LOL. . . Femi, she can do it unlike you  I will not lie, if i am married, and have a license to do it from God and pastor, i MUST do it, if i have to be away from her, it has to be for as long as i know i wont cheat, cos i wont wanna be tempted by all those yeye girls oh. So for me, it is see no evil and touch no evil.
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