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Bariloful
What Should I Do
« on: December 19, 2006, 05:30 PM »

WHAT SHOULD I DO

There is a particular girl that i wanted to date, she is beautiful and presentable,  I excuse her One day and talk to her, about  my feeling for her, and she accepted my proposal. I
used to take her out to Restaurant when Iam chance, because my job does not give me time, we called each other on phone, doing all sort of thing,  but we have not gone to the special Place,   We have stay for about 6 months then I now invite her to my house and I entertain her the way I feels is good for me, although she was accompany wih one of her friend, about 3 min her friend now exuse us and said she want to go the market and she can not come back here again,  ,

we were doing all type of Love play as in Romance, but to penetrate to the main area, she told me that she is in her mensuration period, then I have to hold myself as a man,
After that everthing was ok with 2 of us, I did not mind I take thing easily for myself, she was like  giving something like Apology,  that she not the cause of that,

But the second day i invited her to my house and i entertain her the way i feel is ok for me, we were doing kissin  and romancing, but at the end she told me she just want us to be an ordinary friends and nothing more, i was shock because i was not expecting such from her an also I was annoyed but I have to control my self, afterward she left and she ask me to see Her off, of which I refuse and I did not say a word  to her, so I decide now to quick and not to call her again. nor talk to her again,  ABOUT t any relationship ,  what your opinion nairaland user, 






Damsal (f)
Re: What Should I Do
« #1 on: December 19, 2006, 05:42 PM »

Okay honey, i have to admit reading through your post was not easy halfway through i started to feel sorry and not for you but for myself, i guess if you read through it again you'll realise why.

Now to your issue i don't really think there's much to say, she's offered to be just friends and there's nothing you can do about it, though it was wrong of her to lead you on. What's done is done. I guess next time you should be really upfront about yourself and what you want from a relationship and if the girl doesn't feel the same way then you know where to head.     
jammin (m)
Re: What Should I Do
« #2 on: December 19, 2006, 05:51 PM »

SUCKER!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy
Genial (m)
Re: What Should I Do
« #3 on: December 19, 2006, 05:57 PM »

Quote from: Damsal on December 19, 2006, 05:42 PM
Okay honey, i have to admit reading through your post was not easy halfway through i started to feel sorry and not for you but for myself, i guess if you read through it again you'll realise why.

Now to your issue i don't really think there's much to say, she's offered to be just friends and there's nothing you can do about it, though it was wrong of her to lead you on. What's done is done. I guess next time you should be really upfront about yourself and what you want from a relationship and if the girl doesn't feel the same way then you know where to head.

Hey! This is quite confusing. I beg your pardon, ma'am, but I mistook your id for Damsol! Damsol, Damsal . . .  Undecided

@Thread

No comment.
ruescho (m)
Re: What Should I Do
« #4 on: December 19, 2006, 05:59 PM »

"want us to be an ordinary friends and nothing more"

This is what they always say at the beginning.  Grin , Don´t give up!  Cool

"i was shock because i was not expecting such from her"

This is because we men never will understand women!!!

"an also I was annoyed but I have to control my self,"

If u were annoyed just think: if u react like this it´s not really love   Embarrassed
damsol (f)
Re: What Should I Do
« #5 on: December 19, 2006, 06:01 PM »

Quote from: Genial on December 19, 2006, 05:57 PM
Hey! This is quite confusing. I beg your pardon, ma'am, but I mistook your id for Damsol! Damsol, Damsal . . . Undecided

@Thread

No comment.
sorry bout that.
Damsal (f)
Re: What Should I Do
« #6 on: December 19, 2006, 06:24 PM »

Quote from: Genial on December 19, 2006, 05:57 PM
Hey! This is quite confusing. I beg your pardon, ma'am, but I mistook your id for Damsol! Damsol, Damsal . . . Undecided

@Thread

No comment.
Hey what's confusing bout Damsal, damsol.
I think it's quite different knowing she stole ma id and did some tweeking on it Grin
Busta (f)
Re: What Should I Do
« #7 on: December 19, 2006, 06:56 PM »

Maybe she ain't that into u,

maybe u gotta move on with your life.

pele
smartsoft (m)
Re: What Should I Do
« #8 on: December 19, 2006, 10:50 PM »

dude what's your intention about the whole thing, are you in for sex or play boy,  from your post and to what i understand better, is that  each time she comes to your house, you always cuddle and kiss her

prove me wrong that is what made her to change her taught towards you because she got this mindset that tells her that you in for sex.
Radiant (f)
Re: What Should I Do
« #9 on: December 19, 2006, 11:09 PM »

 ROFLMFAO. . . Damn! Is this meant to be in the joke section or Seun isn't aware? Embarrassed

Say whaaaaa? LMAO again  Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin

What a pity
ikamefa (f)
Re: What Should I Do
« #10 on: December 19, 2006, 11:17 PM »

@ topic me i am not understooding your yinglish!  Cheesy


anyways move on ! the girl obviously is not that into you, and were you timing yourself to see how fast  you can get into her undies?
damsol (f)
Re: What Should I Do
« #11 on: December 19, 2006, 11:27 PM »

Quote from: Damsal on December 19, 2006, 06:24 PM
Hey what's confusing bout Damsal, damsol.
I think it's quite different knowing she stole ma id and did some tweeking on it Grin
u wish
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