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Radiant (f)
What Can Make You Leave Your Partner?
« on: October 11, 2009, 04:15 PM »

What can make you leave a man/woman? Just one reason.

Mine is physical abuse.
msb247 (m)
Re: What Can Make You Leave Your Partner?
« #1 on: October 11, 2009, 06:11 PM »

if she's dirty! i mean some gals r even worse than pigs; and if she is after worldly things like cars, money, etc
ima1 (f)
Re: What Can Make You Leave Your Partner?
« #2 on: October 11, 2009, 06:13 PM »

Physical abuse and or cheating
babonboard (f)
Re: What Can Make You Leave Your Partner?
« #3 on: October 11, 2009, 06:15 PM »

physical abuse and bully
macfarland
Re: What Can Make You Leave Your Partner?
« #4 on: October 11, 2009, 06:24 PM »

what is physical abuse? define. well mine will be threat to my life!
Dfash (m)
Re: What Can Make You Leave Your Partner?
« #5 on: October 11, 2009, 06:28 PM »


   if she is cheating or too demanding(i.e materially)
complove
Re: What Can Make You Leave Your Partner?
« #6 on: October 11, 2009, 06:34 PM »

no man want to marry ashawo or woman tyson
toba (m)
Re: What Can Make You Leave Your Partner?
« #7 on: October 11, 2009, 06:41 PM »

If she cheats on me&she not satisfied with what i can offer,coveteous,arrogant&dirty,
SeanT21 (f)
Re: What Can Make You Leave Your Partner?
« #8 on: October 11, 2009, 06:53 PM »

Abuse of any form.
babonboard (f)
Re: What Can Make You Leave Your Partner?
« #9 on: October 11, 2009, 07:33 PM »

if he doesnt give a hoot about ma peeps (family)
posakosa (m)
Re: What Can Make You Leave Your Partner?
« #10 on: October 11, 2009, 08:24 PM »

1. I think finances breaks more people up than anything.

2. Fall out of love with the person and find a younger/fresher meat with a tight punani
Smiley



Cheating: he can change <women say>
Physical Abuse <he can change <he won't do it again, women say>


If he is BROKE: YOU berra dump him and go find an Alhaji/one rich man like that, 
noetic15 (m)
Re: What Can Make You Leave Your Partner?
« #11 on: October 11, 2009, 09:02 PM »

a. cheating. . ,   .physical or emotional. I might forgive, but cant forget.

b. fall out of love.
Secretz (f)
Re: What Can Make You Leave Your Partner?
« #12 on: October 11, 2009, 10:01 PM »

Abuse . . . emotional/mental/physical. . . .  or if I had discovered he was a paedophile . . . or done for rape (and was guilty). . . . or even murder. . . arrgh there is a hell of a lot of things jare. . . .  most other things I could possibly forgive . . .   Undecided
MrCrackles (m)
Re: What Can Make You Leave Your Partner?
« #13 on: October 11, 2009, 10:03 PM »

Quote from: Secretz on October 11, 2009, 10:01 PM
Abuse . . . emotional/mental/physical. . . .  or if I had discovered he was a paedophile . . . or done for rape (and was guilty). . . . or even murder. . . arrgh there is a hell of a lot of things jare. . . .  most other things I could possibly forgive . . .   Undecided
Are you sure most other things, you can forgive?

Seismic007 (m)
Re: What Can Make You Leave Your Partner?
« #14 on: October 11, 2009, 10:07 PM »

If she has a smelling punani because i no go fit lick that kind toto Grin Grin Grin Grin
r231 (m)
Re: What Can Make You Leave Your Partner?
« #15 on: October 11, 2009, 10:33 PM »

any for form of abuse & cheating
Theblessed (f)
Re: What Can Make You Leave Your Partner?
« #16 on: October 11, 2009, 11:39 PM »

I have no intention of leaving my partner but if I would, what might trigger it would be: Abuse (all forms), a paedophile, rapist/murderer ('cos he might rape and kill you one day).  Also, I will not stand a thief, a stunt in jail, a long term unemployed-lay-about-couch potato lazy a-se, a dictator/control freak and obviously, an unfaithful partner - no way!  Thank you!!!
y me (f)
Re: What Can Make You Leave Your Partner?
« #17 on: October 12, 2009, 01:20 AM »

really dont know
and dont care either Tongue
~Sissy~ (f)
Re: What Can Make You Leave Your Partner?
« #18 on: October 12, 2009, 02:09 AM »

Quote from: y me on October 12, 2009, 01:20 AM
really dont know
and dont care either Tongue

you berra care Cheesy

@ post

cheating would really hurt badly Embarrassed but. . . . . . . .
irreconcilable differences
as for abuse: that would be a case if only my "something, something" stopped working Shocked
Nijasingh
Re: What Can Make You Leave Your Partner?
« #19 on: October 12, 2009, 02:10 AM »

Only a clone of my partner!! (that too only if I am not aware that the clone is a clone!!)

NOTHIN fit make me leave am Oh!!!  ( she is watchin me type !!LOL)
chiogo (f)
Re: What Can Make You Leave Your Partner?
« #20 on: October 12, 2009, 02:40 AM »

Abuse - physical, mental, etc
Infidelity


What else? That's all I can think of.
Radiant (f)
Re: What Can Make You Leave Your Partner?
« #21 on: October 12, 2009, 02:46 AM »

Quote from: y me on October 12, 2009, 01:20 AM
really dont know
and dont care either Tongue

"caring" comes naturally when jungle mature Wink

Quote from: ~Sissy~ on October 12, 2009, 02:09 AM
@ post

cheating would really hurt badly Embarrassed but. . . . . . . .
irreconcilable differences
as for abuse: that would be a case if only my "something, something" stopped working Shocked

I can forgive if he cheated but not if he's a cheat tho'.   Embarrassed Physical abuse is definitely no subject of debate. Shocked

Outstrip (f)
Re: What Can Make You Leave Your Partner?
« #22 on: October 12, 2009, 05:02 AM »

Abuse
posakosa (m)
Re: What Can Make You Leave Your Partner?
« #23 on: October 12, 2009, 06:06 AM »

I think the problem the poster made is NOT to define what it means by partner.  Boy/Girlfriend or Husband/Wife.


If its Husband/Wife issue then you should SHINE your eyes well-well before getting married.
tk22ng
Re: What Can Make You Leave Your Partner?
« #24 on: October 12, 2009, 07:44 AM »

if she sleeps with Obj
beelyjay45 (m)
Re: What Can Make You Leave Your Partner?
« #25 on: October 12, 2009, 08:59 AM »

disloyal
otukpo (f)
Re: What Can Make You Leave Your Partner?
« #26 on: October 12, 2009, 09:12 AM »

if i no longer get respect and regard from him.
denony (m)
Re: What Can Make You Leave Your Partner?
« #27 on: October 12, 2009, 09:33 AM »

if she cheat, and cheat and cheat
it kills inside and hard to take.  Cry
i hate cheating, lying and too much demanding.

there was this girl i met, if she said she need something
and i willingly gave her, she will like, this is not enough
and wil reject it, she kept doing this before she knew it
i've zoomed off, she can't be satisfied with anything  Angry
julian_H (m)
Re: What Can Make You Leave Your Partner?
« #28 on: October 12, 2009, 09:43 AM »

OTHER TRAIT I might (just might) forgive but INFIDELITY; NO WWWWWAAAAAAAAAAAAAYYYYYYYYYY!!!!!!!
Easybaby (f)
Re: What Can Make You Leave Your Partner?
« #29 on: October 12, 2009, 10:01 AM »



The poster said one reason only Angry Angry Angry

 laziness in Bed Tongue Tongue Tongue
Easybaby (f)
Re: What Can Make You Leave Your Partner?
« #30 on: October 12, 2009, 10:03 AM »

Quote from: Theblessed on October 11, 2009, 11:39 PM
I have no intention of leaving my partner but if I would, what might trigger it would be: Abuse (all forms), a paedophile, rapist/murderer ('cos he might rape and kill you one day).  Also, I will not stand a thief, a stunt in jail, a long term unemployed-lay-about-couch potato lazy a-se, a dictator/control freak and obviously, an unfaithful partner - no way!  Thank you!!!

The poster said one reason nah! Angry Angry Angry
your own too much nah Tongue Tongue Tongue
ekitikan (m)
Re: What Can Make You Leave Your Partner?
« #31 on: October 12, 2009, 10:58 AM »

The only acceptable reason for the break up of a marriage (biblically that is) is infidelity,if a man/woman cheats on the partner then such person should be dumped.but if we follow this principle most marriage would have crashed as almost all partners cheat on each other (especially the male) however as for me I can not leave my partner for any reason because of my kids I will only stop having anyhting to do with her (sexually) just for the sake of my kids I will go on with the marriage but no sleeping together,eating together and going out together,if she can cope then she is free to stay in the house for as long as she wants and i will do it in such a way that even the kids would not know except my partner voice it out.ofcourse there would be suspicion from people this i will deny and will continue to swear that all is well just for my kids course they are my life.all this na if the woman go sleep with another man oh anything short of that we would always work it out,and she should do anything to me if i go out of the matrimonial home to shyke another babe.
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