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ThoniaSlim (f)
Re: Get Married To A Virgin Or Die Searching!
« #32 on: October 14, 2009, 04:27 AM »

Quote from: tithe on October 13, 2009, 11:31 PM
Ar u guilty? you can turn the hand of the clock

Yea yea yea. . .like you got any better thingie to say. . .put a suck on it dude!
The Sly
Re: Get Married To A Virgin Or Die Searching!
« #33 on: October 14, 2009, 04:40 AM »

I just wonder what planet you dudes be staying.
This year. . . . .I have met 2 stunning virgins.

I still got me one . . . .Broke up with one because of her annoying stupidity.

I am afraid my impatience would ruin things very soon for the last one. Tongue
May God help moi. . . . . 

I know they dont deserve an un-serious gee like moi but whats a man to do:D
They wont stop floodin ma way. Cheesy
intrepid
Re: Get Married To A Virgin Or Die Searching!
« #34 on: October 14, 2009, 04:53 AM »

Our society is fast losing love and values!virginity is great.it is beatiful and praiseworthy.Sex itself is beautiful and even sacred,and that is why it is forbidden outside marrige by both quran and bible.It does not matter what you think,bt the fact remains that none of you will consent to marry a very famous prostitute-who has known it all and is advanced in lovemaking and all that.

Society acclaims the popular ones,but no one will come that close.Virginity should be preserved and it remains a beautiful thing till the end of time.
Kunbee
Re: Get Married To A Virgin Or Die Searching!
« #35 on: October 14, 2009, 05:18 AM »

 Undecided Undecided Undecided Undecided Huh Huh and i totally agree with ibk
HIO4
Re: Get Married To A Virgin Or Die Searching!
« #36 on: October 14, 2009, 07:54 AM »

Ibukunoluwapo, you always make good sense jare.  Tithe, guy, more grease to your elbow.  If your preference is to bag an undefiled female, then don't let some noise-making empty barrels deter you from achieving that goal.  They aren't the ones to live your life for you, nor will they be there to satisfy you if you settle for a woman that doesn't meet the standards you want.

Yeah, you might be an asshole for not holding yourself to the same regard as what you expect from the other person, but life is full of assholes anyways. Search on.
honsule (m)
Re: Get Married To A Virgin Or Die Searching!
« #37 on: October 14, 2009, 09:40 AM »

Quote from: Honeyboy09 on October 14, 2009, 12:08 AM
I've deflowered a lot of girls and now i'm tired of virgins so that's why i'm considering leaving my present g/f the way she is ,

what shall it profit a man, He that sows to the flesh,  or rather,i think u deserve a medal Grin Grin Grin
init4dmoni (m)
Re: Get Married To A Virgin Or Die Searching!
« #38 on: October 14, 2009, 12:14 PM »

which you a piecefull death Tongue
Stella N (f)
Re: Get Married To A Virgin Or Die Searching!
« #39 on: October 14, 2009, 12:22 PM »

poster virgins are around u just that u cant see them, but it will be difficult to get a virgin if u are not one
my prayer is to get him virgin cuz my heart is too preciouse to be broken (i just dey try to keep it)
bonnez (m)
Re: Get Married To A Virgin Or Die Searching!
« #40 on: October 14, 2009, 12:27 PM »

@ poster, this post is ridiculous SHAME ON YOU. people like you disgrace d men fold

to everyone else, i'd like u to know that posts like this differentiate d boys from the men on nairaland

this poster is just a boy. he aint seen nothing yet
Stella N (f)
Re: Get Married To A Virgin Or Die Searching!
« #41 on: October 14, 2009, 12:31 PM »

Quote from: bonnez on October 14, 2009, 12:27 PM
@ poster, this post is ridiculous SHAME ON YOU. people like you disgrace d men fold

to everyone else, i'd like u to know that posts like this differentiate d boys from the men on nairaland

this poster is just a boy. he aint seen nothing yet

he's my fellow virgin mind u
so dont insult him
posakosa (m)
Re: Get Married To A Virgin Or Die Searching!
« #42 on: October 14, 2009, 12:33 PM »

@ 19, Stella you should certainly still be a virgin.

julian_H (m)
Re: Get Married To A Virgin Or Die Searching!
« #43 on: October 14, 2009, 01:15 PM »

Quote from: VALIDATOR on October 13, 2009, 03:14 PM


@Poster:
Stop ego-tripping!
You are just one of those people who like to reap where they did not sow!
How are we sure that you are still a virgin? And how old are you anyway?

What makes you feel/think that marrying a virgin insures success in your marriage?
People should stop living in FOOLS' PARADISE and grow up!
The virginity of a woman does not play any signifant role in the marital union:
if a virgin is not cut out for a wife, she will never make a good wife;
if a non-virgin is a wife marital (no matter the number of men that she slept with)
she will make a good wife and make you proud.
A man that lives in the past makes little or no head ways in life!

I for one dated so many girls (i cant even count) before marriage and none of them was a virgin!
Am i missing anything? No SIR! It makes absolutely no difference to me.
A good, reasonable and responsible woman is good, reasonable and responsible
and the state of her virginity does not make any difference, infact it is superficial.

During my last year in school i met this lovely and naive girl who told me that if she had known she was going to meet someone like that she would have kept her virginity (she lost it just three months before we met!).
I told her that it does and did not matter with me!
People, the level of her exposure/lack of it (and the fact that i was the second person to date her)
did not make her a saint!

If you are looking for a perfect woman/man to marry; YOU ARE GOING TO HAVE A VERY LONG SEARCH!
Why? You will never find one because you that is lookiing for one is not perfect yourself.


A WOMAN MIGHT HAVE KEPT THAT PARTICULAR AREAS (her virginity) SANE AND HAVE (BIG) FLAWS IN EVERY OTHER AREAS of her life! When and if that is the case, WHERE THEN IS YOUR JOY VIRGIN SEEKER!

GROW UP AND STOP EGO-TRIPPING!
posakosa (m)
Re: Get Married To A Virgin Or Die Searching!
« #44 on: October 14, 2009, 01:24 PM »

@ Julian. WOWZERS! BRAVO.


I am more than impressed. Thanks and well said.
julian_H (m)
Re: Get Married To A Virgin Or Die Searching!
« #45 on: October 14, 2009, 01:48 PM »

THANK YOU Wink

I no sabi garnish truth!
VALIDATOR
Re: Get Married To A Virgin Or Die Searching!
« #46 on: October 14, 2009, 03:21 PM »

Quote from: julian_H on October 14, 2009, 01:15 PM
@Poster:
Stop ego-tripping!
You are just one of those people who like to reap where they did not sow!
How are we sure that you are still a virgin? And how old are you anyway?

What makes you feel/think that marrying a virgin insures success in your marriage?
People should stop living in FOOLS' PARADISE and grow up!
The virginity of a woman does not play any signifant role in the marital union:
if a virgin is not cut out for a wife, she will never make a good wife;
if a non-virgin is a wife marital (no matter the number of men that she slept with)
she will make a good wife and make you proud.
A man that lives in the past makes little or no head ways in life!

I for one dated so many girls (i cant even count) before marriage and none of them was a virgin!
Am i missing anything? No SIR! It makes absolutely no difference to me.
A good, reasonable and responsible woman is good, reasonable and responsible
and the state of her virginity does not make any difference, infact it is superficial.

During my last year in school i met this lovely and naive girl who told me that if she had known she was going to meet someone like that she would have kept her virginity (she lost it just three months before we met!).
I told her that it does and did not matter with me!
People, the level of her exposure/lack of it (and the fact that i was the second person to date her)
did not make her a saint!

If you are looking for a perfect woman/man to marry; YOU ARE GOING TO HAVE A VERY LONG SEARCH!
Why? You will never find one because you that is lookiing for one is not perfect yourself.


A WOMAN MIGHT HAVE KEPT THAT PARTICULAR AREAS (her virginity) SANE AND HAVE (BIG) FLAWS IN EVERY OTHER AREAS of her life! When and if that is the case, WHERE THEN IS YOUR JOY VIRGIN SEEKER!

GROW UP AND STOP EGO-TRIPPING!

Gbam !

@poster
If what you want is a happy marriage you don't need a virgin to accomplish that.
If it MUST be a virgin, it can NOT guarantee you happiness in your marriage.

OR

Am I making a mistake by assuming that your main goal is a happy marriage Huh
Adanne2 (f)
Re: Get Married To A Virgin Or Die Searching!
« #47 on: October 15, 2009, 06:35 PM »

Keep Searching there are many fishes in the sea, they are in different sizes, shapes.

So is ladies they are many and I beieve you will find one that's if u are one.

Because after disvirging someoneelse you still have the gut to searh for a virgin.

Light and darkness cannot comprehend; if you are one and pray for one surely u don't need to search,
God will do that for u.

But hw do u make this search?

Remember, stay out of  immorality.
tithe (m)
Re: Get Married To A Virgin Or Die Searching!
« #48 on: October 15, 2009, 06:40 PM »

Quote from: bonnez on October 14, 2009, 12:27 PM
@ poster, this post is ridiculous SHAME ON YOU. people like you disgrace d men fold

to everyone else, i'd like u to know that posts like this differentiate d boys from the men on nairaland

this poster is just a boy. he aint seen nothing yet
Who let the dog out!
tithe (m)
Re: Get Married To A Virgin Or Die Searching!
« #49 on: October 15, 2009, 06:44 PM »

Quote from: julian_H on October 14, 2009, 01:15 PM
@Poster:
Stop ego-tripping!
You are just one of those people who like to reap where they did not sow!
How are we sure that you are still a virgin? And how old are you anyway?

What makes you feel/think that marrying a virgin insures success in your marriage?
People should stop living in FOOLS' PARADISE and grow up!
The virginity of a woman does not play any signifant role in the marital union:
if a virgin is not cut out for a wife, she will never make a good wife;
if a non-virgin is a wife marital (no matter the number of men that she slept with)
she will make a good wife and make you proud.
A man that lives in the past makes little or no head ways in life!

I for one dated so many girls (i cant even count) before marriage and none of them was a virgin!
Am i missing anything? No SIR! It makes absolutely no difference to me.
A good, reasonable and responsible woman is good, reasonable and responsible
and the state of her virginity does not make any difference, infact it is superficial.

During my last year in school i met this lovely and naive girl who told me that if she had known she was going to meet someone like that she would have kept her virginity (she lost it just three months before we met!).
I told her that it does and did not matter with me!
People, the level of her exposure/lack of it (and the fact that i was the second person to date her)
did not make her a saint!

If you are looking for a perfect woman/man to marry; YOU ARE GOING TO HAVE A VERY LONG SEARCH!
Why? You will never find one because you that is lookiing for one is not perfect yourself.


A WOMAN MIGHT HAVE KEPT THAT PARTICULAR AREAS (her virginity) SANE AND HAVE (BIG) FLAWS IN EVERY OTHER AREAS of her life! When and if that is the case, WHERE THEN IS YOUR JOY VIRGIN SEEKER!

GROW UP AND STOP EGO-TRIPPING!
Long post with little sence
Abuzola (m)
Re: Get Married To A Virgin Or Die Searching!
« #50 on: October 15, 2009, 06:49 PM »

@Tithe, i feel you, men like you are rare, it means you are a responsible person and  am proud of you, May God be with you and guide you. Most of this Girls are slut sorry to say   Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin   Yet we have the faithful ones among them, God will not punish you by giving you a slut, what you sow is what you reap, likewise the slut  Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue
Spyker
Re: Get Married To A Virgin Or Die Searching!
« #51 on: October 15, 2009, 07:03 PM »

Poster, i quite understand how you feel. I wanted what you wanted. I met a girl and thought she was a virgin though i am not keen on marrying a virgin, she was the one who made me believe she was. I had kept myself for her until i found out she was banging someone else (ladies, sorry for the language). I had my first sexual experience at 24 or 25 (not very sure which one). I dated another lady for five(5) years and this one broke my heart. I gave up searching. But as God will have it, i met a girl recently and i am going to marry her (hurray). She gave me my heart desire. Now, my ex wants to have me back after she broke my heart. You may ask what did she do? I abstained for 5 years for her because she said no sex before marriage which i agreed to and adhere to. But while she was in school, she kept on having sex to the point that she slept with my friend. You see, if you find that girl, virgin or not, love her for who she is not because of what she is.

God will give you your heart desire if you believe.
My candid advice, a girl being a virgin doesn't make her a wife material. Other factors like her character should be considered more in as much as she is not a cheating on you.
slimcblack
Re: Get Married To A Virgin Or Die Searching!
« #52 on: October 15, 2009, 07:18 PM »

virgins are the worst set of ppl. STINGY
MUZBO (m)
Re: Get Married To A Virgin Or Die Searching!
« #53 on: October 15, 2009, 07:26 PM »

You males are a greedy bunch. You always want the best of both worlds. @poster, I'm sure if you finally marry one you might wish for a non-virgin!
Yea, sue me!
bluespice (f)
Re: Get Married To A Virgin Or Die Searching!
« #54 on: October 15, 2009, 07:29 PM »

Quote from: slimcblack on October 15, 2009, 07:18 PM
virgins are the worst set of ppl. STINGY
and your infinitely stupid too Cheesy
Quote from: tithe on October 15, 2009, 06:44 PM
Long post with little sence
don't let your passions cloud your reasoning son
Quote from: julian_H on October 14, 2009, 01:15 PM
@Poster:
Stop ego-tripping!
You are just one of those people who like to reap where they did not sow!
How are we sure that you are still a virgin? And how old are you anyway?

What makes you feel/think that marrying a virgin insures success in your marriage?
People should stop living in FOOLS' PARADISE and grow up!
The virginity of a woman does not play any signifant role in the marital union:
if a virgin is not cut out for a wife, she will never make a good wife;
if a non-virgin is a wife marital (no matter the number of men that she slept with)
she will make a good wife and make you proud.
A man that lives in the past makes little or no head ways in life!

I for one dated so many girls (i cant even count) before marriage and none of them was a virgin!
Am i missing anything? No SIR! It makes absolutely no difference to me.
A good, reasonable and responsible woman is good, reasonable and responsible
and the state of her virginity does not make any difference, infact it is superficial.

During my last year in school i met this lovely and naive girl who told me that if she had known she was going to meet someone like that she would have kept her virginity (she lost it just three months before we met!).
I told her that it does and did not matter with me!
People, the level of her exposure/lack of it (and the fact that i was the second person to date her)
did not make her a saint!

If you are looking for a perfect woman/man to marry; YOU ARE GOING TO HAVE A VERY LONG SEARCH!
Why? You will never find one because you that is lookiing for one is not perfect yourself.


A WOMAN MIGHT HAVE KEPT THAT PARTICULAR AREAS (her virginity) SANE AND HAVE (BIG) FLAWS IN EVERY OTHER AREAS of her life! When and if that is the case, WHERE THEN IS YOUR JOY VIRGIN SEEKER!

GROW UP AND STOP EGO-TRIPPING!
thanks for spitting the truth
sandee575
Re: Get Married To A Virgin Or Die Searching!
« #55 on: October 15, 2009, 07:37 PM »

unless you fall into the obsessive disorder group under mental illness, whats virginity got to
do with your marriage.
gamechange (m)
Re: Get Married To A Virgin Or Die Searching!
« #56 on: October 15, 2009, 07:38 PM »

This guy dey look for who im go take do juju, virgin ko, na okada you go find.
Koiki.M
Re: Get Married To A Virgin Or Die Searching!
« #57 on: October 15, 2009, 07:41 PM »

Quote
Am simply searching for a virgin not a Dog

Keep seaching or die a virgin. Virgins are hard to find.
cvibe
Re: Get Married To A Virgin Or Die Searching!
« #58 on: October 15, 2009, 07:42 PM »

How will you confirm the girl is a virgin?  Will you inspect?
gamechange (m)
Re: Get Married To A Virgin Or Die Searching!
« #59 on: October 15, 2009, 07:49 PM »

What if you fall into the hand of someone who has done surgery, I guess you can spot a con.

http://richarddawkins.net/article,1040,French-Muslim-women-opt-for-hymen-surgical-cons,The-Muslim-Weekly
omohwunmmy
Re: Get Married To A Virgin Or Die Searching!
« #60 on: October 15, 2009, 07:51 PM »

poster, u just one of those people who attach too much importance to shadows not the real thing. virginity is good but it does not make a woman virtuous.

@ julian, may i say i like your post; straight from my heart.
hollandis
Re: Get Married To A Virgin Or Die Searching!
« #61 on: October 15, 2009, 08:02 PM »

@Poster
I feel you bro
Many of the comments are actually from girls that regret losing their virginity.I have decided to marry a virgin ,come what may.
My present girl is a virgin and she is 23.
olelle
Re: Get Married To A Virgin Or Die Searching!
« #62 on: October 15, 2009, 08:08 PM »

I understand your point, if you are not a virgin. But what is the point. I've known many guys who married virgins and the marriage didn't last. Virginity is not a factor or guarantee or something good in a woman that makes a marriage  last.
Go for the virginity, I advise you, but please take the above words into consideration
JesusDWay
Re: Get Married To A Virgin Or Die Searching!
« #63 on: October 15, 2009, 08:13 PM »

God have mercy. See the way majority here are frowning at virginity. Only God knows if we will have any morals left for the younger generation. No role models again. Anyway, whether majority supports it or not, virginity is still a virtue. The fact that you have lost yours should not make u lash out at those that still cherish it.

@Poster. Virginity however, does not necessarily mean she will be all round good. I understand your quest for fidelity. It is your own choice but i think it might be narrow. There are those who have lost it but have now decided to keep themselves. Dont you think they should be considered too?
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