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larimo
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I know that being a virgin before marriage is a great thing. Marrying a virgin is equally a great thing. I have experienced both.
The poster may not have the maturity yet to handle marriage with a non-virgin and there's nothing wrong with that. Its better not to enter thinking he's superman, only to find out that he is tormented for a long time. In time, he will understand if he wishes to that if such a non-virgin embraces Christ, she is as pure as gold in God's eyes. He will love her unconditionally.
Some nairalanders are responding defensively probably because they feel guilty when such a subject is discussed. Someone saying virgins are stingy or become cheats is being ridiculous, because everyone at one time or another was a virgin. Frankly, sex outside marriage has caused so much havoc when partners aren't satisfied and start recalling all their previous escapades. Some avoid discussing their sexual needs at home because they wouldnt want their partners to say dirty words to them about their past. In the process, they seek their cravings outside the home.
Nothing is better than two persons being virgins before getting married!
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JesusDWay
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@Larimo. That was a good one. You can imagine how people are lashing out at virgins. Its really absurd.
So, we should not celebrate good virtues again? God will help us.
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legba1 (m)
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@ poster,life about choice.if its wat u chose to have,then you have to earn it and you do that by being a virgin urself coz if u're not one u'll cheat on her later.this is because if u had been treated to some nasty style before u wont enjoy her inexperience wen it comes to bedmatic.so u got to be as naive and crude in the game to sustain your abstinence.A WORD IS ENOUGH FOR THE WISE.
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legba1 (m)
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@ poster,life about choice.if its wat u chose to have,then you have to earn it and you do that by being a virgin urself coz if u're not one u'll cheat on her later.this is because if u had been treated to some nasty style before u wont enjoy her inexperience wen it comes to bedmatic.so u got to be as naive and crude in the game to sustain your abstinence.A WORD IS ENOUGH FOR THE WISE.
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larimo
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@Jesustheway, thanx. you also wrote very well. its a surprise/shame that pple will prefer to denounce a great virtue as virginity most probably becos they have lost it.
NLanders, Jesus gives another chance to us all to make up for our ugly past, whatever it is, if any be in Christ, he is a new creation; old things have passed away, behold all things are now new!
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tunyus (m)
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virgin or no vorgin what am after is a gud guy
afterall virginity is just lack of opportunity
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Warlly (m)
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I respect your choice for a Virgin, the only way you going to get one is to Raise her your self all this girls now get dis-virgin by their father and other family member, that's why you are not going to get any support from the girls may i say (hall way) they are all open room with no door
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hollandis
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afterall virginity is just lack of opportunity
So you mean you take quotes in Nairaland serious? Wake up  Virginity means self control  |
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chiogo (f)
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LOL if I got a dollar everytime the word 'virgin' is used on nairaland, I'll be stanky rich by now. sheesh. una no dey tire?  |
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hollandis
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No one is disagreeing here  You be virgin?  |
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koolchicco
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Yes sir! Just as a whore should marry a whore, abi?  |
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lonelypal (m)
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LOL if I got a dollar everytime the word 'virgin' is used on nairaland, I'll be stanky rich by now. sheesh. una no dey tire? exactly my sentiments, i tire o @ poster I will only concur wit your postion only if u are also a virgin( HE WHO COMES TO EQUITY MUST COME WIT CLEAN HAND)@Poster
I feel you bro
Many of the comments are actually from girls that regret losing their virginity.I have decided to marry a virgin ,come what may.
My present girl is a virgin and she is 23.
Hmnn, I sincerely hope so, been there bro @julian H ON POINT! D best post so far, simply d bitter truth, u will only disagree with that if u maligned urself wit 'what ought to be' rather than realities of lyfe. |
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tithe (m)
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Poster, i quite understand how you feel. I wanted what you wanted. I met a girl and thought she was a virgin though i am not keen on marrying a virgin, she was the one who made me believe she was. I had kept myself for her until i found out she was banging someone else (ladies, sorry for the language). I had my first sexual experience at 24 or 25 (not very sure which one). I dated another lady for five(5) years and this one broke my heart. I gave up searching. But as God will have it, i met a girl recently and i am going to marry her (hurray). She gave me my heart desire. Now, my ex wants to have me back after she broke my heart. You may ask what did she do? I abstained for 5 years for her because she said no sex before marriage which i agreed to and adhere to. But while she was in school, she kept on having sex to the point that she slept with my friend. You see, if you find that girl, virgin or not, love her for who she is not because of what she is.
God will give you your heart desire if you believe.
My candid advice, a girl being a virgin doesn't make her a wife material. Other factors like her character should be considered more in as much as she is not a cheating on you.
honestly u made a point, i appreciate |
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platinumnk (f)
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Yes sir! Just as a whore should marry a whore, abi? haha there are people who lose their virginity and become whores, and those who do and are not. my least priorty in a partner is virginity if i wasnt a virgin. |
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platinumnk (f)
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would you be proud to marry a virgin if she practiced fellatio to 100 guys? it shouldnt matter right! she a virgin that like drinking jamba juice what about virgin whores?!! ok this worked before so. . . im auctioning my virginity: Starting bid 1000 naira, next bid?  |
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OAM4J (m)
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@ Poster
Well I understand how you feel. Let me say that there are lots of virgins out there, with patience you will find one.
But having said that, it’s not just being a virgin that will guarantee faithfulness and trust in marriage. If she is God fearing (for real) virgin or no virgin she will make a good wife.
Before I got married, I was close to 2 other 'sistas' who admitted to me that they were virgins. But I didn’t consider marrying any of them because there were lots of other things about them I didn’t like.
Also there was this friend of mine’s wife who made a pass at me, wanted us to be having an affair, I was tempted, but was able to avoid her. Meanwhile my friend married her as a virgin.
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3kay945 (m)
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uhm, am on d rite track, no cos 4calamity. |
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PHIPEX
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I know that being a virgin before marriage is a great thing. Marrying a virgin is equally a great thing. I have experienced both.
The poster may not have the maturity yet to handle marriage with a non-virgin and there's nothing wrong with that. Its better not to enter thinking he's superman, only to find out that he is tormented for a long time. In time, he will understand if he wishes to that if such a non-virgin embraces Christ, she is as pure as gold in God's eyes. He will love her unconditionally.
Some nairalanders are responding defensively probably because they feel guilty when such a subject is discussed. Someone saying virgins are stingy or become cheats is being ridiculous, because everyone at one time or another was a virgin. Frankly, sex outside marriage has caused so much havoc when partners aren't satisfied and start recalling all their previous escapades. Some avoid discussing their sexual needs at home because they wouldnt want their partners to say dirty words to them about their past. In the process, they seek their cravings outside the home.
Nothing is better than two persons being virgins before getting married!
you'v said it all, God bless!
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Ebonyeyes (f)
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I know that being a virgin before marriage is a great thing. Marrying a virgin is equally a great thing. I have experienced both.
The poster may not have the maturity yet to handle marriage with a non-virgin and there's nothing wrong with that. Its better not to enter thinking he's superman, only to find out that he is tormented for a long time. In time, he will understand if he wishes to that if such a non-virgin embraces Christ, she is as pure as gold in God's eyes. He will love her unconditionally.
Some nairalanders are responding defensively probably because they feel guilty when such a subject is discussed. Someone saying virgins are stingy or become cheats is being ridiculous, because everyone at one time or another was a virgin. Frankly, sex outside marriage has caused so much havoc when partners aren't satisfied and start recalling all their previous escapades. Some avoid discussing their sexual needs at home because they wouldnt want their partners to say dirty words to them about their past. In the process, they seek their cravings outside the home.
Nothing is better than two persons being virgins before getting married!
you'v said it all, God bless!
Award for the greatest post by a newbie  |
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koolchicco
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Award for the greatest post by a newbie Dont be so gullible. An old wine in a new bottle, It is. |
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chika98
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Dont be so gullible. An old wine in a new bottle, It is. Funny |
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Ebonyeyes (f)
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Dont be so gullible. An old wine in a new bottle, It is. Goodness gracious there is a lot I need to know about this place |
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koolchicco
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Goodness gracious there is a lot I need to know about this place Sister, Its a learning process. We don see taya 4 here. |
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Igwe.
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Hey chika98! where in God's name have you been? oh dear, i missed you . . . . . . . . .
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aomom (m)
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hehehhe if we are to take a census of virgins to non virgins i bet yah its 15 to 85% prove me wrong pls
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Homonide
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virgin or no vorgin what am after is a gud guy
afterall virginity is just lack of opportunity
Virginity is lack of opportunity? what impudence. I believe marrying a virgin or otherwise is a personal choice we have to make. but i beg to differ. A good number of pretty girls are out there, virgins, and they are virgins not because they don't have the opportunity. It's a choice they made. What the world is turning into!!!  |
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404eater
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una dey lack of opportunity. simple.!
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aomom (m)
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virginity is just lack of opportunity?
this is 100000 percent bullshite
only fools says that i mean F O O L S
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aomom (m)
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una dey lack of opportunity. simple.!
after that useless oportunity did it take u to the next level or can u now fly? ode |
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THE AMAKA (f)
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i will not repeat my response to threads like this. but just read this carefully. thats all. *outtie!* >>>>>>> http://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-337170.0.html <<<<<<< and MODS im tired of you changing my topic. i put it that way for a reason. i dont like that title, cause that is NOT what i said. sheesh!!! and the way i wrote it was for a reason. why add all the spaces ect. . . |
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