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RitaPurity (f)
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A lady of 24 years old and a graduate with a nice work. Can actually love well but can never go to bed with any man outside wedluck. Specifically due to her belief.
Quite pretty and medically ok.
Would you prefer her as a wife all other things being equal. Or what do you think
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angelz
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I love people wu r discipline n av total control of dia emotn. I'l prefer a virgin as a mate.
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Theodora (f)
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"Nobody dies a virgin life screws us all", but what if the partner is not good in bed, love is important in a marriage but the role of sex cannot be over emphasized. Am sure nobody wants to be married for a life time to someone who sucks in bed,
So no! i would prefer an experienced man 
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ollyruffy
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As for me,i will jump at her, i believe this type of a lady is one in a million and also for her to be able to control her emotions to that extend,her husband will sure enjoy her faithfulness,submission and commitment in marriage.i am also she must be Godly
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fellow (m)
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not really though,
I would prefer someone who could match my sexual preference. In our society of today, emphasis is been placed more on sexual satisfaction than been a virgin. If i get one, good and fine, if i don't, suits me well but i sure am not in a look out for a virgin.
How do i know if we are compactible on bed, i mean i don't want to like stay late nights out with a co-worker or have a sexual partner outside my home based on the excuse that my wife doesnt satisfy my sexual lust!
You get my drift,
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RitaPurity (f)
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not really though,
I would prefer someone who could match my sexual preference. In our society of today, emphasis is been placed more on sexual satisfaction than been a virgin. If i get one, good and fine, if i don't, suits me well but i sure am not in a look out for a virgin.
How do i know if we are compactible on bed, i mean i don't want to like stay late nights out with a co-worker or have a sexual partner outside my home based on the excuse that my wife doesnt satisfy my sexual lust!
You get my drift, ss Does this mean you must go to bed with a lady before u marry her? Is it not possible the person learns form you. Must she be experienced? |
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ikamefa (f)
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amma make it short and sweet NO
speaking for ma self i want a man who has experienced life and is an absolute superman in bed !
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sage (m)
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As for me,i will jump at her, i believe this type of a lady is one in a million and also for her to be able to control her emotions to that extend,her husband will sure enjoy her faithfulness,submission and commitment in marriage.i am also she must be Godly
Thats very NAIVE of a person to say. What has virginity got to do with especially Submission and to a lesser extent absolute faithfulness and also commitment  Where you more submissive before you had sex? |
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iice (f)
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@Topic, for me NO the more rotten/spoilt he is, the better. not really though,
I would prefer someone who could match my sexual preference. In our society of today, emphasis is been placed more on sexual satisfaction than been a virgin. If i get one, good and fine, if i don't, suits me well but i sure am not in a look out for a virgin.
How do i know if we are compactible on bed, i mean i don't want to like stay late nights out with a co-worker or have a sexual partner outside my home based on the excuse that my wife doesnt satisfy my sexual lust!
You get my drift,
I totally get you. 
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globalaid (m)
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what will i take virgin do, i want my wife tested and at least 5 years experience.
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Sayoh (f)
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C'mon people! D fact that s'one is a virgin doesn't make d person a loser in bed. Afterall there are many educative articles on sex u can learn from. It all depends on hw crazy n creative d person cn be n nt necessarily xperience.
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fellow (m)
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ss
Does this mean you must go to bed with a lady before u marry her? Is it not possible the person learns form you. Must she be experienced?
You see the art of learning is actually what we are talking about here. How do you teach her?
How does she learn? by reading books and watching movies? well i think the answer to your question is YES, i would go to bed with a lady before i marry her cause that's when i can teach her about it.
Aight |
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crazykid (m)
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Why not?
every man's dream is to get married to a virgin.
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cutiee_xx (f)
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Why not?
every man's dream is to get married to a virgin.
u sure so  ? |
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Busta (f)
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Why not?
every man's dream is to get married to a virgin.
really. .is it? |
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babycool (f)
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I defintely would not want to marry a virgin because believe it or not every person that is just disvirgined is prone to a phrase of sexual awareness which makes the person adventurous and want to have enconuters from different people because at that stage, he/ she cannot control their sexual prowress, i wont want my man to go through that phrase in our marital home! The more experienced, the better for me, infact i would prefer the one that is tired of "testing" and has decided to settle down.  |
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macalurs (m)
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What is this virginity thingy about? And what exactly is marriage?
If the proof of virginity is the blood that runs through the vagina when the hymen is broken, then it's useless. Why? Not all ladies bleed on the first night. Infact the hymen tears when one endulges in rigourous physical fitness, even riding a bycicle and do the job. So, it all boils down to one truth: trust. There is no way I can proove you're a virgin if you don't bleed.
And marriage? Is your proof of marriage those documents you're given in court? Do you both cease to be married when you lose them to a fire? When one deserts a marriage, he automatically voids the marriage contract. It doesnt have to be sexual promiscuity.
My point is: virginity is a symbol, same as a wedding. For the fact you haven't had sex doesn't mean you are sexually pure at heart. It doesn't prove to me that you wont have sex with some other guy tomorrow. The strongest reason that keeps one a virgin is deliberate IGNORANCE. "I don't know about it, and I don't want to know about it, period". It's not because you have tasted it and it's useless, but because you're afraid it's all you have to show when you get married. What happens when you don't bleed? What happens when your husband is not enlightened enough to know you don't have to bleed?
Nothing makes a virgin less likely to cheat. Actually it makes her more vulnerable to it than it protects her. When her ignorance is unmasked and she finds out that there's nothing special about the wedding night, she's alot likely to be less opinionated.
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diddy4 (m)
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virgin or no virgin if the love is there others no concern me.
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diddy4 (m)
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whats virginity if the girl has a bad xter?
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Eurphoria (f)
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hmm virgin virgin virgin please my cousin was a virgin didnt stop her husband from cheating. Why do some men want it so much? please guys do tell
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diddy4 (m)
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me no know. i don't see anything differnt between a virgin and a non virgin except that one has been sexless and one is sexful.
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Eurphoria (f)
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LMAO please my ribs
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diddy4 (m)
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your ribs? thats the last thing i want to destroy now.
but on the serious though, there is really not much difference. one has one black wall protecting it the other doesnt have any black wall protecting it. the black wall is destroyed easily while the one that doesnt have any black wall is free to open the gates and close the gates at will.
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Eurphoria (f)
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what an analogy . ANyways if i don't chat to you round this place soon have a lovely newyears eve celebration and all the best in the coming year later  |
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diddy4 (m)
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what an analogy . ANyways if i don't chat to you round this place soon have a lovely newyears eve celebration and all the best in the coming year later aww, same too you sugar. |
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1forall (m)
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Rita, I appreciate virginity in a woman, and would prefer to marry one.
People, one's perception of virginity is based on values, notice there as many who speak for it as there are against.
Whatever your stand, please respect other people's choices.
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fresh-B
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@ all
if you prefer virgin--how many have you tried to protect when they fall prey to you?
if you really really prefer virgin, how many have you told the truth about true love without sex?
it is high time everyone accomodated virgins. it is not easy to be one. if you are a virgin, don't keep it secret because youre timorously shy but because you want to protect your virginity from devourers who pretend they want to help you.
i do not mind if my spouse will be virgin or not. as long as they turned faithful.
if youre worried about teachin a virgin spouse, then they will hav to be worried that you started it from age one, consequently, youre already a third hand tokumbo car.
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kimba (m)
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for me:
She isnt in MY PICTURE if she has LOST IT
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ibilok (m)
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Well that a tough one.  considering the fact that in this day and age,one would want to be sure of a life partner's hiv status. It's nice to know she's a virgin, but if after i bust her cherry,i'm not enough for her. she might suddenly realise what she has been missing. |
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