Should Men Avoid Women During Xmas?

to be a man is not a days job. ordinarily it shouldnt be a one way spending, both parties are suppose to shower gifts on each oda.
but if you choose to be a playa then be man enough to carry the responsibilty and in this case wife/wives, galfriend(s), and concubines should be your responsibility.

    

Its interesting just what emotions an innocent thread could generate.I even sense one or two people reaping romantic dividends from the very exciting discussions.But,My position still remains that the way women tend to want to run men down financially during festive seasons like christmas etc,men need to deivise a stay-away-from women policy if only to protect that hard-earned monies.

the answr is NO

y i think that is when dey need men most,someone to cling to so as not be lonley,someone to have sex with.

My sweet loving Radiant. I am not a lier and I honestly don't want to fight over you but i did mention your case to my dad and you know what he said? If you love her then go after her, you have my full support.

I am bidding my time though because there is a popular saying saying that says if you love something then let it go, if it comes back then it is yours but if it did not then it was never meant to be yours and i know you are mine though.

Yes ooo!! during Christmas period, just tell her your mama wey don die say make u go village go do some spiritual cleansing. thereby avoid getting her anything for that period. Do that more often in any occasion but do change the pattern of the lie   

I don't know about you guys but for my case, when its Chirstmas, we don't buy any gifts for anyone. We would collect all the money we have (well, its our choice on how much we want to give) and then we would buy groceries and we would cook together on Christmas Eve and have a Christmas family dinner. Thats all and nothing more. After dinner, we will  put up the christmas tree. Each person will make their own christmas ornament (could be from garbage/recycled item) or some would just buy one so even if its a boyfrind or a girlfriend, they would join in so no need for all this spending on gifts and all this nonsense.

But you know, they say Christmas is about giving and not receiving. Still if you cannot afford it, no need to force yourself just to please a certain someone.