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spikedcylinder
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I'm curious.
Normally in any social or professional setting theres a female (or few females in some cases) that command the admiration and lust of most of the men. Whether in Uni, neighborhood or workplace. Those women that are attractive and have options - women that always have all the guys on their back trying to make them laugh and get close.
Im just wondering, what do you feel like being this sort of woman? Does all the attention get to their head? Do they usually make the wrong decisions? Do they ever notice men that ignore them and don't go all the way to please them? Are they ever happy? Do you sometimes tire of the attention? What happens when you get older and less attractive and the attention simmers?
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Ebonyeyes (f)
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This is a trick complex question. "seats and waits for replies before contributing to the topic"
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spikedcylinder
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Trick question ke?
Do you consider yourself a woman in demand?
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Pittbaby (f)
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to many variables for one answer to apply , just look at hollywood there are the older stars that still hold their own and there are the ones that will noy let their hay day go.
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iice (f)
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My sis-in-law is that kind of woman. No woman do i know other than less of a handful with strong will and direction as her  Which makes her all the more appealing to them  I guess that's why we get along 
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tpia.
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more of a high school/college thing but yes, there are such women.
Some are genuine while others are manipulative.
some women are just sexy or attractive like that.
One such girl I know, had a guy fall in love with her and she wasnt aware of it until he informed her his parents wanted to meet her. He'd told them she was the girl he was going to marry. And all the while she only thought he was a friend. Big brouhaha at the time.
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spikedcylinder
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Go to this forum, www.naijahotsingles.com , there, there is a forum board for seduction, Playboy is there teaching every one how to seduce opposite sex. i think it will help in the question you are asking,  |
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opsydudu (m)
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this thread is strictly for the ladies, for me, i have never seen/met any women as close as being in demand. Such women do not exist except if you-women do feel/think that you are in such position because men or people generally want to be with you, then something is wrong somewhere.
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spikedcylinder
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this thread is strictly for the ladies, for me, i have never seen/met any women as close as being in demand. Such women do not exist except if you-women do feel/think that you are in such position because men or people generally want to be with you, then something is wrong somewhere.
You've never met a beautiful woman that has all sorts of men chasing her about like rabid dogs? |
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tpia.
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I asked because I have seen different variations to "popular in demand women". Whilst some take it in stride, enjoy the compliments and get along with their lives, others seem to live for the attention. Interesting thing is, to me, half of them are not even attractive. What's the pulling power?
could be they have the ability to make the guys feel special in some way. Men rarely resist that. Especially when you massage their ego. this thread is strictly for the ladies, for me, i have never seen/met any women as close as being in demand. Such women do not exist except if you-women do feel/think that you are in such position because men or people generally want to be with you, then something is wrong somewhere.
surprised @ bolded. You've never met any such women? |
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puskin
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Such women often fall 4d guyz U least xpect.
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spikedcylinder
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could be they have the ability to make the guys feel special in some way. Men rarely resist that. Especially when you massage their ego.
No, not really. Their shine shine physical appearance pretty much does the talking for them.
I used to have a friend in uni whom I'd rather die than pay compliments to. Reason is because EVERYTIME I paid her a compliment in the past, she'd respond by saying "I know". Very attractive but incredibly cocky. |
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michelin89 (f)
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@ topic Those girls are  But there are some who are simply cool and get along very well with guys. |
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tpia.
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No, not really. Their shine shine physical appearance pretty much does the talking for them. I used to have a friend in uni whom I'd rather die than pay compliments to. Reason is because EVERYTIME I paid her a compliment in the past, she'd respond by saying "I know". Very attractive but incredibly cocky.
@ bolded that too. |
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Ebonyeyes (f)
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No, not really. Their shine shine physical appearance pretty much does the talking for them.
I used to have a friend in uni whom I'd rather die than pay compliments to. Reason is because EVERYTIME I paid her a compliment in the past, she'd respond by saying "I know". Very attractive but incredibly cocky.
It could be jokes hun. I have said that as well its all jokes. |
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spikedcylinder
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^^^^ No, they were not jokes. She is very vain.
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spikedcylinder
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Anyone who gives you that kind of attention should be jailed for paedophilia anyway. 
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ibkaye
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Lord have mercy, am I the child who never grows?  |
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debest1 (m)
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popular in-demand girls soon lose their dignity as no man likes to marry an "anfani adugbo" even if the reputation is ill-deserved
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michelin89 (f)
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popular in-demand girls soon lose their dignity as no man likes to marry an "anfani adugbo" even if the reputation is ill-deserved
Wrong! The end up getting married to the richest men. |
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debest1 (m)
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Wrong! The end up getting married to the richest men.
and becos the man is rich that implies she is happily married? |
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michelin89 (f)
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and becos the man is rich that implies she is happily married? Do you know what I'd give to have her closet? |
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debest1 (m)
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Do you know what I'd give to have her closet?
closet may be filled with gold and silver, what abt the love and companionship she wud crave in the times when wealth becomes irrelevant |
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spikedcylinder
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hehehe, I am a woman in demand and cuz I am used to it all da way from primary skool, it is no longer an issue couple with the fact that I am shy
How do you think you react to all the attention you get? |
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omega25red (m)
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These types of women enjoy all that attention. some end up getting married before it gets too late and some wait too long to get married before they realise that beyond their rapidly fading beauty they have nothing else going for them. I have also found that most of these women tend to notice a guy who could care less about their beauty because they tend to be curious as to what you have going for yourself that you didn't even notice how pretty they are. the list goes on and on
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debest1 (m)
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How do you think you react to all the attention you get?
a more pertinent question is why she is in demand, is it cos of her looks, ass, boobs, lips, legs or brain? cos if its the looks, they wud do the deed and move on sharpish |
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michelin89 (f)
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closet may be filled with gold and silver, what abt the love and companionship she wud crave in the times when wealth becomes irrelevant
I am going to have those. I need her closet to complete my already satisfying life. |
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chiogo (f)
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Popular in demand. haha. I don't know about that.
I've never seen a female who EVERY guy wants. C'mon!! But then I guess it depends on the intentions of the guys.
Most aren't love-related, mostly lust.
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spikedcylinder
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a more pertinent question is why she is in demand, is it cos of her looks, ass, boobs, lips, legs or brain? cos if its the looks, they wud do the deed and move on sharpish
No, I'd rather ask the question I asked. I already know what physical attributes appeal to most men. |
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