Where Are All the Good Nigerian/African Men?

I think the guys are in a better position to defend themselves but guess they ain't up to the task.

just wondering if anyone knows a site where i can listen to some good Nigerian music. since i can't buy any, is there any online radio stations or a site where i can download some. thanks everyone. 

At the moment , i don't think radiopalmwine is accessible because i haven't been able to listen to any songs.


But give it a try anywayz. Maybe its my system thats refusing to play the songs.

haba double face, it's not nice to speak of a lady like that, one whom you are dating for that matter. Now i see why women are asking if there are any good African/Nigerian men around.

Fine, you're speaking the truth but did you have to speak of her in such a derogatory manner? you probably wouldn't like it if someone else spoke that way about you. I believe women deserve some kind of respect. I might be coming on a little too sentimental about the whole thing but i am a woman too and I know what it will feel like to be spoken to/about in such a way.  For peace's sake though, i'm letting this issue go. I guess you have the free will to say whatever you please but just remember to take other's feelings into consideration.

@doubleface, all that said and done, i feel we might have gotten off on the wrong foot so................friends? _{(streches out her hand anticipating a hand shake)}
i see you're new here and i didn't even say WELCOME TO NAIRALAND. so there goes, i just said it. 
one more thing, don't call your self ugly. you're not! no one is. you're God's creation and so are divinly made ok?

quiet whitesharks, quiet... have u forgotten we are ment to be cutting off your ding-ding in some thread... Good men ko/ ni

@madam:hahahaha
yes shark, we're still ASSUMING!

Okay, its all been said, Chigurl, believe it or not, there are good naija guys, good ones infact, and the thing is that, they also are looking for the good naija ladies, where are they" nobody knows, untill both encounter themselves and see into eah other eyes the attraction and that they are made for each other.

Trust me you will see him and when he sees you all he thinks about is care, love and respect and not SEX. not all are full of crap.
instance, i have met few naija ladies too that just make you think what is wrong with all these naija babes that come to the USA and change. although it cross my mind and i say " where are all the good naija babes are they all ful of crap too? but i still hold the hope to meet just one that will make the click. And when i hear stories of young naija couples 4 months into marraige already seperated, a naija man that bought a Gun and shot his naija wife..ooooppppss, then i begin to think well good i have not met one, because those example are not made for each other but they gave in and see the story.

So hang in there, someday you will see the right naija man eyes and you wil know ok ok here one comes. As for me, yes i am still looking for a naija babe with good but doesn't have to be perfect profile. so i am hanging in also and still not resigning to a fact that all naija babes are full of crap. Liek someone says maybe the good naija babes are in the village in naija, but wait till you see how hard it can be to bring them over to the us, unless they win lottery so also goes to a guy in naija for a naija babe in yankee!!

my piece and me i am still siddon and looking for her to cross my path or me cross her path so i can look into her eyes.

well any naija babe i be dey see, i am always looking into their eyes one i no see Light, i run. so if you see a naija guy dey look u for eye , e fit be me ooo, so light up your face in case and if it is not me, it might be the one made for you. 

Open your eyes. No one (except Micheal Jackson) chose their race/colour. Character is a different matter.
In short stop looking for Nigerian/African men. Look for good men.

Edon,

Not all girls are materialistic.

True as well

you know, a good man!

Thats what the male gender would say of course but we chics say otherwise

Okay Okay, Ladies can you tell us then, what do you all want in a Man , what are you expecting? What is the Primary thing that will make you go with the decision of resting your head on his chest look and smile and close your eyes and let the reality never turn to a dream.

I have encountered situations where it spells that the typical naija lady is looking ready made men, I am always of the school of thot that everybody are ready made and beautiful in God's site.

The good guys are watching and reading waiting for your responses. leave God fearing men out of your option we already know that is a general requirements from both men and women

watching and reading !!!!!

Some men are so shallow no wonder no more good men exist.