clothing that is too tight clothing that has a poor fit things that expose the ugly and cover up the beautiful old hand bag ratty hair (I am a stickler for beautiful hair and make up and if these things are not tight no clothes you are going to wear will help out) the shoes are the outfit! A nice out fit with bad shoes is crXp but a great pair of shoes can glam up a very plain outfit. Purse must go with the shoes but not necessarily match A lady wears understated elegant jewelery not heaps of pieces every where. Bad odor can destroy a lovely look. Bad breath too.