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Eby (f)
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Can you date sombody who has dated your brother or sister and you were fully aware of their relationship. Now you are in love, what will yu do?
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smartsoft (m)
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Hey baby, know 2 ways about it men, just go for it.. if you are in love with him.. Your way.. men don't let anyone bring yah down. or discourage you
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Seun (m)
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I agree with smartsoft. When you break up with someone, it's none of your business who decides to pick her up from where you dumped her and start dating her. If you don't want your brother to date your girlfriend, don't break up with her. Simple!
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Eby (f)
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You guys have a point there, but don't yu think its not morally right for yu to start sleeping with someone who already slept with your sis/brother.
Yu know, in western world such will not be accounted as offence but african (NIGERIA) will count it as a let down on your brother. Even the person involved will not be free-minded in the relationship. I have someone who is a victim of this and is confused on how to go about it.
Even parents may not consent to such marriage. Yu c what I mean!!
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smartsoft (m)
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See.. Eby Maturity has to come in .. Okay, love is a very strong word.. So just act maturedly thats all..
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Outkast (f)
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On a personal note, I'd feel very betrayed that my sister was dating my ex. It's just immoral.
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hot-angel (f)
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i will date em.
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Eby (f)
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yes! I want to follow my heart, but evrybody thinks am bad, morally ill.
How long will I live with the guilt??
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prettyH (f)
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I personally won't do it because i think its wrong?
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lauryn (f)
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i think it would be really disrespectul to date a brother or sister's ex, because the person might look down on your family members, but shoot, if i fall in love with him, i'll go for it
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Eby (f)
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Ok! i think da best thing is to supress the feelings and let him/her go. because yu wont be able to stand the oppositions of yr folks. Yu know what?? its risky, b/c these people that have dated each other and loved each before can still make love again when caught in an unholy place. One thing I know is that there is 20% probability of slepping with your past lover when yu meet again.
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mercyuti (f)
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hell no would never do that its reminant abi u na no understand
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shalleywa (f)
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Abeg no matta d love it's 4ckd.love no blind reach da extent bco.its bad
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babwilms (m)
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Its not done where i come from)? That is also why sex before marriage its not good and the bible states it aswell. As long as their was no sex involved in the previous relationship with your brother or sister's ex their is nothing wrong with it
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gem87 (f)
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i've been in that position it was a bit awkward at 1st but u get over it they broke up innit? it's not like u snatched him, so no wahala
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curiousNja (f)
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I think that's morally wrong. And from experience, I have realized that usually those relationships(dating a sibling's ex) don't last anyway.
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mamaput (f)
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When i was 13 i was in love with a boy he was like 17. I even used to dream how we will marry.But he was my brothers friend. Sometimes when my brother comes home late i will be waiting with food not for my brother but his friend. But for him i was only the little sister of his Friend. A few years later a friend of mien , my best friend then told me she had met this guy and they are dating. When she told me the name i was like  . anyway best friends always tell themselves everything. still a few years later she had broken up with him longest time. A knock on my door and my "dream"man from that time wanted to go out with me. I went out with him even went to his flat with him , but that was it.I told him that i can never go out with a man that has slept with my sister or Friend. He thought iwas jealous but i explained its just principals. At this stage he tried to lie and said he never had sex with my friend. But i only had to laugh. I told him a few details of his sex with her . And he was like "scai you girls you talk a lot. |
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babymine (f)
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Ebi its so very wrong, Please don't try it. Just because you're in love doesn't mean that you have to let go of your morals and dignity. I'd never date a guy who has dated any of my sisters or friends! Is he the only guy around?  Puh-lease. 
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