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thimbook2 (m)
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1. drooling all over her like u were some sick lovestruck racoon, that's bad for business. gives u off like u were some geek who's on the needy side besides a girl'll have more time for a guy in charge of his own reality than some dude whose all over her like a mouse on cheesecake - point made!
2. acceding to her every demands, that's a real boat sinker. be yourself, and put your foot down wherever and whenever u need to, friendship's by choice, but then that may very well swing in the direction of what u looking for, then the odds would be attacked in different ways and u might end up not needing all these precautions, likely scenario?, conning your way into a one night-stand.
3. getting all souped up in her superchick image / getting carried away / etc - no! stick to the things that mark you out as an individual, and give concessions where necessary as choices made to give your relationship/friendship a chance or boost it rightly needs.
4. hasty assumptions, sometimes da ladies just want to talk, play or just have fun like da song says but too many guys would jump the gun because of the two text messages she sent you, haha! Heh, use that brain, man and interpret actions for what they are instead of just jumping to conclusions, many a sweet thing are ruined, crushed at their nascent stages because of that immature declaration or display of affection before its time is due.
5. rambling, bad, man, that's bad too. some gyrls need it straight in between the eyes but ah guess some gees are like badgers, they tunnel straight for down-under first and miss the mark. girls are quite intuitive and a lot of them started getting hit-on by big egbons even before u were through with lacing boots and they can smell your game like it was a skunk @ close range so going round and round in circles's a turn-off for them. lose your cautions and talk or u risk looking weak and u losing the girl, and we don't want that to happen, do we?
6. gifts gifts gifts!, rushing around buying stuff may not buy u that spot on her priority list especially if u've not made that 'connection' with her on the levels that really count yet. lottsa girls are easily bought over though (especially the chicken head types) so its up to you but if u really looking for something tangible, make your gifts tokens and give them with reasons that'll always inspire great memories of u in her heart.
7. lame lines, think but what u want to say or need to say be4 u say'em or clam up. don't fear the silence, most times, if u get it right sef, it gives u off as more confident, sure, focussed than u even really are. just chatting crap to fill in the 'silence' gap's not cool and so is handing out cliches, if she really is worth whatcha want from her or want to give to her, then she should've inspired some few original thoughts in u, Stop bugging these ladies down with your borrowed cliches and crammed text messages, get original and get da chick, its your cake, man.
there's a whole host of stuffs that'D trip u up with ladies and, no you will not be reading bout them in my book - how to get the gals- no, u'll read them in da dame's eyes.
ciao
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