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UsherGurl (f)
What Are The Most Dangerous Mistakes Men Make With Women
« on: December 23, 2006, 04:08 PM »

Well I think that one of the most dangerous is asking her for her number. Maybe she'll not give you the right number or maybe it's the right number, but when you call her up, she doesn't remember you or doesn't return your calls especially when you just met in a dancing club Sad Sad

senator100 (m)
Re: What Are The Most Dangerous Mistakes Men Make With Women
« #1 on: December 23, 2006, 04:26 PM »

1. getting to date to soon after a major break up
2. giving money unnecessarily
skipo87 (m)
Re: What Are The Most Dangerous Mistakes Men Make With Women
« #2 on: December 23, 2006, 05:00 PM »

I believe men make so many mistakes some of which includes             1. tryin to have premature sexual relationship while you are still tryin to know yourselves better          2. i also feel men should not give money to women as a way of expressing love. There are better ways of expressing love such buying gifts which i don't also advice at certain stages of the relationship                 3. Draging it too long before making your intention of wanting a relationship known may also be a mistake           
Eurphoria (f)
Re: What Are The Most Dangerous Mistakes Men Make With Women
« #3 on: December 23, 2006, 06:30 PM »

can i just say one of the mistakes in my books is the most mportant and if a  man does this they are gauranteed an easy life.   '' ALWAYS AGREE WITH HER ''  you can never win an arguement with a woman everything is fair game in our books  Wink
senator100 (m)
Re: What Are The Most Dangerous Mistakes Men Make With Women
« #4 on: December 23, 2006, 06:36 PM »

yeah more like "bottom power"
jammin (m)
Re: What Are The Most Dangerous Mistakes Men Make With Women
« #5 on: December 23, 2006, 07:17 PM »

@euphoria. Not if the guy in question is as vicious, as vicious can get. Lips sealed
mukina2 (f)
Re: What Are The Most Dangerous Mistakes Men Make With Women
« #6 on: December 23, 2006, 07:19 PM »

Quote from: Eurphoria on December 23, 2006, 06:30 PM
can i just say one of the mistakes in my books is the most mportant and if a man does this they are gauranteed an easy life. '' ALWAYS AGREE WITH HER '' you can never win an arguement with a woman everything is fair game in our books Wink

word!


when  you lie
when you start comparing her with someone else forgetting that two people can never be the same
thimbook2 (m)
Re: What Are The Most Dangerous Mistakes Men Make With Women
« #7 on: December 23, 2006, 08:13 PM »

1. drooling all over her like u were some sick lovestruck racoon, that's bad for business. gives u off like u were some geek who's on the needy side besides a girl'll have more time for a guy in charge of his own reality than some dude whose all over her like a mouse on cheesecake - point made!

2. acceding to her every demands, that's a real boat sinker. be yourself, and put your foot down wherever and whenever u need to, friendship's by choice, but then that may very well swing in the direction of what u looking for, then the odds would be attacked in different ways and u might end up not needing all these precautions, likely scenario?, conning your way into a one night-stand.

3. getting all souped up in her superchick image / getting carried away / etc - no! stick to the things that mark you out as an individual, and give concessions where necessary as choices made to give your relationship/friendship a chance or boost it rightly needs.

4. hasty assumptions, sometimes da ladies just want to talk, play or just have fun like da song says but too many guys would jump the gun because of the two text messages she sent you, haha! Heh, use that brain, man and interpret actions for what they are instead of just jumping to conclusions, many a sweet thing are ruined, crushed at their nascent stages because of that immature declaration or display of affection before its time is due.

5. rambling, bad, man, that's bad too. some gyrls need it straight in between the eyes but ah guess some gees are like badgers, they tunnel straight for down-under first and miss the mark. girls are quite intuitive and a lot of them started getting hit-on by big egbons even before u were through with lacing boots and they can smell your game like it was a skunk @ close range so going round and round in circles's a turn-off for them. lose your cautions and talk or u  risk looking weak and u losing the girl, and we don't want that to happen, do we?

6. gifts gifts gifts!, rushing around buying stuff may not buy u that spot on her priority list especially if u've not made that 'connection' with her on the levels that really count yet. lottsa girls are easily bought over though (especially the chicken head types) so its up to you but if u really looking for something tangible, make your gifts tokens and give them with reasons that'll always inspire great memories of u in her heart.

7. lame lines, think but what u want to say or need to say be4 u say'em or clam up. don't fear the silence, most times, if u get it right sef, it gives u off as more confident, sure, focussed than u even really are. just chatting crap to fill in the 'silence' gap's not cool and so is handing out cliches, if she really is worth whatcha want from her or want to give to her, then she should've inspired some few original thoughts in u, Stop bugging these ladies down with your borrowed cliches and crammed text messages, get original and get da chick, its your cake, man.

there's a whole host of stuffs that'D trip u up with ladies and, no you will not be reading bout them in my book - how to get the gals- no, u'll read them in da dame's eyes.

ciao
jammin (m)
Re: What Are The Most Dangerous Mistakes Men Make With Women
« #8 on: December 23, 2006, 11:54 PM »

I think it is loving her too much. Thats the most Dangerous thing a man can do. Kiss
perhaps he may want a new way of life than the one he has been used to Cool
so he gives in heart and soul
only for it to flung back at him. Shocked Shocked

The result can be catastrophic Cry
Eurphoria (f)
Re: What Are The Most Dangerous Mistakes Men Make With Women
« #9 on: December 24, 2006, 12:06 AM »

senator yes bottom power or whatever  Wink
iice (f)
Re: What Are The Most Dangerous Mistakes Men Make With Women
« #10 on: December 24, 2006, 04:41 AM »

Presumptions, treating one woman as another - Interchangeable Angry
jammin (m)
Re: What Are The Most Dangerous Mistakes Men Make With Women
« #11 on: December 24, 2006, 04:51 AM »

here's  a next one:
Trusting her with your private life. this one is still under review
iice (f)
Re: What Are The Most Dangerous Mistakes Men Make With Women
« #12 on: December 24, 2006, 04:56 AM »

In other words 'Trust'
jammin (m)
Re: What Are The Most Dangerous Mistakes Men Make With Women
« #13 on: December 24, 2006, 05:07 AM »

Exactly!!!!
When trust is wounded, recovery is hard.
Scorpio (f)
Re: What Are The Most Dangerous Mistakes Men Make With Women
« #14 on: December 24, 2006, 06:38 AM »

Quote from: UsherGurl on December 23, 2006, 04:08 PM
Maybe she'll not give you the right number
lmao Grin *KFC number lomor*
boladonas (m)
Re: What Are The Most Dangerous Mistakes Men Make With Women
« #15 on: December 24, 2006, 08:55 PM »

hmnnnnnnnnn ok here are 2 of d terrible errors

1. Never assume anything with a woman make sure it is agreed upon, for assumption they say is the mother of all frustrations

2. Never show a woman you caught her making a mistake or u know a secret about her, if u do, she ll always hunt u for revenge. Even if u catch her in the act, just pretend as if u didnt see. she will convince herself u didnt. If u know a secret about her, let it guide your judgement, never reveal it to her.
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