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oyinda. (f)
Would You Date/marry An Older Girl? why or why not?
« on: October 16, 2009, 08:22 PM »

i know girl who rejected a guy she liked because she found out that he was 6 months younger than her. I thought it was a very ridiculous thing to do. Huh


girls, would you date a younger guy? why?
guys, would you date an older girl? why?

i guess this is a poll question.
emiwanlee
Re: Would You Date/marry An Older Girl?
« #1 on: October 16, 2009, 10:14 PM »

yes 4 d right reasons
rita@NL (m)
Re: Would You Date/marry An Older Girl?
« #2 on: October 16, 2009, 10:15 PM »

I wont, never.
Igwe.
Re: Would You Date/marry An Older Girl?
« #3 on: October 16, 2009, 10:22 PM »

No, I won't, unless i didn't know on time
*dhtml
Re: Would You Date/marry An Older Girl?
« #4 on: October 16, 2009, 11:16 PM »

No way! Even if we are the same age sef, i no go marry am, unless something has happened!
Older gals should marry older men. period.
ThiefOfHearts (f)
Re: Would You Date/marry An Older Girl?
« #5 on: October 16, 2009, 11:18 PM »

Those screaming No

what are your reasons
Pharoh
Re: Would You Date/marry An Older Girl?
« #6 on: October 16, 2009, 11:32 PM »

It is not welcomed in our society or culture so i would not date or marry a girl older than me.
puskin
Re: Would You Date/marry An Older Girl?
« #7 on: October 16, 2009, 11:50 PM »

Yep.
I would but if she's way older than I say 5yrs, I wud only do it 4d cash nd she gatz 2hv loads of pecö.
Bbeee
Re: Would You Date/marry An Older Girl?
« #8 on: October 17, 2009, 12:44 AM »

sure y not,  Grin

tot age was jst a numba?  Huh Huh Tongue


but na only date oo,  not marry
oyinda. (f)
Re: Would You Date/marry An Older Girl?
« #9 on: October 17, 2009, 04:55 AM »

yeah it will be nice if you gave your reasons too. lol
very interesting
yorke (m)
Re: Would You Date/marry An Older Girl? why or why not?
« #10 on: October 17, 2009, 05:25 AM »

I can definitely date a gal older than me, but i can never marry her.pls dnt ask me why.
*dhtml
Re: Would You Date/marry An Older Girl? why or why not?
« #11 on: October 17, 2009, 05:58 AM »

But of course, i can fock a gal way older than me, even 10 years sef, i no send. dating is anoda thing.
oyinda. (f)
Re: Would You Date/marry An Older Girl? why or why not?
« #12 on: October 17, 2009, 06:11 AM »

why? even if it's just 2 days older?  Huh and she doesn't even look older?
OAM4J (m)
Re: Would You Date/marry An Older Girl? why or why not?
« #13 on: October 17, 2009, 09:58 AM »

Age is only a number. My friend's wife is more than a year older him, believe me, they are wonderful couple.

It depends on her; If she will respect me as her husband and if she possesses all the other good qualities a man want for a wife, I will marry her. (especially if she doesnt looks it)
Godmother (f)
Re: Would You Date/marry An Older Girl? why or why not?
« #14 on: October 17, 2009, 11:00 AM »

To me age is more than a number. I could never date a man younger than me cos I'll always see him as a younger brother and I'll never be able to respect him
sofeco (m)
Re: Would You Date/marry An Older Girl? why or why not?
« #15 on: October 17, 2009, 12:38 PM »

I think I don't really care, once we love eachother and she's not too older than me or look older than me, then am gonna go for her.
Eshyy (m)
Re: Would You Date/marry An Older Girl? why or why not?
« #16 on: October 17, 2009, 12:54 PM »

Nice topic
I've dated older girls repeatedly, and bliev me there's notin wrong wit dem rather dey tend 2 be more matured & undastandin dan the yunger ones
shayoor (f)
Re: Would You Date/marry An Older Girl? why or why not?
« #17 on: October 17, 2009, 01:15 PM »

never
galatico (m)
Re: Would You Date/marry An Older Girl? why or why not?
« #18 on: October 17, 2009, 01:36 PM »

Yeah I'll date a Girl older than me, cuz she's more experienced than me so she'll understand my flaws and correct me, most Girls won't like to date a Guy who is younger than them, they'll say he's a kid .
iice (f)
Re: Would You Date/marry An Older Girl? why or why not?
« #19 on: October 17, 2009, 02:45 PM »

Yes, if we click and he's matured.  People mature differently.  Age and maturity are sometimes parallel.
Though the age gap shouldn't be too much.
Busy_body (f)
Re: Would You Date/marry An Older Girl? why or why not?
« #20 on: October 17, 2009, 03:04 PM »


Nothing wrong there, age is just a number and a lot of people don't know how to act their age anyway.


Quote from: Pharoh on October 16, 2009, 11:32 PM
It is not welcomed in our society or culture so i would not date or marry a girl older than me.


Here we go again with Nigerians and "their" culture Cool
Eshyy (m)
Re: Would You Date/marry An Older Girl? why or why not?
« #21 on: October 17, 2009, 03:13 PM »

@iice
Yeah, I undastand, lyk linda Hogan & Mariah Carey. Dats takin it 2 d extreme
follypimpi (m)
Re: Would You Date/marry An Older Girl? why or why not?
« #22 on: October 17, 2009, 05:26 PM »

Older girls r the way forward  Grin
okeey (m)
Re: Would You Date/marry An Older Girl? why or why not?
« #23 on: October 17, 2009, 06:02 PM »

to me ,it just a bad thing for a lady to be older than a guy
ThiefOfHearts (f)
Re: Would You Date/marry An Older Girl? why or why not?
« #24 on: October 18, 2009, 05:52 AM »

Quote from: Busy_body on October 17, 2009, 03:04 PM
Here we go again with Nigerians and "their" culture Cool

Their same culture believed twins should be killed

These people just like to yarn dust
coonz (m)
Re: Would You Date/marry An Older Girl? why or why not?
« #25 on: October 18, 2009, 11:22 AM »

i m a few years above 25, but i m not 30, i am dating a lady who is 35 , so what d mess!!!
jextoban
Re: Would You Date/marry An Older Girl? why or why not?
« #26 on: October 18, 2009, 03:48 PM »

aint no big deal in dating or marrying a lady older than me .am not surprised at those that said no or never.it shows how immature they re when it comes to love.when you love someone ,age will automatically be a mere factor of numbers. yall need to grow up and handle biz like an adult and stop  using culture as a motherfucking excuse.
chiogo (f)
Re: Would You Date/marry An Older Girl? why or why not?
« #27 on: October 18, 2009, 08:58 PM »

Quote from: ThiefOfHearts on October 18, 2009, 05:52 AM
Their same culture believed twins should be killed

These people just like to yarn dust
LMFAO!!! They woulda killed my siblings with their so-called culture. SMH!!!


Quote from: jextoban on October 18, 2009, 03:48 PM
aint no big deal in dating or marrying a lady older than me .am not surprised at those that said no or never.it shows how immature they re when it comes to love.when you love someone ,age will automatically be a mere factor of numbers. yall need to grow up and handle biz like an adult and stop  using culture as a motherfucking excuse.
Oh please. Agreed, it has nothing to do with culture. But saying you can't date or marry someone who's older/younger doesn't make one immature. It's called choice/preference. It's only immature if there's no reason behind it except "culture".

@topic, younger guys?? nah. Ok, I have so many reasons. If he's younger then he'll be in school with me or something and myself, I'm gonna be in school for a LONG time as far as I know. We can't both be in school struggling when it comes to marriage. uh uh.

Again, I like to feel protected and pampered. If he's younger, I'm supposed to be doing the pampering?? oh hell no  Tongue That's like raising another child.

From experience, some of 'em like to be spoon-fed, some can be very mature for their age. But um, nah. Considering that women age faster than men. That's another factor. I can't be looking like his mother.  Lips sealed
omar22 (m)
Re: Would You Date/marry An Older Girl? why or why not?
« #28 on: October 20, 2009, 11:49 AM »

Quote
i know girl who rejected a guy she liked because she found out that he was 6 months younger than her. I thought it was a very ridiculous thing to do.



This is a perfect case of letting society predict or colonizing on how you should live your life?

Its called shallow minded or narrow vision,  how long before the word "Our Culture" pops out!!!
switch47
Re: Would You Date/marry An Older Girl? why or why not?
« #29 on: October 20, 2009, 11:51 AM »

yes!!
Ben-10
Re: Would You Date/marry An Older Girl? why or why not?
« #30 on: October 20, 2009, 11:51 AM »

we've seen this a hundred and one times hia.
nethacker (m)
Re: Would You Date/marry An Older Girl? why or why not?
« #31 on: October 20, 2009, 11:55 AM »

i wil do so fine fine if i understand her wella Grin Grin
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