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ebila (m)
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I'm a guy,i've been through heartbreaks and i know how i got over each one.Even the one that hurt the most.So,i want to know the ladies' side of the story.Is it like that of us guys or it is totally different.Please,post your personal experiences as experience,indeed, is the best teacher.
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aomom (m)
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lemmie brk that rule
they are just as fine as they were before the dude cameby!
were they nat ok before he wooed them?
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ebila (m)
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lemmie brk that rule
they are just as fine as they were before the dude cameby!
were they nat ok before he wooed them?
 Ladies,your experiences pls! |
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Godmother (f)
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lemmie brk that rule
they are just as fine as they were before the dude cameby!
were they nat ok before he wooed them?
I dont know about that, but I'll say its more difficult for women to get over break-ups cos we are emotional made. And its more difficult if you were more emotionally commited to the relationship |
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PC busayo (f)
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Prayer is the Master key. lol
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ebila (m)
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@PC busayo & Godmother,
U ladies have neva been tru heartbreaks?If u have,how did u do it?
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PC busayo (f)
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@ebila first n foremost nice picture on your profile. anyway, I have never been heart breaker so I cant answer your question.
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judethink
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This is the bestway to forget him forever.She must make a decision to get over him, and then she needs the discipline to carry it out. She must throw out every material item that reminds her of him. She cannot afford to entertain a single pleasant thought about the relationship. Instead, it helps to write a list of the things he did that drove her crazy (the way he kept sniffling instead of reaching for a tissue, for example, or his habit of using unnecessarily big words) and refer to it often. If a friend brings up his name, it's imperative that she change the subject. By all means, she should avoid speaking of him at all. For more hint headon to - http://howtofindyourtruelove.blogspot.com |
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ebila (m)
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@ebila first n foremost nice picture on your profile. anyway, I have never been heart breaker so I cant answer your question.
Thanx! It's iight.I'm sure we'd have ladies who have been heartbroken.Then again,u're so lucky not to have beeen there u know.It really ain't a good place to be. |
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iice (f)
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This is the bestway to forget him forever.She must make a decision to get over him, and then she needs the discipline to carry it out. Wholeheartedly agree. I'm that way. Once the decision is made, it's made. . .there is no turning back. I'm very strong willed so it's pretty easy for me move on. I'm also very logical about things even emotions  She must throw out every material item that reminds her of him. She cannot afford to entertain a single pleasant thought about the relationship. Instead, it helps to write a list of the things he did that drove her crazy (the way he kept sniffling instead of reaching for a tissue, for example, or his habit of using unnecessarily big words) and refer to it often. If a friend brings up his name, it's imperative that she change the subject. By all means, she should avoid speaking of him at all. This helps too but for me, i prefer if it's possible to salvage the friendship. So yes i do not avoid topics about him or memories about him. |
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aomom (m)
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Buh iice I guess erasing all the memory thing is nat 100% efficient cos obviously there something in him that you will never get from other guy.
Av seen gal hu are jealous of their ex xpecially when he is with the opposite sex! Like I tell the gals in my dept that if we break up, d reason I will do it is to correct something in her so we can make up!
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ebila (m)
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Ladies,pls give us your personal experience on how u got over your ex! Plsssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss!!!
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Godmother (f)
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@PC busayo & Godmother,
U ladies have neva been tru heartbreaks?If u have,how did u do it?
I made up my mind to get over it and I did. It wasnt easy as he was someone I was very much inlove with, but he wanted out and I gave him that. To get over it, I just gave myself time and prayed to God A LOT. Time heals all wounds. Never take that statement lightly |
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sugar pp
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by upgrading to a better guy |
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POSAKOSA1 (m)
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Best way to get over an EX is to kill'em
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LadyT (f)
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Delete their number to stop yourself calling. Keep yourself busy either by working overtime or picking up a new hobbie you might feel like being alone but sometimes being around people takes your mind off things
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POSAKOSA1 (m)
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Delete their number to stop yourself calling. Keep yourself busy either by working overtime or picking up a new hobbie you might feel like being alone but sometimes being around people takes your mind off things
Being around people who were NOT his friends. There are some people whom you may have met through him and didn't wish your relationship well as a result, will want to "talk about him alll the darn time" so as to watch your reaction. |
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chaircover (f)
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@POSAKOSA1 please mind yourself o!. Yinka is one of my many names. Please say a prayer right now  Wetin Yinka do you sef? |
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jay bee (m)
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wetin yinka do u so bad? u don't go around wishing someone dead. seriously not kool |
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POSAKOSA1 (m)
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@POSAKOSA1 please mind yourself o!. Yinka is one of my many names. Please say a prayer right now Wetin Yinka do you sef? abeg no vex. |
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chaircover (f)
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Is that a prayer?  |
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POSAKOSA1 (m)
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wetin yinka do u so bad? u don't go around wishing someone dead. seriously not kool did a lot of EVIL deeds. Well im being honest with my feelings, Every morning when I wake up, na soo na soo curses I go dey curse am. |
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LadyT (f)
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LOL a time will come where you wont even think of this person. Dont worry Karma is a bitch it will get them you just may not see it. Dont let them get you down |
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deji2009
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@Pc Busayo a first n foremost nice picture on your profile. anyway, I have never been heart breaker so I cant answer your question. So, busayo. what about mine ? lol. you see later love. |
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iice (f)
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Buh iice I guess erasing all the memory thing is nat 100% efficient cos obviously there something in him that you will never get from other guy.
Av seen gal hu are jealous of their ex xpecially when he is with the opposite sex! Like I tell the gals in my dept that if we break up, d reason I will do it is to correct something in her so we can make up! I think i already said i don't avoid memories of him Sorry you can always get whatever from anyone you end up with is what i think. That is if you know what you want. Lots of people don't.
LOL Correct ogini. . .na hin bizness be that ooo. When i don break, i don break. . .waka go |
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TOPE2000! (f)
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Best way to get over an EX is to kill'em
Death @topic U have to make up your mind to get over it. . . . . and meet new suitors  |
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ebila (m)
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Delete their number to stop yourself calling. Keep yourself busy either by working overtime or picking up a new hobbie you might feel like being alone but sometimes being around people takes your mind off things
Diz look like tips that came out from d article on lavitacounsel.blogspot.com.But i tot they were only/mostly applicable to guys,dat was why i wanted d ladies side! @Pc Busayo
So, busayo. what about mine ? lol. you see later love.
Jealousy jealousy!!! |
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sweetpie23
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you don't think of him |
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bluespice (f)
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how do you get over an ex?
the same way u get over an annoying pet
move on, duh!
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