Is It Strange That I Don't Want A Church Wedding?

Opting out of white wedding has nothing to do with anything rather it shows more maturity as that white clothing (Gown) won't be made nonsense of. You know, it should signify purity when it comes to virginity being intact up until that day. But since that is not the case, out of church wedding is even more desirable,reliable and realistic.

Apart from that, wedding can be done in the court, village square, at home etc. I hate to see couples running to churches only when marriage comes up.

Now that the meaning of wedding is 'come and chop' and spending spree, debts-gathering, it is even a good thing to start the new family on a very good footing financially.

You can decide how your wedding should be, in agreement with your would-be husband, nothing strange.

The decision is between you and your husband and nothing is wrong with that.

The church wedding makes a difference.

ah aya
how i wish my chick could reason the way you do, she said that her family is prominent, her sister got a befitting wedding and  she must too, estimating the cost, i then asked her what will be a quota , she said ,i will do it all alone , if it cost me changing my job,  all these cos some quarrelling. i am tired of her really. pls i just pray my chick could reason like you, let me do the wedding small and in our anniversary it will be great.  0h girl dont let any disway u, just allow your man to decide

that only will remember your marriage after one month, nobody thinks about it anymore after they finish your 'rice'

Moreso, I fear men who run away from their wedding responsibility.  That is the only way you can be a man. only beware of your expenses, don't do copy copy and marry in your on condition as long as your spouse has agreed to live with you wether you are rich or not and you secure the parent's consent, you are done.
A Pastor once said a man who took a fine lady to keep in his house and is not ready to give a thank you token (bride price) to the parents is like a thief who saw fine banana in th market and stole it. Fulfil your responsibilities albeit at a doable cost (you can negotiate yor bride price but give something if you truly apprecite the lady). Men who run from such are most likelyto be those who stole certificates without attending school, bribe to get job without working for it, or just go to the office to get salary they did not earn, they are not trustworthy.

I always like to advise women, marrythe man only if he is ready to see your parents, strive to fulfil the bride rites (whether cheap or not, it does'nt have to be expensive) and ready just follow the normal process of marriage.  That is a man. Don't marry a "Boy-yo-yo' who will get you toay and may never value you again after a while because you made yourself so cheap, nomatter how much that guy ad spent for you personally before then.

By Cheap I don't mean the amount involved but the sincerity of purpose in ensuring process is clear. don't follow all this system of dodging a  process. Dodging the process makes you cheap

         
                Go with your heart there is absolutely nothing wrong if you decide not to go for a church wedding,however i"ll encourage you to gofor a
               
                marriage blessing after your court or traditional wedding or years latter  when you are fully settled into your marriage.   

@uplawal
being a fanatic at anything is hypocrisy
and thats why jesus came, the jew then that muha whatever took stole their form of worship and impose it on the arab nation at the time by sword was one vagabond  that escaped being punished for his wrong deeds.
but later came like up with some politically oriented spiritual bruhaha.
if you know what i mean.
we know all this things but JESUS said leave the thorn{weed} and the crop to grow
together there is such day as a day of reckoning that JEHOVAH would separate the weed{thorn} from the plants {crops}.
cos men u guys are thorns in our flesh.
 
do u know the History of  islam?
please find out how muhamad came up with that fake immitation of the jews religion.?

Me no gbadu "church" wedding

People are entitled 2 their opinion,and their wishes & choice should be respected.Wedding in the church isn't so strange, it's has been from time immemorial.It's just to present urself to GOD on a new journey you are embarking on.Mind you, it mustn't be flambouyant.But can be low key depending on your resources.CHEERS!!

Its sad to see that people have become so brainwashed that they have not even choosen to consider:

1. Why they do what they do.
2. Why they choose to want what they want.

As far as the bible is concerned, I can't really think of a place in the bible that talks about church wedding. Even the bible talks about a wedding that the Messiah Himself attended. The bible did not talk about whether or not the Messiah was the one that officiated at the wedding.

One of the problems that i know I am going to face as a guy is that:

I do not want church wedding, hence its going to be very had to find a woman who is enlightened and not brainwashed enough to understand my reasons and choice.

kindly stop making threads for thread-making-sake!

1. Kindly show me a place in the bible that talks about the pastors blessing.

lmao   

Oh yessir!