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Ceeno E vu
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Hey babe. You didn't cheat on him. You messed up by giving what you should reserve to some "chop and go" guy but that happened when you broke up with him. It is hard but it is not unpardonable.
By the way, You are in the best position to know if you should go back. You should know him enough to know if he is the kind of man that will forgive an honest mistake like that.
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lexylexy9
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We dated for two years,and we had a very big fight and broke up although it was his fault.While we were dating,i didnt have sex with him,cos i felt too young to have sex and he respected my opinions about sex.
I dated another who disvirgined me but we didnt last long.we broke up after six months,i later made up with my first ex,who told me that he has forgotten about what i did and wiAll still do anything to have me and will continue to love me if i will be faithful to him.
it was his fault, abi? and he told yhou he has 4gotten wat u did to him(pls can you juxtapose yur contradiction)
obviously you wer fkgn sum1 else wen u guys were dating or you were about eating the 4bidden fruit that yu av always wanted to eat
now that you av tasted it, kip eatin , cos if if he cums bak, accordin to you that he wants you bk, he will chop all the ones he didn eat for 2yrs
notin go remain 4ur new fkers
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earthrealm (m)
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too ad.
best thing is leave the dude,
u r right he wil never trust u completelyagain,
he might pretend hard to/try 2 convince himself that he does, i bet u , he doesnt, the trust will never ever be 100% again.
leave him, dont go back 2 him, u will most def meet other men, u r still young.,
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idmoore (m)
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why do you jus sleep around like a DOG that has been honry for years.
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VALIDATOR
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You don't love the guy (you better look deep within yourself now). You only keep him when someone else dumps you (of course you know he is always there for you ---- stupid him).You are still the kind of lady that can not appreciate what she has.
Very soon your itchy vagina will make you leave him. Once some rude guy has helped you scratch it with a rude d!ck the itch will stop and you will be back to your first ex ----- stupid him.
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whitesturd (f)
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sis,dont want u 2 tink im blaming u bt how cme u slept wt dos 2 guys like dt wn your heart is stil wt your 1st luv.u u were able 2 keep ursef for de person u truly luv.4 2yrs how come u now slept wt 2 guys in de space of 6months-1year.?do u realy tink u luv dis guy?cos it seems u stil wanna enjoy life n havin tasted sex,your now sort of becoming an addict and its like u want to sample everyone.n u dont tink your 1st guy can satisfy you.my dear.i tink wt is best is to leave dis guy cos im not convinced u luv him.best of luck.
word of advice.if at all u get bk 2 him.pls remain faithful.
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Pro Anti
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@22Medinat,
I think you've shown a lot of decency at 23. The general belief is that most Nigerian girls above the age of 18 have slept with at least 3 boys.
(By the way, I dont believe in generalisation)
Questions for you,
(1) Do you love the person you are currently dating?
(2) Do you see your first love as someone you can spend the rest of your life with?
(3) Are you aware of the kind of life your 1st love have been living in the past two and half years?
You have to consider these things before you jump back into that relationship. You sound like an honest individual so look before you leap.
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touchmeder
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You claim u still love him first then what are you doing with the present boy? on both occasions you slept with someone else you were no longer with him (the one you claim you love) it was your choice to sleep with whomever you wanted to i would only advise you to tell him everything and if he still wants you and u can FORGIVE yourself fine, go back by the way lay of sleeping with men just like that lastly if it does not work out with any of the men, your ex and your present   give men a break for a while |
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