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oiseworld
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from your post i have discovered these.
1. the London guy might not actually be in London but their is a kind of distance btw u2,and like you said you guys have met( i believe).
2.the naija guy is more close and persistent.
3. u like both guys.
firstly, how much effort did you make to restore communication.either thru his friend or any other means. just try to check your fault in this issue and be sure u've tried your best. before you consider the naija guy.let your heart lead you.
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iamdnegro
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This gel u no well oo.!! U just dey play d field u neva ready marry. If you jus dey try enjoy ursef den enjoy ursef. Otherwise make up your mind. Mi I no see any kind of challenge for dis decision wey u dey try make. I sure say u just dey konsida dat guy wey dey Jand because u dey think Pounds!! And d guy wey dey naija u no too send. Because if u really like d guy wey dey naija and na your soulmate den you go don forget about the guy wey dey Jand tay tay.
So na d conclusion of my analysis be this: (1) You no too dey into the guy wey dey naija, otherwiase u go marry am sharp sharp. (2) You wan marry guy wey get pepper (dat na why u dey even talk to the guy wey dey Jand.)
With dat said. Good luck ooo!!
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erico2k2 (m)
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@Poster You still aint answered the question,if you aint the girl in question, what advice have you given to her then?WE DEY WAIT OH  |
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bamboke (f)
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Thanks 4 all your comments. I am not the person in question as assumed.
The girl also isn't a poor tart,who just wants pounds or dollars here 2.
She didn't fight with the UK guy,only had a short break where she cldnt reach him&thot he was changing his mind&someone else came along.
She even told d naija guy abt d UK guy den.
The UK guy came back with plans on how to come visit her.
She told him she met someone else but he was upset&didnt want to give up just like dat.
This is why she is torn btw d two fellas!
Don't be too critical,not always abt money.
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mirababy
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i know why shes confused,she love d one in niger more than the one in uk but she nor wan quit from the one in uk because of pounds.ole::::::::::::::::::::::::
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Druss (m)
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Women scare me sometimes walahi!! Honestly no wonder some men are insecure.
This woman had a long term boyfriend who was in the uk. They had been dating long time.
Now another guy comes into the picture - and the lady who already had a boyfriend wants to date this one!! Because he wants to marry her?
JISOS - WHAT IS WRONG WITH THIS WOMAN? She put herself in this mess - She should get herself out of this! Shebi it was sweet when she was playing two men!
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dkings101
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Na today man dey see hurt? abeg choose your choice n go with your heart n mind.
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lovemoi2 (f)
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she should give the London guy a time limit of like one month if the London guy doesn't visit her in the one month time, then she should leave him, and go for the naija guy, she should not waste her time on a guy she hasn't met
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Rosabelle (f)
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Women scare me sometimes walahi!! Honestly no wonder some men are insecure.
This woman had a long term boyfriend who was in the uk. They had been dating long time.
Now another guy comes into the picture - and the lady who already had a boyfriend wants to date this one!! Because he wants to marry her?
JISOS - WHAT IS WRONG WITH THIS WOMAN? She put herself in this mess - She should get herself out of this! Shebi it was sweet when she was playing two men!
HM! Did you read the post at all? lol She wasnt dating the guy in london. Theyve been talking. Its not yet a relationship. And theres no way anyone will me the guy in london isnt seeing someone there! |
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kajad man
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The way i see this is that she is just desperate to get married cos am sure if a third guy comes in the picture she will be more confused as to which one to pick. Maybe she should visit and oracle. Good luck to her.
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jay-girl
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dnt u agree?
My apology. Lets forget about this thread. Is not that the poster even replying. The poster is just fooling around or just a kid trying to get attention.
there r times u nid to b truthful to urself to say d very least. will u marry someone u courted 4 one month {koko below or not} well, it all depends on if u r old n desperate. dnt u think so pumpkin? |
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Eaglebabe
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Those guys over there have a lot of skeletons in their cupboard.Does he wan marriage,are going to be the first and only wife?Daughter of Eve think.The devil u know is better than the angel u don't know.
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kenuoyibo (m)
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She should list the qualities that she wants in her future husband e.g working class, cool-tempered,handsome, God-fearing,etc She should make a list for them and rate them in percentage.
However,the uk-based guy stilll remains a blind date,or even a stranger till she meets him. Its not wise to see someone within one month and you are ready to marry such a person. Take some time to study both of them,then you can make u wise decision .Marriage is a lifetime contract so it shouldn't be toyed with when it comes to such decisions
kelvin
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