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sagacious (f)
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I can't understand something about my boy friend ,he really likes to see me after work everyday,but not knowing that he is going out with a lady at his place of work ,but when i got to know it affect my emotion,I am a kind of lady that when i'm into a relationship i'm always plain i.e i don't double date,but i don't like him cheating on me ,but my research makes me understand he has being dating d girl before i meet him and she is an elderly lady,but my guy usually tell me he have a friend that doesn't like to marry but she just need a man who will always be there 4 her ,and i found out my boy friend is in that position,WHAT CAN I DO ?my feeling 4 him is not waxing stronger anymore ,and he keep on telling me he love me,please how can he love 2 ladies at a time?
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gbengaijot (m)
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from your profile, i see that you are only 19. Which means you are still very young. Sincerely, i would say you still have a long way to go and from the way you posted your question, you are a bit naive when it comes to relationship matters.
If you are not yet out of University, i will advise you to concentrate more on that than a freaky boyfriend who by instinct prefers a older lady than you.
Trust me, some men fantasize about dating older people, while at thesame time having a proper girlfriend, in your own case, your boyfriends own seems to come to reality. I'll just advice you to face up to the task of letting him know how you feel and please be advise that this will possibly end your relationship.
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naijacutee (f)
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I know I shouldn't but I can't help thinking you should teach him a lesson. However, the right thing to do would be to speak to him about it. Let him you know what is going on and you're not a fool. Ask him to explain himself, and you need to make him understand that you are not in for unfairness/sneaking around/etc
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humpzz
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 ;)Girl you need to decide what you want out of the relationship? You need ur dignity so dump him and move on there are better guys out there.  there is always a way out of that relationship the only way is to BREAK UP wit him
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ima1 (f)
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Just dump him there is no 2 way about it, he can't eat his cake n have it too, oh n don't forget to kick him between his legs.  |
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ishoras (m)
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My only advise for u is to call the guy and reconcile, i mean call the guy into a private room and settle differences without involving third party and that is if u throughly love each other. U can also visit this site to read more articles on Relationship. www.nigeriaarticles.com.
cheers.
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Busta (f)
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Just dump him there is no 2 way about it, he can't eat his cake n have it too, oh n don't forget to kick him between his legs. lol. . i like that |
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iice (f)
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I can't understand something about my boy friend ,he really likes to see me after work everyday,but not knowing that he is going out with a lady at his place of work ,but when i got to know it affect my emotion,I am a kind of lady that when i'm into a relationship i'm always plain i.e i don't double date,but i don't like him cheating on me ,but my research makes me understand he has being dating d girl before i meet him and she is an elderly lady,but my guy usually tell me he have a friend that doesn't like to marry but she just need a man who will always be there 4 her ,and i found out my boy friend is in that position,WHAT CAN I DO ?my feeling 4 him is not waxing stronger anymore ,and he keep on telling me he love me,please how can he love 2 ladies at a time?
Your feelings are not getting any stronger, so leave him, you're better off without him if don't even feel as strongly about him as you did before. |
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shevchenko (m)
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if u are aguy i could have suggested you eat her and bolt since you are a girl i'D advice you to eat his money and don't allow him touch u let alone kiss UTeach him a lesson he will never forget.
The annoying part is the bullshit about ''i want to be there for the other lady'' .That is absolute nonsense ,utter bunkum,jabajantis.He doesnt love you.
Meet me let me show you true love
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OgaMadam (f)
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hes lying to you.
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