If Your Husband Will Not Touch You:

hi everybody,

i don't know if this topic has been posted before,

what do u do if your husband will not touch you,he just hits d bed and snores till morning,gets up at 5am and prepares for work,everyday,

weekdays can be undestandable,but wot about weekends when he spends the day at home resting and still will do nothing at nite,or when he s on vacation,and rests very well and still will do nothing at nite,

please help,cos m getting really worried, there are no concrete signs yet that he s cheating,cos i really believe he s getting his fulfillment somewhere,somehow.

m desperate,not that i am a sex maniac but would really like to understand what it could be,  its 3 months now and no show.

all i eva hear is women refusing their husband sex,and dis makes d man to look outside,but this has neva been d case cos v NEVER said no to his advances/sexual needs no matter how stressed out i am,

pls advice me, 

dammm

Obviously you guys have stopped communicating for a while, thats wh things have degenerated to this.
You need to take the bull by the horns and initiate a talk with him.
Ask him whats happening to you guys and why is it so.
Entreat with him to pour out whatever might be wrong, but a word of caution here to women, dont always take the blame for everything just becos its a man's world. but you need wisdom to reason it out with him.
If that fails, go for marriage counselling or discuss with an elder that he respects.

God help you

keep on telling God

I swear down the problem might be from you and he can't tell you cos he doesn't wanna hurt you.

Maybe after marriage
1. you dont take hygene serious,
2. your virgina loosen due to child birth
3. where jeans to the bed (or same stupid cloths)
4, scratch hitch,
5. grown fat stomach, and wont even look one bit attractive,
6. and can't even start up a sexy relaxing conversation

Those are reasons I dont like to go near my baby mama anymore

try walking naked round the house, that wud catch his eyes and "kini" pronto

That is sad.
Dress to kill and do those things that used to make him wanna rip u apart.

talk to him and make sure he is not stressed, cos stress can make a hard privates useless.

I agree Femi, however if it is alread hard, then what is the man waiting for?

Dont men come up with this sob story that when the privates is hard and dont have anywhere to put it in that it aches like hell.

Abi its a lie? 

Lol.

You never can tell oh, God can change the heart of the man and make his privates hard and start looking for the wife now.

Good question but i doubt

Sissy why u dey vomit nao

those list makes no sense to me. i mean you dont go near your baby mama becus she has a loose vagina due to childbirth? shouldnt he have opted for adoption so as to keep "miss vagina" ever young? and with his other reasons me is wondering his score on his attractive on the sex appeal scale. you can imagine those lists

He's either impotent, cheating, stress or doesn't find you attractive anymore! you may want to ask him about these issues he might be willing to tell you what's really going on. good luck!

@ poster

madam, what are you looking at since all these days, 3 months is too much ooo.meaning there is somethings wrong somewhere. it is your duty as a wife  to talk to him and find where the problems lies, from your side , try and talk dirty and entice him towards the main thing, dnt expect him to initiate it , another things is , try and remember the last time you guys had it, what went wrong, search your soul, you find answer, omo the things sweet o, let your hubby feel u well as u too  muct use the material at fullest, best wishes,