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ego. me
How Can I Choose A Man As My Husband
« on: October 22, 2009, 04:19 PM »

how can i choose a man as my husband, because i have been thinking which of them that i can choose but i don't know
excelway (m)
Re: How Can I Choose A Man As My Husband
« #1 on: October 22, 2009, 04:53 PM »

it seems they are much at the moment?lol Grin
kufreabasi (m)
Re: How Can I Choose A Man As My Husband
« #2 on: October 22, 2009, 04:55 PM »

since you have them so many, it will be very difficult for you to make a proper choice.
I will advice you to go for the one that has been giving good advice but not money.
with this you can make a proper choice for you to get all that you need. Be wise
ego. me
Re: How Can I Choose A Man As My Husband
« #3 on: October 22, 2009, 04:58 PM »

yes they are almost 7 people but i don't know which one to choose
excelway (m)
Re: How Can I Choose A Man As My Husband
« #4 on: October 22, 2009, 05:04 PM »

Gosh! girl looks like you are hot. Shocked
Ebonyeyes (f)
Re: How Can I Choose A Man As My Husband
« #5 on: October 22, 2009, 05:12 PM »

Goodness gracious  Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked You have seven guys vying for you hand meanwhile millions of girls are in church fasting away their stomachs into ulcer Shocked You are selfish Grin Grin Stop stringing 6 of the guys along so that they can wife up one of those women.
Ujujoan (f)
Re: How Can I Choose A Man As My Husband
« #6 on: October 22, 2009, 05:15 PM »

Quote from: Ebonyeyes on October 22, 2009, 05:12 PM
Goodness gracious Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked You have seven guys vying for you hand meanwhile millions of girls are in church fasting away their stomachs into ulcer Shocked You are selfish Grin Grin Stop stringing 6 of the guys along so that they can wife up one of those women.

LOL  Grin

Quote from: ego. me on October 22, 2009, 04:19 PM
how can i choose a man as my husband, because i have been thinking which of them that i can choose but i don't know

Seriously I feel your pain! Having to make a choice is harder than it sounds. Thats why you have to look out fot what's best for you; because in the end, it's all about you!
tpacalipse
Re: How Can I Choose A Man As My Husband
« #7 on: October 22, 2009, 05:17 PM »

men u dey o Grin
ego. me
Re: How Can I Choose A Man As My Husband
« #8 on: October 23, 2009, 10:21 AM »

my dear Uju i thank God u understand what i m saying because i very confused by now
dariancole
Re: How Can I Choose A Man As My Husband
« #9 on: October 23, 2009, 10:28 AM »

simple, choose a woman and b content or better still come to love doctor and al prescribe somtin after thoroughly cross examingly u,
candyshore
Re: How Can I Choose A Man As My Husband
« #10 on: October 23, 2009, 10:40 AM »

its not any easy decision but first of all narrow them to like 3 or 4 first then physically then. pray about it and put them to same test. and know  how each react to it
dariancole
Re: How Can I Choose A Man As My Husband
« #11 on: October 23, 2009, 10:48 AM »

more seriously,no offence intended,but u really ave to b sincere to urself, babes,u want to eat your cake and ave it but life is not like dat cos u mite end up loosing all of it,u alone know d truth,no matter the advices and comments, u know d one person u want but mayb he doesnt ave dat bit dat u want now but he will,all u need to do is b by him and love him,all tings will b rite eventually, babes, trust GOD and go for it,life is shorter,even shorter for a woman in that perspestive, u ave an edge nw dont blow it, b straigth be firm and most espeacially be RESPONSIBLE, call me anytime if u really wanna talk,i cud help, 08033025274, tx
MrPrsdent (m)
Re: How Can I Choose A Man As My Husband
« #12 on: October 23, 2009, 11:16 AM »

@poster

sample them and see which one is more loaded,if you know what i mean! Grin
ego. me
Re: How Can I Choose A Man As My Husband
« #13 on: October 23, 2009, 12:15 PM »

cady my dear i like most of them like 5 people, but the people i like they are not born again and i need  born again christian so i don't know what to do about it, and  that is what i m praying for since when  i started praying for husband issue 
ego. me
Re: How Can I Choose A Man As My Husband
« #14 on: October 23, 2009, 12:29 PM »

ebo  i wish some of them will go to the other woman if God has selected my own for me, short up u mouth if u don't know what to say by telling me that i m selfish
rokiatu (f)
Re: How Can I Choose A Man As My Husband
« #15 on: October 23, 2009, 12:54 PM »

Quote from: ego. me on October 22, 2009, 04:19 PM
how can i choose a man as my husband, because i have been thinking which of them that i can choose but i don't know
choose the one you can not live without.
pinky lady (f)
Re: How Can I Choose A Man As My Husband
« #16 on: October 23, 2009, 01:01 PM »

dont just sit down there asking who to choose, take it to God in prayer cos marriage is life long experience once you are in no comin out.  Wink
Dr. Lorenz (m)
Re: How Can I Choose A Man As My Husband
« #17 on: October 23, 2009, 01:23 PM »

Quote from: ego. me on October 22, 2009, 04:19 PM
how can i choose a man as my husband, because i have been thinking which of them that i can choose but i don't know

I'm quite surprised at your question. I thought all (99.9%) girls have a standard criteria they look out for when considering marrying a man. What happened to:

  • Tall
  • Dark
  • Handsome and
  • Rich?

Surely, one of them must fit 99% of that description.
bootie_sex (f)
Re: How Can I Choose A Man As My Husband
« #18 on: October 23, 2009, 01:44 PM »

@poster
My sister, I will be very frank with you, marriage is a life time thing, so i want them tall, dark, handsome and endowed (both physically and economically). Grin Grin
izeek (m)
Re: How Can I Choose A Man As My Husband
« #19 on: October 23, 2009, 01:47 PM »

and later in life when you are 30, u wud be wondering how come u are single and unmarried.

better get fixed to one.
Dr. Lorenz (m)
Re: How Can I Choose A Man As My Husband
« #20 on: October 23, 2009, 02:30 PM »

Quote from: bootie_sex on October 23, 2009, 01:44 PM
@poster
My sister, I will be very frank with you, marriage is a life time thing, so i want them tall, dark, handsome and endowed (both physically and economically). Grin Grin

Don't forget that there are some girls out there that don't care if a man's married as long as he's tall, dark and handsome  Grin. And if your husband is the type that womanizes because he knows that he's a TDH dude don't come back here and start crying foul that men are beasts, goats, cows etc etc because that time nobody go listen to you o. 
kufreabasi (m)
Re: How Can I Choose A Man As My Husband
« #21 on: October 23, 2009, 03:06 PM »

Quote from: ego. me on October 22, 2009, 04:58 PM
yes they are almost 7 people but i don't know which one to choose

You can add more to decorate yourself since you don't have a choice.
why did you even ask for advice?
Don't you think that is a waste of life?
zuuby (m)
Re: How Can I Choose A Man As My Husband
« #22 on: October 23, 2009, 03:19 PM »

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Re: How Can I Choose A Man As My Husband

You don't know which one to choose means MAJORITY of them are serious.
Abeg choose one and release the others so that they can look for their own wify.
yjay (f)
Re: How Can I Choose A Man As My Husband
« #23 on: October 23, 2009, 05:38 PM »

one question though? how do u make out time for all of them? i mean u must ve spoken to all of them to even consider them for marriage!!!!
excelway (m)
Re: How Can I Choose A Man As My Husband
« #24 on: October 23, 2009, 05:45 PM »

Quote from: ego. me on October 23, 2009, 12:15 PM
cady my dear i like most of them like 5 people, but the people i like they are not born again and i need  born again christian so i don't know what to do about it, and  that is what i m praying for since when  i started praying for husband issue 
YOU NEED A BORN AGAIN CHRISTIAN WAO! BUT BORN AGAIN CRISTIANS DONT BEHAVE THE WAY YOU DO.
alimat 2 (f)
Re: How Can I Choose A Man As My Husband
« #25 on: October 23, 2009, 06:12 PM »

@Poster, Hope u hav nt done it with the 7 of them?, how did u manage to keep the seven with out any suspicion on their part?Huh?  U mean there hav been no point in time where 3 or 4 of them collide in your place? I just they 1da how u manage kip the 7 guys.
Did u hav feelings for any of them at all?.

Moreover u said u need a born against guy are u also born against?
fizzybaba (m)
Re: How Can I Choose A Man As My Husband
« #26 on: October 24, 2009, 11:19 AM »

Quote from: alimat 2 on October 23, 2009, 06:12 PM
@Poster, Hope u hav nt done it with the 7 of them?, how did u manage to keep the seven with out any suspicion on their part?Huh? U mean there hav been no point in time where 3 or 4 of them collide in your place? I just they 1da how u manage kip the 7 guys.
Did u hav feelings for any of them at all?.

Moreover u said u need a born against guy are u also born against?


she didnt quite say she is dating them all. more like she has seven options
W3xy1
Re: How Can I Choose A Man As My Husband
« #27 on: October 24, 2009, 11:25 AM »

choose them at random
bigboywho (m)
Re: How Can I Choose A Man As My Husband
« #28 on: October 24, 2009, 12:50 PM »

Have you heard of toasting without speaking a word? And other techniques?
There are so many people out there, so if you waste time someone else will get there first!
You can send a blank mail to:

speedattraction@gmail.com

for details that work.
Rosabelle (f)
Re: How Can I Choose A Man As My Husband
« #29 on: October 24, 2009, 01:16 PM »

Pray and wait.
In cases like these tough, its better not to choose any of them. Many times, life brings you a stumbling block before the real deal. And if youre confused over six abi seven men, its not right, period!
lovemoi2 (f)
Re: How Can I Choose A Man As My Husband
« #30 on: October 24, 2009, 01:25 PM »

it must be really hard to choose from seven men Huh Huh
POSAKOSA1 (m)
Re: How Can I Choose A Man As My Husband
« #31 on: October 24, 2009, 01:52 PM »

fast and pray and ask god to open your eyes.
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