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Dr. Lorenz (m)
Guy/girls: Which Is More Painful?
« on: October 23, 2009, 07:59 PM »

To see the one you love, love another.

Or

To love someone and not being able to tell that person how you feel.


bethangel (f)
Re: Guy/girls: Which Is More Painful?
« #1 on: October 23, 2009, 08:06 PM »

obviously the first one is more painful cos there could be little or nothing you can do about it Cry
however,not being able to tell someone you love him/her is your fault, never say never.
POSAKOSA1 (m)
Re: Guy/girls: Which Is More Painful?
« #2 on: October 23, 2009, 08:18 PM »

NEITHER. No such thing as love.
Dr. Lorenz (m)
Re: Guy/girls: Which Is More Painful?
« #3 on: October 23, 2009, 08:23 PM »

Quote from: bethangel on October 23, 2009, 08:06 PM
obviously the first one is more painful cos there could be little or nothing you can do about it Cry
however,not being able to tell someone you love him/her is your fault, never say never.

Never say never shey? I agree with you, but what if it's not exactly the person's fault?

Quote from: POSAKOSA1 on October 23, 2009, 08:18 PM
NEITHER. No such thing as love.

Hmnmnnn
Ebonyeyes (f)
Re: Guy/girls: Which Is More Painful?
« #4 on: October 23, 2009, 08:33 PM »

Quote from: POSAKOSA1 on October 23, 2009, 08:18 PM
NEITHER. No such thing as love.

I agree with that sentiment. Love is a myth propagated by the entertainment and advertising industry to make us part with our money and it has been working thus far Cheesy.
Shola2009 (m)
Re: Guy/girls: Which Is More Painful?
« #5 on: October 23, 2009, 08:41 PM »

I also,don't believe in love or whatever it is they call it.
but if i had to pick one, it'll be "To see the one you love, love another. "

POSAKOSA1 (m)
Re: Guy/girls: Which Is More Painful?
« #6 on: October 23, 2009, 08:55 PM »

Quote from: Ebonyeyes on October 23, 2009, 08:33 PM
I agree with that sentiment. Love is a myth propagated by the entertainment and advertising industry to make us part with our money and it has been working thus far Cheesy.

hahahaha! thats a capitalistic way to look at it.  you must be a smart gal ? where are you located ?
Godmother (f)
Re: Guy/girls: Which Is More Painful?
« #7 on: October 23, 2009, 08:56 PM »

Quote from: Shola2009 on October 23, 2009, 08:41 PM
I also,don't believe in love or whatever it is they call it.
 but if i had to pick one, it'll be "To see the one you love, love another. "



Yes, seeing the one you love love another is much more painful
Ebonyeyes (f)
Re: Guy/girls: Which Is More Painful?
« #8 on: October 23, 2009, 08:57 PM »

Quote from: POSAKOSA1 on October 23, 2009, 08:55 PM
hahahaha! thats a capitalistic way to look at it.  you must be a smart gal ? where are you located ?
Embarrassed Embarrassed Gee thanks hun Smiley I live in the UK and they stock Valentine products just after January 1st Undecided Undecided
POSAKOSA1 (m)
Re: Guy/girls: Which Is More Painful?
« #9 on: October 23, 2009, 08:57 PM »

Quote from: Godmother on October 23, 2009, 08:56 PM
Yes, seeing the one you love love another is much more painful

Yes and one chooses to live in that pain.
22medinat (f)
Re: Guy/girls: Which Is More Painful?
« #10 on: October 23, 2009, 09:23 PM »

the first is more painful
whitesturd (f)
Re: Guy/girls: Which Is More Painful?
« #11 on: October 23, 2009, 10:06 PM »

the first sure is the most painful
pc guru (m)
Re: Guy/girls: Which Is More Painful?
« #12 on: October 23, 2009, 10:36 PM »

Yeah i feel ebony not only is love a capitalist conspiracy also a strong technique to blind emotional pple and allow weird acts like homosexuality they paint it emotional just to let you feel for them.Imho if everyone hurts trying to find "love".Then it aint worth the emotional stress
FL Gators
Re: Guy/girls: Which Is More Painful?
« #13 on: October 23, 2009, 11:42 PM »

Search  engine is not there for no reason, you know Angry
bluntpis (f)
Re: Guy/girls: Which Is More Painful?
« #14 on: October 24, 2009, 04:14 AM »

to see d one u love and not being able to tell d person how u feel
iice (f)
Re: Guy/girls: Which Is More Painful?
« #15 on: October 24, 2009, 03:36 PM »

Are they painful? Undecided

You love someone, he/she loves another = happy he has someone he loves and who loves him Undecided

You love someone, you can't tell him/her = Huh He's already in another relationship/not for relationship (relatives yuck) = Huh Duh move on.

Ok, i'm mental about things Grin
Negro_Ntns (m)
Re: Guy/girls: Which Is More Painful?
« #16 on: October 24, 2009, 04:01 PM »

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To see the one you love, love another.


This is more painful for women than it is for men.  Men are generous to many, women are generous to one.


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To love someone and not being able to tell that person how you feel.

This is more painful for men than it is for women.  Women are expressive and demonstrative in love, men are not. . .often we do not appreciate what we have until it is gone then we painfully regret not loving her when she was around.  We mope around for few hours and then attach to the next ass that come strolling by.
Negro_Ntns (m)
Re: Guy/girls: Which Is More Painful?
« #17 on: October 24, 2009, 04:03 PM »

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Ok, i'm mental about things


. . .dont worry I will thaw you out.   Cheesy
iice (f)
Re: Guy/girls: Which Is More Painful?
« #18 on: October 24, 2009, 04:13 PM »

Quote from: Negro_Ntns on October 24, 2009, 04:03 PM


. . .dont worry I will thaw you out.   Cheesy

Well, aren't we optimistic lol
Negro_Ntns (m)
Re: Guy/girls: Which Is More Painful?
« #19 on: October 24, 2009, 04:21 PM »

u see. . .thats what i like bout you.  Grin

. . .a subtle mischief hidden behind a mysterious facade.   Kiss
iice (f)
Re: Guy/girls: Which Is More Painful?
« #20 on: October 24, 2009, 04:26 PM »

You forgot cold Tongue
agathamari (f)
Re: Guy/girls: Which Is More Painful?
« #21 on: October 24, 2009, 04:40 PM »

Quote from: Ebonyeyes on October 23, 2009, 08:57 PM
Embarrassed Embarrassed Gee thanks hun Smiley I live in the UK and they stock Valentine products just after January 1st Undecided Undecided
so since christmas stock is put out november 1 and easter stock on march 18 does that mean they are capatalist holidays too?
Negro_Ntns (m)
Re: Guy/girls: Which Is More Painful?
« #22 on: October 24, 2009, 04:41 PM »

. . .a subtle mischief hidden behind a "IIcy" cold facade.

I like iicy cold girls. . .their melt is nothing like I can put in words here.  Wink
iice (f)
Re: Guy/girls: Which Is More Painful?
« #23 on: October 26, 2009, 04:00 PM »

Quote from: Negro_Ntns on October 24, 2009, 04:41 PM
. . .a subtle mischief hidden behind a "IIcy" cold facade.

I like iicy cold girls. . .their melt is nothing like I can put in words here.  Wink

LOL
I don't melt Wink
Dr. Lorenz (m)
Re: Guy/girls: Which Is More Painful?
« #24 on: October 30, 2009, 03:50 PM »

Quote from: Ebonyeyes on October 23, 2009, 08:33 PM
I agree with that sentiment. Love is a myth propagated by the entertainment and advertising industry to make us part with our money and it has been working thus far Cheesy.

I can't believe you're saying such a thing. In any case, like i told you before. . .i'm learning and it's good cus it's better to know so that one does not make mistakes he'll regret  Grin Grin. I'll like to ask you one thing though: In speaking about the general concept of love, where was the entertainment and advertising industry when Jesus Christ said "Love your neighbour as yourself?".

Quote from: Shola2009 on October 23, 2009, 08:41 PM
but if i had to pick one, it'll be "To see the one you love, love another. "

Hmnnn. . .true

Quote from: FL Gators on October 23, 2009, 11:42 PM
Search  engine is not there for no reason, you know Angry

What the hell are you talking about?  Huh Huh

Quote from: Negro_Ntns on October 24, 2009, 04:01 PM


This is more painful for women than it is for men.  Men are generous to many, women are generous to one.


This is more painful for men than it is for women.  Women are expressive and demonstrative in love, men are not. . .often we do not appreciate what we have until it is gone then we painfully regret not loving her when she was around.  We mope around for few hours and then attach to the next ass that come strolling by.

Thanks man. . .u said what exactly i expected some people to say  Grin

Quote from: iice on October 24, 2009, 03:36 PM
Are they painful? Undecided

You love someone, he/she loves another = happy he has someone he loves and who loves him Undecided

You love someone, you can't tell him/her = Huh He's already in another relationship/not for relationship (relatives yuck) = Huh Duh move on.

Ok, i'm mental about things Grin


Are you always this IICY?  Grin. In any case, what i meant by the second question is this: You love someone, and you can't tell her. The person is not in any relationship, else why bother? That'd tantamount to what my Waffi people would call "Killing bodyGrin Grin
iice (f)
Re: Guy/girls: Which Is More Painful?
« #25 on: October 30, 2009, 04:37 PM »

Quote from: Dr. Lorenz on October 30, 2009, 03:50 PM
Are you always this IICY?  Grin. In any case, what i meant by the second question is this: You love someone, and you can't tell her. The person is not in any relationship, else why bother? That'd tantamount to what my Waffi people would call "Killing bodyGrin Grin

Yes i'm always and have always been this way.
So the person is not in any relationship. . .why can't you tell her? Huh
Dr. Lorenz (m)
Re: Guy/girls: Which Is More Painful?
« #26 on: October 30, 2009, 06:15 PM »

Quote from: iice on October 30, 2009, 04:37 PM
Yes i'm always and have always been this way.
So the person is not in any relationship. . .why can't you tell her? Huh


I wasn't talking about me iice. I was asking a general question. U don't have to be that way cus u just might make the phrase "When hell freezes over" a reality.
iice (f)
Re: Guy/girls: Which Is More Painful?
« #27 on: October 30, 2009, 06:27 PM »

Quote from: Dr. Lorenz on October 30, 2009, 06:15 PM
I wasn't talking about me iice. I was asking a general question. U don't have to be that way cus u just might make the phrase "When hell freezes over" a reality.

And i wasn't talking about you in particular. . .
To rephrase. . .so the person is not in any relationship. . .why can't he/she tell her/him? Huh
LOL. . .well can't say i didn't expect that Cheesy hell freezing over is not a nothing new to me Wink
Dr. Lorenz (m)
Re: Guy/girls: Which Is More Painful?
« #28 on: October 30, 2009, 06:47 PM »

Quote from: iice on October 30, 2009, 06:27 PM
And i wasn't talking about you in particular. . .
To rephrase. . .so the person is not in any relationship. . .why can't he/she tell her/him? Huh
LOL. . .well can't say i didn't expect that Cheesy hell freezing over is not a nothing new to me Wink


Oh really? Then sorry. . .my bad lol.

He/She can't tell him/her because he/she hasn't really done it before, is not too sure of the response, or he/she doesn't really him/her. Wow. . .  Grin

Am glad you expected that cus if it actually happens, you won't be surprised  Cheesy
iice (f)
Re: Guy/girls: Which Is More Painful?
« #29 on: October 30, 2009, 06:59 PM »

Quote from: Dr. Lorenz on October 30, 2009, 06:47 PM
Oh really? Then sorry. . .my bad lol.

He/She can't tell him/her because he/she hasn't really done it before, is not too sure of the response, or he/she doesn't really him/her. Wow. . .  Grin

Am glad you expected that cus if it actually happens, you won't be surprised  Cheesy

LOL don't most people not really know how the other person will respond unless you really really know the person?  Anyway, it's prolly coz i approach things like a man Undecided It doesn't take anything from me to tell someone i like him or want to date him whether his response is favorable or not.  I've said my own and moved on to next issue lol. 

Ahhh not being surprised = predictability and that bores me lol.
Dr. Lorenz (m)
Re: Guy/girls: Which Is More Painful?
« #30 on: October 30, 2009, 07:48 PM »

Quote from: iice on October 30, 2009, 06:59 PM
LOL don't most people not really know how the other person will respond unless you really really know the person?  Anyway, it's prolly coz i approach things like a man Undecided It doesn't take anything from me to tell someone i like him or want to date him whether his response is favorable or not.  I've said my own and moved on to next issue lol. 

Ahhh not being surprised = predictability and that bores me lol.


U're right on the first count Cheesy. But sometimes you might know the other person, but not when it concerns matters of the heart.
U do approach things like a man. . .that i've noticed, though not all men approach things that way  Grin. Sometimes i wonder if you have a man's heart too  Grin.
U must realize though, that its not everyone that's like you so can't always act like you do.

Outside my reply: Whose foes are you referring to in "The bones of our foes will gleam under the sun"? LOL
Lord_Reed (m)
Re: Guy/girls: Which Is More Painful?
« #31 on: October 30, 2009, 07:53 PM »

Quote from: POSAKOSA1 on October 23, 2009, 08:18 PM
NEITHER. No such thing as love.
Quote from: Ebonyeyes on October 23, 2009, 08:33 PM
I agree with that sentiment. Love is a myth propagated by the entertainment and advertising industry to make us part with our money and it has been working thus far Cheesy.

Don't kid urselves there is a difference btw Hollywood make believe with all it's magic n glitter n the real world. Love in the Hollywood context doesn't negate love in the real world. That the two don't resemble each other doesn't make real love non existent.
Yes the word has been bastardized but some of us still practice it everyday and I won't be surprised if urselves are included.

As to the question no1 hurts more cos no2 can be solved more easily.
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