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Fiona0007
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To see the one you love in love with someone AND they are happy together, it may be painful but tolerable.
Not being able to tell the one you love about how you feel, AND it makes you both miserable, it can be more painful.
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iice (f)
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U're right on the first count  . But sometimes you might know the other person, but not when it concerns matters of the heart. U do approach things like a man. . .that i've noticed, though not all men approach things that way  . Sometimes i wonder if you have a man's heart too . U must realize though, that its not everyone that's like you so can't always act like you do. Outside my reply: Whose foes are you referring to in "The bones of our foes will gleam under the sun"? LOL
You're preaching to the choir  There are very few people who see things the way i do. Sometimes it's linear path, most often it's convoluted. . .so i don't bother to explain 
You had to look that one up ey? Foes represent challenges/adversaries  |
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PAININASS
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I also,don't believe in love or whatever it is they call it.
but if i had to pick one, it'll be "To see the one you love, love another. "
You are a living DEAD. sometimes you will love someone who doesn't know you exist |
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iice (f)
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Cos u think u have no makes u say u have no love?
Apparently you missed my other posts.
Please read the fine print before quoting me. . . Beginning of miscommunication |
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Lord_Reed (m)
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Apparently you missed my other posts.
Please read the fine print before quoting me. . . Beginning of miscommunication Aiye. Sorry your colors blinded me I was supposed to be refering to Ebonyeyes but hit u instead, my bad. |
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iice (f)
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Lol, it's all good
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Dr. Lorenz (m)
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True not all men approach things that way. . .even if i don't know the content of his heart (which i'm not interested in anyway, more concerned with his mind). . .i don't let fear keep from doing things It's like free falling or free diving anyway lol. Haha, i have no heart. Like Davy Jones, it's in a box buried somewhere
You're preaching to the choir There are very few people who see things the way i do. Sometimes it's linear path, most often it's convoluted. . .so i don't bother to explain
You had to look that one up ey? Foes represent challenges/adversaries Hah! What's the difference between the heart and the mind? I wasn't talking about fear iice. U seem to bring in different aspects to my statements . . .it's cool though. . .shows that you look at things from different perspectives. U didn't need to tell me you got no heart. . .i just pray that when you die, you won't be called a "heartless bitch" . Those people who see things the way you do must really be paranoid cus i can't imagine seeing things the way you do . Dont' worry, you don't need to explain, because it would only bring bring about more confusion U know, seriously, i would really love to know the real you. The person inside of iice. Come to think of it, the moniker fits you perfectly . Yea i had to look that one up, cus u're someone am watching with one eye closed . Thanks for explaining though. . . |
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Dr. Lorenz (m)
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LOL there is a difference.
Ahhh but you see, there are usually different perspectives to a situation. If not fear, then what?
Subtle jab? LOL you'd have to do better
Oh i don't need to be in a grave before being called that What me do you think is on here?  LOL i am who i am jare. . .hehehe thanks Picked it out myself = i know me very well Please what's the difference i pray tell? But before you do, let me remind you (if you ever read the Book) that: "As a man thinketh in his heart, so he is" , "Out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaketh" U want me to do better? Well like i said, it's not fear, but you can say the fear of the unknown or the fear of rejection LOL. Oh am sorry, i forgot u're called that already. . I have the sneaky feeling that the you in here is different from the real you. I also sense a kind of psychological fence or barrier around you for a particular purpose. . I know you know you very well, that's why i want to know you too . Or is that asking for too much from the iice queen? LOL On a side note, what's with you and the color? . Many people are beginning to copy you or is it the other way 'round? |
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iice (f)
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Please what's the difference i pray tell? But before you do, let me remind you (if you ever read the Book) that: "As a man thinketh in his heart, so he is" , "Out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaketh" U want me to do better? Well like i said, it's not fear, but you can say the fear of the unknown or the fear of rejection LOL. Oh am sorry, i forgot u're called that already. . I have the sneaky feeling that the you in here is different from the real you. I also sense a kind of psychological fence or barrier around you for a particular purpose. . I know you know you very well, that's why i want to know you too . Or is that asking for too much from the iice queen? LOL On a side note, what's with you and the color? . Many people are beginning to copy you or is it the other way 'round?  The title will keep my away sef lol.
I see the mind and heart as separate entities: logical and emotional respectively. Sometimes we want something emotionally though we know logically it's not needed.
So fear is different from fear of the unknown or rejection?
I'm not different from here. . .unless to say i'm a milder version on here lol. Are you attempting to psychoanalyze me? Lmao, good luck with that Hahaha, iice doesn't do people
Me copy? My first post on this land was green and green started to pop up and i changed it. I'm not much for oneness when it comes to certain things Kinda like my nail polish. . .i don't like matching it. |
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Dr. Lorenz (m)
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That's the title of the book? The title will keep my away sef lol.
I see the mind and heart as separate entities: logical and emotional respectively. Sometimes we want something emotionally though we know logically it's not needed.
So fear is different from fear of the unknown or rejection?
I'm not different from here. . .unless to say i'm a milder version on here lol. Are you attempting to psychoanalyze me? Lmao, good luck with that Hahaha, iice doesn't do people
Me copy? My first post on this land was green and green started to pop up and i changed it. I'm not much for oneness when it comes to certain things Kinda like my nail polish. . .i don't like matching it. First of all, i meant the Good Book. And if that doesn't strike a chord, then the Bible lol. They might be separate entities, but they are so so related. Perhaps you feel that way cus you're a girl lol. Someone might be playing with your heart, but your mind will know he's playing with your heart, and your body is weak to act. . .get it? Fear is different in the sense that, when you fear, you fear fear LOL. But fear of the unknown is like being afraid of what you know might be the result. A milder version? Then i guess i'll have to get a verbal heat wave to thaw you out! . I ain't tryna psychoanalyze you at all. I'll leave that for debest1. He's a real pro when it comes to that. I can do that, but i'll have to meet and talk with you first. . .is there any chance of that happening? Okay, i get it. . .people copy you right? LOL. |
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iice (f)
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LOL, i had that one coming didn't i? Ok i get you. . .the Bible.
Sorry ooo. . .my mind is supreme. No weak flesh anything for me. . .i've been accused of being too detached Not that they are wrong. . .i just pick who i want to get attached to Yes they are related, but it's possible to control them and separate their actions.
My good man, fear of the unknown and rejection is still basically fear.lol
Verbal heat wave? You are welcome to try I've weathered 3 yrs here
Haha. . .well they can only psychoanalyze the milder version of me Even then. . .lets just say, i still shock those who know me quite well Not happening lol.
You said it
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Dr. Lorenz (m)
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LOL, i had that one coming didn't i? Ok i get you. . .the Bible.
Sorry ooo. . .my mind is supreme. No weak flesh anything for me. . .i've been accused of being too detached Not that they are wrong. . .i just pick who i want to get attached to Yes they are related, but it's possible to control them and separate their actions.
My good man, fear of the unknown and rejection is still basically fear.lol
Verbal heat wave? You are welcome to try I've weathered 3 yrs here
Haha. . .well they can only psychoanalyze the milder version of me Even then. . .lets just say, i still shock those who know me quite well Not happening lol.
You said it Yea u had that one coming! U even had the decency to write the B in capital letters . Accused of being detached? I should say more like psycho- embashed. And yet they still won't be wrong, only they don't know yet . Please pick me as the next person to be attached to . It might be possible to separate the two, but not after some communication between the two of them. . Fear of the unknown and rejection is basically fear, but doesn't have the basic necessities to be called fear in the real sense of the word. Hmnn. . .of course i'll try but i'll do more than try. Like i said, a personal consultation would be needed. If i can pass through the milder version of me, then that's my own fat luck. If you can shock those who know you, then they don't really know you |
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iice (f)
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True there has to be communication between the two but in the end, one can still control and separate them. What basic necessities of fear in real sense of the word? Fear is still fear, be it irrational or rational.
Nah, they know me pretty well
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Dr. Lorenz (m)
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Alright iice, i agree with you. . .but only for the seeming lack of response for now . Basic necessities? For example, the kind that takes control of you, regardless of the rationality or irrationality. Nope they don't and am sure they're still trying to |
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iice (f)
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LOL. . .You seem to think i have those kinds of friends people like to have
They know me pretty well. . .as much as a human can know me
Do you mean to say, fear of rejection doesn't take control of one? LOL i think there are people who won't be able to tell a person they love him/her just because the fear of rejection won't let them. . .regardless of irrationality or rationality
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Dr. Lorenz (m)
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What? What kind of friends? Please expatiate LOL. U were the one that said they'll still be shocked and now you're saying that they know you beautifully pretty well. . . am still trying to know you, and i don't think i'll ever know you. . .am hopeful though I didn't say fear of rejection doesn't take control of you, but there are different levels to it. Oh really? Just like i can't tell you i love you because of rejection? And in this case, is it rational or irrational? |
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iice (f)
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To know someone doesn't mean you can't surprise them
That's why i said, as much as a human can know me or anyone for that matter (thou some people are one dimensional IMO )
Now we are getting somewhere. Levels of fear, yes. Chronic and what not lol.
In this case, it's rational You already know the outcome
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Dr. Lorenz (m)
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Yes, yes, you're right once again. . What's IMO? Please do forgive my intellectual deficiency in that regard Getting somewhere? U think? Am still trying to raise my legs! I'm happy you're beginning to see things my way! Hmnnn i know the answer? I don't. Don't forget what you said. . . LOL don't most people not really know how the other person will respond unless you really really know the person?
I don't really really know you, so i can't say i know the answer you'll give |
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iice (f)
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IMO = In My Opinion
LOL raise your legs to where? Are they cemented?
You know enough about me to know that answer
You already said you weren't surprised in another thread
Somethings are set in stone for me. . .no wishy washy on that
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ayomidej (f)
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Neither is better
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Dr. Lorenz (m)
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IMO. . .thanks for the tip They aren't cemented. . .i just need a little push from you Once again, i don't know anything about you yet. Yea, that's y u're complex No stone is unbreakable don't forget Neither is better
Question: Which is harder, not better. . .but i agree with you though |
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iice (f)
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You're welcome
Push? Into the river? off a cliff? kidding
Hahaha, keep saying you don't know anything yet
True no stone is unbreakable. . .however the resilience is another matter
Like i said, you can try. . .if you have a 100yrs more for you, you just might make it
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Dr. Lorenz (m)
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River? No o. A push in the right direction. . . Oh yes i will cus i don't know anything yet Time it's all it'd take my dear. . .time 100years? LOL. Aww come on! How old are you? 300 years? |
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iice (f)
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Well the right direction can be the river
Yeah time. . .but the effect is never a sure thing
I'm 64. . .so you're in luck You only have 36 more years to go
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Dr. Lorenz (m)
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The river sounds tempting, if only you'll join me The effects will be a sure thing. . .water breaks down rocks with constant movement and little or no force 64! U got to be sh**ting me! Seriously, are you? |
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iice (f)
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LOL you are on your own in the river
And weather conditions will harden the rock again
You didn't think i was a child now, did you?
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Dr. Lorenz (m)
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U won't come in with me? U afraid? I think say you get heart before. . . Not if its a water fall. No not at all, but 64!? U're serious? U didnt' even deny or agree |
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iice (f)
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But i don't have a heart remember?
Ahhhh waterfalls. . .love those Erhh as you were saying. . . Time will tell
Hehehe what's important is that i'm 64. . .real or not
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RuuDie (m)
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option #2 man. . . . . . . gosh, its so frigging annoying -  xpecially when they know it and anytime u try to voice somthing in that direction u're hushed like a li'l, lost puu'tty cat which unfortunately u areman. . . . with topics like this, u guys gonna turn be back to my woman-hating daysthat'd be welcome now i tell ya |
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