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okwanuzo3 (f)
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can you guys marry a single mum, if yes, how many children is too many. And if not, why?
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feelgood (m)
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If gals can marry single dad, guys can marry single mums, as long as they are not old enough 2 be your mama.
How many kids is ok? Depends on how many she's got, where the kid(s) is(are), whose responsibility, how many kids I want, etc
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akindayor (m)
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y would i want to do such when all d
single gals re out dere?
i mait reconsider if she's young not previously married but with kid
well really i don't know what will make me hook up to her in d 1st place anywayz
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sammyjl (f)
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 If I was a guy, I would. If it ws the other way around, I'd do it.
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adewale78 (m)
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yes as long as she is very caring and well behave.T o be a single mother is not a sin at least men also can be in the same position too  |
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Easyy (m)
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y would i want to do such when all d
single gals re out dere?
i mait reconsider if she's young not previously married but with kid
well really i don't know what will make me hook up to her in d 1st place anywayz
Na so o |
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okwanuzo3 (f)
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i don't see the difference between a lady who has a kid/ kids outside of wedlock and one who has been pregnant and got it terminated. i'd say the one who had the child has better values than the one who had an abortion (my opinion)
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Easyy (m)
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I've always seen, and still do see, great differences between a woman who has a child and one who has none
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okwanuzo3 (f)
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I've always seen, and still do see, great differences between a woman who has a child and one who has none
If a girl has slept with a man before you marry her, the only difference between her and the single mum is evidence of the premarital relationship; used to see it same way as you do, until i grew up |
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Easyy (m)
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If a girl has slept with a man before you marry her, the only difference between her and the single mum is evidence of the premarital relationship; used to see it same way as you do, until a grew up
So you honestly believe you are grown up . There are several differences and many of them have been outlined here by some other posters so if you chose to ignore them, why should I repeat them? |
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Easyy (m)
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If a girl has slept with a man before you marry her, the only difference between her and the single mum is evidence of the premarital relationship; used to see it same way as you do, until a grew up
Oh I see. you started the thread, you must have a reason for doing so. I'm trying to think about why you would start the thread when you already have your beliefs regarding it. hmmmmmmmm |
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okwanuzo3 (f)
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Oh I see.
you started the thread, you must have a reason for doing so.
I'm trying to think about why you would start the thread when you already have your beliefs regarding it. hmmmmmmmm
same reason others start threads on forums, to get various opinions, not neccessarily to change theirs  |
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promise72 (m)
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1 kid, no problem
2 kids, we have to talk. Real talk. She better be a damn good woman
3kids, hell no!
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JustGood (m)
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How man go marry after1 or after 2 sef when better single babes full town?
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Flodel (f)
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@promise72 what if you're the one who is a single dad with 3 kids?
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Flodel (f)
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@just good na wa 4 uuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu ooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
nobody desires bad things ok
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JustGood (m)
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na so o Flodel
all de yeye girls wey don waste them lives dey always talk yeye for internet
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typical
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I would rather not marry a single mum. Why desire a complication from the start of a relationship?
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naijabands (m)
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Why not  If she is down with my son , I am cool with her kid! I just cannot handle a chick with more than 1 (preferably a girl  )! |
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jintujinta (m)
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I will answer you with a story of a single mother who got married to a single father. You mat have heard it.
The wife called the hujsband to come home from work. The husband wondered what happened and the wife said. " My son and your son are beating our son" Or to make it a bit more complex, " My children and your children are fighting with our children".
That is the kind of trouble that marrying a single father or mother could give. Why not just start your own fresh home. There is hardly anyway, the child of either party will not feel ill treated when the other person chastises him/her or deny him/her some benefits.
It is good to be clean!
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ifyalways (f)
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single mum with good character, why not?
vice versa !
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uspry1 (f)
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yes sure you can marry a single mum with kids, depend on the characters you seek for. (Proverbs 31 traits) There are lot of single mums with kids in the USA, most USA men do not want dating those single mum with kids because of EXTRA BAGGAGES they (guys) do not want involved with serious relationship.  Most single mums with kids in the USA ARE FED UP WITH those men, tired of waiting for MR. RIGHT GUY, move on buying house, car, double or triple jobs without need a man/husband!!! That is why all single mum with kids in the USA are very indpendently. What about those kids are grown adult does not live with single mum, still do you want marry her? huh? What about those teenagers near secondary school graduate with single mum, do you want marry her? huh? |
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Siena (m)
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This topic has been debated to death, @ original poster, it's sometimes best to use the search button first.
But in answer to the question here, yes, I can marry a single mom, no question.
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Rlst84sale (m)
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Of course not more than 1 kid and if the attraction is there and we get along fine. Why not?.
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lucabrasi (m)
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i can marry a single mum but the relationship between her and the baby's daddy has to be clearly defined,visitatione.t.c
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tRoOE (f)
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i can marry a single mum but the relationship between her and the baby's daddy has to be clearly defined,visitatione.t.c
jealousy boy abi na fear dey catch you |
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big father (m)
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No big deal but me i cannot ! |
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lucabrasi (m)
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jealousy boy abi na fear dey catch you noo not jelousy now but what if the guy comes later and starts making trouble or if the child happens to get too attached to me and then the father comes along,also the guy might be trying to score being his ex lol ;abeg na u sabi jare but u know im right |
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metodman (m)
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yes and yes and yes if she has got what i need
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Ujujoan (f)
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Why not if not?? Would the guy rather marry a guy that has performed several abortions?
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2Legit
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marry single mum ke? I no fit o
why create problems for the early life when God did not give you problems.
Single girls don finish? If all girls dey go born anyhow, na them wahala be that; I no fit marry woman wey don born before for another man
God forbid bad thing
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, lol if he respect you than then he went disrespect you by trying to score with his ex 
