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abawa (m)
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marry single mum ke? I no fit o
why create problems for the early life when God did not give you problems.
Single girls don finish? If all girls dey go born anyhow, na them wahala be that; I no fit marry woman wey don born before for another man
God forbid bad thing
I de your side. why you go marry person we no fit stay with the father of her kid? How sure are you that thesame thing will not hapen to you as the other men in her life before you? Most single mothers are not prepared in reality to be A WIFE. Period!!!! |
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lucabrasi (m)
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even if the child get attach with you that is a good thing  , take care of the baby like it yours  , lol if he respect you than then he went disrespect you by trying to score with his ex  , nope you are wrong  i totally agree with that,but you v not met some guys,they don't give 2 and after like a couple of years they ll start with your looking diffrent, or do you remember the good times we shared, or i still have feelings for you and we have a sort of connection ;Dand then the girl to i can't help the feelings i still have for him,you know he this v d me and yada yada lol u know guys are like kids, the throw a toy away,and when u pick up the toy to put away,the kid starts crying for it, lol |
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Rlst84sale (m)
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Guys, some of the objections are worth discussing, but there are a lot of single mothers out there that got into those situations without absolute faults of their own. Are we going to condemn them?, of course not. If God could forgive people who are we to do otherwise?. I'm not encouraging ladies to be irresponsible neither am I saying that a guy should marry a single mother without knowing her very well. It would be very bad if the guy that wasn't there to take care of her and the baby still comes around and she lets him paddle her while she is now involved with a guy who is responsible I think in that situation she has to deal with the consequences besides most responsible single mothers would certainly not go that low. Even if she is not involved with anyone, if the guy can't be responsible she shouldn't let the fellow keep drinking her milk without paying for the cow. Personally I can marry a single mother of 1 but we really have to get along very well and the attraction gotta be there.
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kola oloye (m)
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Yes of course, as long as there is mutual love there is no problem.
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