He's Asking Me To Pay For My Trip

4 a guy to go rent a flat cus of her dey must have said more than HI to each other so u probably right

abi ooo. c'mon everbody got needs

It may be that the guy is trying to test you. He wants to kn the extent at which you love for him . I would advise you go. If you don't like wat you see, you can always back out. He's not gonna tie you there.  And you don't ve to expect him to give you money before you can visit him. Wat if, he lives in lagos  would ask him for money before you can visit him?   

did you read the post ? they haven't known each other for that long ? How can he want to test her love for him ? she didn't say they were engaged ? 

are u mad    he has to pay damn it

Another thought, he might be thinking if he send the fare,you might  not show up, he just don't want to be at the losing side, my stand on this is that you shouldn't travel that far to see a guy 4 the 1st time.

NICE RESPONSE MATE BUT COME TO THINK OF IT,

SHE MUST BE UNLUCKY TO HAVE A MAN IN HER LIFE FOR HER SISTER TO RECOMMEND A MAN FOR HER, OR MAYBE ITS KIND OF BADLUCK,

MEETING FOR THE FIRST TIME ITS THE RISK YOU ARE BOTH TAKING AND IF HE RENT AN APARTMENT BECAUSE OF YOU THEN U SHOULD FOOT THE TRANSPORT FARE BECAUSE OF HIM.

THINK ABOUT IT GIRL, MAYBE THIS IS YOUR CHANCE TO GET A MAN IN YOUR LONELY LIFE.

Ouch! Some of u guyz r mean. I said advice, nt insult. But see eh, is it possible to fall in love with someone by speaking with d person on the phone?

POSTER IT IS POSSIBLE, ITS JUST THAT OUR ENVIRONMENT IN NIGERIA HAS BEING DEFILED,

BUT ALL THE SAME BECAREFUL SHA BECAUSE HUMMMM TOO MANY LIES COMES WITH INVISIBILITY,

SAINTNEO  I AM FULLY AT YOUR BACK,


GOODBRAIN

POSTER THANK GOD U ARE SAVED

DONT ENTER RIVER OF MEN WITH TWO FEET OR ELSE, BYE BYE

My dear Nigerian men dont know what independent women look like. If you dont ask him for money for petty stuff like taxi pay and the oh-so-famous making your hair, he'd think youre a fool. Ive experienced it and the dude owes me 2000euros today. Stupid fool of a nigger. lol

I dont know how a man can meet a woman, see that she doesnt ask him for money and instead of being proud he doesnt have a beggar, he himself turns into a gold digger

So even though Id advice her, like you want to, to pay her own fare, as it is more respectable, . . . .in the first place I dont think she should go there at all. The man should come look for her if she's that important to him.

Thats how we women will be doing independence there and we shortchange ourselves. A man ought to work for a woman. So dont encourage women (I didnt say you did, Im speaking hypothetically) to throw themselves at men in the name of indepence or self respect.

Besides many nigerian men cant function if their woman is not a pian in the ass. If you dont push him, he'd take you for granted. So she should push him. If he is broke, then he should come visit when he has money or he should borrow if Im important. I can even refund him. But he should make the move, not the woman.

** runs away~

If the guy asked sent for you then he should provide transport fare; what is so hard to understand there?

Originally from Delta, born lagosian, native of Zurich lol . Why?

damm dat will be a whole lot of fare for him to pay lol

wow so a N20k air fare is what we are discussing here - na wah o!

when u are talking of proper international air fares then please ask the question not this nonsense fare that has taken up 2 pages now on NL. chei some people.

man came up with excuse he rented 3 bed flat - get someone to check him out first b4 flying anyway (or bus if thats your way) but my dear if its the same nigeria u guys are in then why is he not coming to see u - do people need visa from the east to lagos!!!!!!!!!!!!!!