I Want To Quit Her,please Advise If There Is Instant Remedy!

Can some one help,me i have been dating this girl for 2 years and half now.And i feel like quiting her because she is making me go crazy she is so inlove that she want's me to marry her,But i have i told her i am not ready for marriage.I am just 22 years old and she is 26 and have graduated too.She always feels i am the best for her but i want to let her go.She is not that tall and it bothers me.can any one please advise me.

She is a woman and ready to get married,
If you are not ready to marry her, stop wasting her time and tell her you will never marry her.
So that she knows were she stands.

why would you waste someone's time for 2 and half years and then decide u don't want to marry her. dude you deserve to be kicked in the ballz.

@ angola_g
u hit d wrong nerve here bro , u re in d wrong setting because all this ladies re going to tear your hearts/head out u don't ask ladies for advice on issues like this because dey'll reply u wit all emotions its called "sista love".
if u askd me,i'll advice 1 POSTPONEMENT! brief interlude to get your head in the cooler.
if d age diff doesn't break u up, your immaturity ll
if your immaturity doesn't your insecurity with her height,academic achievement will
finally what ll settle d scores is your "not-ready-yet" sydrome
i've been dere bro and back again.
2 QUIT now before u make a mess of her life, it mait b painful but u've got to let go if u love her really ( i did it once)
look at it this way your dog has cancer, its in pains either way its going to die, its looks u to u to make the call (shoot me pleease!!) that is what u see in its eyes.

You never know the value what u have until u loose it
You have a girl who's dying for you and want to leave her, my dear don't make that mistake. Work towards loving her. Focus on her good side and the good times

My geuss is youve lost interest and found someone new, and want our permission to help you get over your guilty conscience of having to let her go now.

For starters mate,  we are not an authority.

Its your responsibility, your conscience and you will pay for this.

2.5 years and your realise all this now?  Like its come to you in some dazy wave.

Short?  excuses excuses excuses.

Ok then, if thats what you want.

I need opinions from men side too,Have any of you been in these of kind of situation.I need to get my self out of this without hurting her so much.I am not being an ingrate but I just want to be.Please I still need your advise and opinions.

No one is replying to this post,Where have you all gone to?

A painful heartbreak on the way! A shower of tear from a loving lady. A feeling of satisfaction from a worried man. Love hurts no one but men hurt one another. I wish we could see the face of LOVE, we would be in position to know whether we are obeying or rebelling. . .

When we meet an opposite sex, must we lose ourself in the thrilling sensation in our heart or ponder on the consequence of our action, success of failure?

NEVER START ANYTHING YOU HAVE NO DESIRE TO CONCLUDE!


There is more to this than you said. But, l reserve my comment.

Naja Haje nawa for you o, leave the guy jare

angola_g, I feel you because I av been in a similar situation my brother.

Truth is you sometimes may not fully understand the depths and implications of particular actions of yours until they hit you (that's why you are human, you can't know all). As such, you should not be blamed for wanting out at this stage.

Ladies should also realise that their obsession with marriage without fully understanding the mental state of the other person involved (moreso when he is not ready for such), can drive one nuts and make the concept and thought of marriage seem like hell.

It is possible that when you first met her, you never thot she would be persistent to the point of nagging which is now choking you.

My advice,
Take some time off relationships and think of what you want to do with your life, then make sure you tell her your plans in a humble way, taking her temperament into consideration.

Time will heal her wounds and make sure you don't get into another relationship without defining the terms of the relationship or at least what you hope to get out of it.

#Candid Submission#

u no get sense. na after 2 years u dey realize say u be fool. i pity u

@angola_g

I understand how things are too and how women can become. Making you feel like you've done them so much evil. Forgetting they were plotting and scheming all along.

@brymore
You're right and believe me, I empathise with you on this, if you have sorted your self out of it. I'm in it and the girl is pregnant after I had rang in her ear that I had a girlfriend I was serious with. She kept forcing herself on me.
Now I'm mentally preparing myself to marry two women. I'm in shit right? I know!

Y did u approach her in the first place when you know she is a graduate and older than you. Don't you know that girls grew much older than guys. You should know that @ her age, she should get married with 2 kids if am not mistaking. Guy my advise is that you should have a rethink, r u sure you're reading to this,

men are d same if u look at it from all angles they are all dogs,why didnt u define d relationship from d begining,didnt u see that she was shot,older than u are n probably not your kind of woman until now,d dog in u will not let u know.

pahaha what I was thinking