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THE AMAKA (f)
Re: Girls Who Have Sex Before Marriage - Why Do You Do This?
« #64 on: October 25, 2009, 03:25 PM »

thats not nice oooo.
but i guess you do have a point though.

anyway im going to eat my chicken. peace!
Ebonyeyes (f)
Re: Girls Who Have Sex Before Marriage - Why Do You Do This?
« #65 on: October 25, 2009, 03:26 PM »

Quote from: THE AMAKA on October 25, 2009, 03:22 PM
yeah, and isnt that against the rules?
na wa oooo
but Seun takes his time to ban other people over nonsense that he doesnt like. lol

I think its gotten out of hand and the mods need to step in because the verbal abuse is just too much.

Quote from: POSAKOSA1 on October 25, 2009, 03:23 PM

If u start a thread u're putting urself out there,  I think what makes it even more worse is that people see her picture and then  Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin

Who are the people making fun of her looks? arent they faceless too?

@@@Sweetpie

You are a strong girl to carry on in a place where you are hated and verbally abused on the regular
sweetpie23
Re: Girls Who Have Sex Before Marriage - Why Do You Do This?
« #66 on: October 25, 2009, 03:27 PM »

Quote from: POSAKOSA1 on October 25, 2009, 03:23 PM

If u start a thread u're putting urself out there, I think what makes it even more worse is that people see her picture and then  Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
who cares what they or you think of me, am very proud of how I look and I have the confidence to put up my photo up there unlike most of you Tongue
whitesturd (f)
Re: Girls Who Have Sex Before Marriage - Why Do You Do This?
« #67 on: October 25, 2009, 03:31 PM »

sweetpie honey.i love your courage.no mind dem jor.u too much.evrytin is not al abt facial beauty.i like the way you stand 2ru thick and thin.
redsky1
Re: Girls Who Have Sex Before Marriage - Why Do You Do This?
« #68 on: October 25, 2009, 03:32 PM »

the issue people have is some one coming on here to judge others when no body is without sin.

so people make mistakes and commit fornication - is this worse than rape, adultery, 419, child abuse, abuse against widows, armed robbery, etc etc, but sweet (whatever her name is) wants to tell the world she is a virgin (i can understand why after seeing her profile) and judge those that are not.

please - if your such a holy person remember the bible passage that said stop looking at the splinter in someone elses's eyes and remove the block of wood from your own first (ok not exactly how Jesus put it but u get the drift)
sweetpie23
Re: Girls Who Have Sex Before Marriage - Why Do You Do This?
« #69 on: October 25, 2009, 03:34 PM »

Quote from: Ebonyeyes on October 25, 2009, 03:26 PM
@@@Sweetpie

You are a strong girl to carry on in a place where you are hated and verbally abused on the regular
I would have quite if those comments were affecting me, but it does shit to me sister after all I know nairaland is where some no body comes to feel
special. you will be suprise to know most of them calling me names are probably very ugly, and loners in real like that is the beauty of the internet. Grin
Ebonyeyes (f)
Re: Girls Who Have Sex Before Marriage - Why Do You Do This?
« #70 on: October 25, 2009, 03:37 PM »

Babes according to the internet, we are all beautiful supermodels with perfect bodies and defined jawlines Wink Wink. I still think you should take your picture down though because you are giving them an easy way to attack you
redsky1
Re: Girls Who Have Sex Before Marriage - Why Do You Do This?
« #71 on: October 25, 2009, 03:38 PM »

Quote from: sweetpie23 on October 25, 2009, 03:34 PM
I would have quite if those comments were affecting me, but it does shit to me sister after all I know nairaland is where some no body comes to feel
special. you will be suprise to know most of them calling me names are probably very ugly, and loners in real like that is the beauty of the internet. Grin

LMAO - very ugly?HuhHuhHuh

hmmmmmmmmm people in glass houses,
ladijacobs
Re: Girls Who Have Sex Before Marriage - Why Do You Do This?
« #72 on: October 25, 2009, 03:38 PM »

Quote from: THE AMAKA on October 25, 2009, 03:17 PM
well i understand.
when ladijacobs said "nail" i think he meant "get at"
as in he was trying to get at the girl not sleep with her.
nail=get number, talk to her, become friends with her.

people use "nail" differently in places that you go.

Thanks o! As far back as secondary school, nail was a word i and friends have been using even for things like exams and a business deal. Im grateful joo.

Quote from: Ebonyeyes on October 25, 2009, 03:20 PM
Nail according to the urban dictionary means to have intercourse with a girl Undecided Anyhoo you should learn definitions before using words you dont know the meaning of.

Haba urban dictionary contains all sorts of words, converted into so-called-slangs. Im even an editor on the site, and I know the kinds of words and phrases I have accepted on the site before. See what Wordweb dictionary and dictionary.com have to say.

Nail (v):
Attach by means of nails, Take into custody, Succeed in obtaining a position, Succeed at easily, Locate exactly, complete a pass.
[WordWeb dictionary of English]
Here, 5 out of 6 meanings (83%) refer to my usage.

Dictionary.com
http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/nail
where NOT one meaning is in sexual denotation or connotation.

But thanks for the insightful understanding.
Ebonyeyes (f)
Re: Girls Who Have Sex Before Marriage - Why Do You Do This?
« #73 on: October 25, 2009, 03:43 PM »

Yes yes yes there is no sexual reference to the word nail from the website you posted but there is no reference to what you meant as well.
POSAKOSA1 (m)
Re: Girls Who Have Sex Before Marriage - Why Do You Do This?
« #74 on: October 25, 2009, 03:44 PM »

Quote from: sweetpie23 on October 25, 2009, 03:27 PM
who cares what they or you think of me, am very proud of how I look and I have the confidence to put up my photo up there unlike most of you Tongue

 Undecided Undecided Undecided Undecided Undecided Undecided Undecided Undecided Undecided

ladijacobs
Re: Girls Who Have Sex Before Marriage - Why Do You Do This?
« #75 on: October 25, 2009, 03:45 PM »

@Redsky: Im old enough to get married, but being ready is another matter. Thanks for the "concern".

@Ebonyeyes: Check out definitions 6, 7 and 8 please

@Everyone: Whenever someone says he/she is a virgin, it does not mean that they are saying that they have life all figured out and they dont have their own problems. If life and eternity revolves around pre-marital or extra-marital sex, that's when being a virgin can count for anything. But since it doesn't, then I think all the attacks placed on proclaimed virgins constitiute too much fuss, too much unnecessary hassle. Its what you are doing with your life RIGHT NOW that matters, God does not care if you are a virgin or a non-virgin. After all, in a parable, some workers were on a farm since 3pm, others joined at 11pm and they all got the same reward when the master came back. SO what are you doing with your life right now, is the question, and not what WERE you or ARE you, with respect to virginity.

 Cool NL is so much fun. I just joined this morning and I guess Im glad,
ThiefOfHearts (f)
Re: Girls Who Have Sex Before Marriage - Why Do You Do This?
« #76 on: October 25, 2009, 03:46 PM »

Any reason why you're asking such a personal question?  Huh

Also what kind of uninformed idiot gets pregnant everytime they have sex?

Real question is why is this your madness directed only towards women?

Sunday morning frustration?
wolexy2 (m)
Re: Girls Who Have Sex Before Marriage - Why Do You Do This?
« #77 on: October 25, 2009, 03:48 PM »

guys virginity is really not a big issue, if u are doing it do it say and have a good reason 4 doing nobody is Jesus. Just stop pretending ok? switpie
ThiefOfHearts (f)
Re: Girls Who Have Sex Before Marriage - Why Do You Do This?
« #78 on: October 25, 2009, 03:50 PM »

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How do you explain women who got married as virgins and their husbands

1. just woke up one day and left them

2. left them because she couldn't get pregnant

3. the women found someone else

virginity has no business with happiness and vice-versa. Just don't have sex with every man you date and don't get pregnant under any circumstances for a man that isn't your husband.

There are women who got married as virgins and STILL ended up as single mothers, or divorced for one uncontrollable reason or the other, 

Should I be surprised that the OP didnt even bother replying this genius post?
THE AMAKA (f)
Re: Girls Who Have Sex Before Marriage - Why Do You Do This?
« #79 on: October 25, 2009, 03:50 PM »

Quote from: ladijacobs on October 25, 2009, 03:38 PM
Thanks o! As far back as secondary school, nail was a word i and friends have been using even for things like exams and a business deal. Im grateful joo.


youre welcome.
yeah i need to nail that test or i need to nail that jumpshot (when playing sports)
nail means a lot of things.

i understood when you said "nail" and it didnt come to me as a sexual thing either.
i thought you meant talk to her, get her number, be cool with her, score a date with her.
the last thing i thought was sex. only those dirty minds. lol   Lips sealed Cool


Quote from: ThiefOfHearts on October 25, 2009, 03:46 PM
Any reason why you're asking such a personal question?  Huh

Also what kind of uninformed idiot gets pregnant everytime they have sex?

Real question is why is this your madness directed only towards women?

Sunday morning frustration?
well you do have a point.
i think it was intentionally only directed at women.

some girls do let guys take advantage of them. but thats just SOME girls.

this topic can go for guys too.
so guys, what is your take on this?
redsky1
Re: Girls Who Have Sex Before Marriage - Why Do You Do This?
« #80 on: October 25, 2009, 03:51 PM »

why do virgins talk about sex self?HuhHuh?

are u frustrated - why ask the question - keep your ignorant and hypocritical judgements to yourself.

if your a virgin u should be proud buy keep your stupid comments to yourself.

with the amount of child sex abuse in Nigeria its any surprise alot of girls are not virgins when they are married - by their own choice or not. abeg sweet pie - go and cook your sunday rice

to the 40 year old virgin - keep waiting to be ready - i'm not concerned about you at all , so keep the sarcasm to yourself
THE AMAKA (f)
Re: Girls Who Have Sex Before Marriage - Why Do You Do This?
« #81 on: October 25, 2009, 03:53 PM »

^^^

what is biting you?   Huh
ThiefOfHearts (f)
Re: Girls Who Have Sex Before Marriage - Why Do You Do This?
« #82 on: October 25, 2009, 03:55 PM »

Quote from: redsky1 on October 25, 2009, 03:51 PM
with the amount of child sex abuse in Nigeria its any surprise alot of girls are not virgins when they are married - by their own choice or not.

You are VERY right about the rampant sexual abuse that occurs in Naija. Of course the bums rather stay in denial.
redsky1
Re: Girls Who Have Sex Before Marriage - Why Do You Do This?
« #83 on: October 25, 2009, 03:55 PM »

these holier than thou people who apparently are without sin - i did not know that Jesus was living among us.

Nigerians sometimess p**s me off with this attitude they have
r231 (m)
Re: Girls Who Have Sex Before Marriage - Why Do You Do This?
« #84 on: October 25, 2009, 04:06 PM »

@r231: Na wA unto you o! You mean after reading the entire thread you still don't get what I was trying to say? Is it that hard?? And yes, I am a virgin. Having a girlfriend does not mean you need to sleep with her, wake up!

 ladijacobs

i am watching football now so I don't really have your time do whateva dat pleases u its a forum and i am entitle to my own opinion if u like be a virgin or mess with million women heart with your friends cus  its not like you are going to marry my sister or my daughter so do YOU
ladijacobs
Re: Girls Who Have Sex Before Marriage - Why Do You Do This?
« #85 on: October 25, 2009, 04:09 PM »

 Cheesy Cheesy Grin Cool Finally some peace and quiet.
Eaglebabe
Re: Girls Who Have Sex Before Marriage - Why Do You Do This?
« #86 on: October 25, 2009, 06:03 PM »

St sweetpie,na your thing de take de do.If u ae buying a car will u not drive it round to be sure of what u are buying.
spizzlenik (m)
Re: Girls Who Have Sex Before Marriage - Why Do You Do This?
« #87 on: October 25, 2009, 07:39 PM »

this thread= too much ado about NOTHING!!! Cool Cool Cool Cool Cool
POSAKOSA1 (m)
Re: Girls Who Have Sex Before Marriage - Why Do You Do This?
« #88 on: October 25, 2009, 07:41 PM »

^^^^^^ its all for fun mate   Cool Cool Cool
steeze (m)
Re: Girls Who Have Sex Before Marriage - Why Do You Do This?
« #89 on: October 25, 2009, 08:00 PM »

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I already know you on here, you go from topic to topic looking for someone to attack. bloody loser, if you are
frustrated, why not have a good sleep or relax your mind, instead of you always bringing up unnecessary arguments.
fool. Tongue any way, you are about to have a good day today, because I do not give a 1 cent what you think or say so start raining your insults.

Isn't that what you do yourself sweetpie? I've seen about 10 people in different threads call you a hypocrite. They can't all be wrong, can they?

I agree with them: you are self righteous and pretentious. I know deep down you are looking for a guy who will sweep you off your feet and spoil u silly with love.

But that has NEVER happened, has it?

Stop deceiving yourself. Deep inside you are a very angry lady. Angry at the male gender for ignoring you. Every comment you've ever posted is abusive, and hateful.

Makes me wonder what kind of person you are Huh
spizzlenik (m)
Re: Girls Who Have Sex Before Marriage - Why Do You Do This?
« #90 on: October 25, 2009, 08:26 PM »



Quote from: steeze on October 25, 2009, 08:00 PM
you are self righteous and pretentious. I know deep down you are looking for a guy who will sweep you off your feet and spoil u silly with love.

But that has NEVER happened, has it?

Stop deceiving yourself. Deep inside you are a very angry lady. Angry at the male gender for ignoring you. Every comment you've ever posted is abusive, and hateful.

Makes me wonder what kind of person you are Huh
GBAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAM!!! BRUTALITY!!! , LMAO Cool Cool Cool
POSAKOSA1 (m)
Re: Girls Who Have Sex Before Marriage - Why Do You Do This?
« #91 on: October 25, 2009, 08:27 PM »

Omo see yabbing    Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
THE AMAKA (f)
Re: Girls Who Have Sex Before Marriage - Why Do You Do This?
« #92 on: October 25, 2009, 08:27 PM »

Quote from: spizzlenik on October 25, 2009, 08:26 PM
GBAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAM!!! BRUTALITY!!! , LMAO Cool Cool Cool
i see you are now an "active" poster.
hmmmm took you long enough.

its true, once you start posting, you cant stop. lol
took about a year though.
spizzlenik (m)
Re: Girls Who Have Sex Before Marriage - Why Do You Do This?
« #93 on: October 25, 2009, 08:49 PM »

@Amaka, Yeah I guess;D Grin Grin, i figure it wouldn't hurt to express myself a little.
How are you doing? read thru some of your postings, U got quite a rep here
THE AMAKA (f)
Re: Girls Who Have Sex Before Marriage - Why Do You Do This?
« #94 on: October 25, 2009, 08:53 PM »

Quote from: spizzlenik on October 25, 2009, 08:49 PM
@Amaka, Yeah I guess;D Grin Grin, i figure it wouldn't hurt to express myself a little.
How are you doing? read thru some of your postings, U got quite a rep here
hey hey hey!!!  Angry Angry
Chizin (m)
Re: Girls Who Have Sex Before Marriage - Why Do You Do This?
« #95 on: October 25, 2009, 09:06 PM »

Just be smart, that is all.
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