Am Kinda Perplexd

Hi pips,i nid a lil advice. Am thnkng of settling dwn bt d problem is d close female friends iv gut nd who r really nice nd so on r eithr 1 or 2yrs olda than i am. Am in my late 20s nd somehw dnt fil comfortabl wit that. bt 1 or 2 of them hv bin waitng 4me to say somethng to them,bt i knw that dip inside of shady,i MYT NOT end up wit d chck if i start a rship.so i dnt wana start 1 nd brake someone's hat. So d questn is,is it wise enuf to get bethroted to an olda lady?nd whts d future implicatn,if any? Work schedule hs made it v.diffcult to luk 4 yunga POST-NYSC chcks arund,

Thanx dear!