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clem2love
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I AM IN MY LATE 20THS AND ALREADY HAVE A KIDS FROM A LADY WHO HAVE ALREADY HAS ONE. WHILE I STARTED THE RELATIONSHIP WITH HER BEFORE THE BIRTH OF MY BABY. I FOUND A LADY WHOM HAVE ONLY BE SPEAKING TO ON PHONE.
BEFOR MY WIFE PUT TO BED SHE FOUND OUT I WAS LOSSING HER LOVE FOR SOMEONE ELSE SHE CALL THE LADY AND WE BROKE UP WITH THE NEW LADY FOR MONTHS.
LAST TWO MONTH SHE STARTED CALLING ME AND WE SETTLE FOR ONLY FRIENDS TO MY SURPRICE SHE CAME INTO LAGOS TO SEE A FAMILY FRIEND AND CALLED ME TO COME AND HAVE A LOOK AT HER. I NEVER KNEW I WAS MISSING AN ANGEL. SHE WAS FAR MORE BEAUTIFUL THAN MY WIFE AND SWEAT. IMMEdiately MY LOVE FOR HER. WHAT DO I DO?
COS NOW I DONT WANT TO LOSS MY WIFE AND LOSE HER TOO??
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Ebonyeyes (f)
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Why did you take the wedding vows then?  Men like you pee me off. You cant eat your cake and have it. |
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Ujujoan (f)
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Ha! just another loser . .
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candylips (m)
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@poster
too bad
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r231 (m)
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oh well
face your wife and your kid which should be your priority right about now
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Ani Lee (f)
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Why did you take the wedding vows then? Men like you pee me off. You cant eat your cake and have it. |
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justwise (m)
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I AM IN MY LATE 20THS AND ALREADY HAVE A KIDS FROM A LADY WHO HAVE ALREADY HAS ONE. WHILE I STARTED THE RELATIONSHIP WITH HER BEFORE THE BIRTH OF MY BABY. I FOUND A LADY WHOM HAVE ONLY BE SPEAKING TO ON PHONE.
BEFOR MY WIFE PUT TO BED SHE FOUND OUT I WAS LOSSING HER LOVE FOR SOMEONE ELSE SHE CALL THE LADY AND WE BROKE UP WITH THE NEW LADY FOR MONTHS.
LAST TWO MONTH SHE STARTED CALLING ME AND WE SETTLE FOR ONLY FRIENDS TO MY SURPRICE SHE CAME INTO LAGOS TO SEE A FAMILY FRIEND AND CALLED ME TO COME AND HAVE A LOOK AT HER. I NEVER KNEW I WAS MISSING AN ANGEL. SHE WAS FAR MORE BEAUTIFUL THAN MY WIFE AND SWEAT. IMMEdiately MY LOVE FOR HER. WHAT DO I DO?COS NOW I DONT WANT TO LOSS MY WIFE AND LOSE HER TOO??
U are an excuse for a man. |
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Ani Lee (f)
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U are an excuse for a man.
true. guess it boils down to the big g word hey, |
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Pharoh
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true. guess it boils down to the big g word hey,
What is that word?  @Poster what you are doing is absolutely not right please consider the feelings and rights of your wife. You are not fair in this situation and think it if the situation was the other way round. Why did you take the wedding vows then? Men like you pee me off. You cant eat your cake and have it. Maybe They were pressured into the marriage or they married out of pity for one another.  |
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Ebonyeyes (f)
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Maybe They were pressured into the marriage or they married out of pity for one another. So thats an excuse to cheat? wow you amaze me |
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justwise (m)
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So thats an excuse to cheat? wow you amaze me There is no excuse at all, u know what? I'm getting fed up with this new trend with some of my 9ja friends who are married here, they cheat at will, one went back to Nigeria this Jan and got married then came back here to sleep with anything and everything under the skirt. Yes i may sound old fashion but to hell with pple who can't not keep it zipped when married. |
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Ebonyeyes (f)
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There is no excuse at all, u know what? I'm getting fed up with this new trend with some of my 9ja friends who are married here, they cheat at will, one went back to Nigeria this Jan and got married then came back here to sleep with anything and everything under the skirt.
Yes i may sound old fashion but to hell with pple who can't not keep it zipped when married.
I for one im glad that as a man you can see how wrong it is. This are the things discouraging people from getting married because why take the vows in the ist place? I dont get it at all  |
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spizzlenik (m)
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@poster, U know what is right to do, Stick with your family
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Pharoh
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So thats an excuse to cheat? wow you amaze me I am not giving an excuse for him to cheat but addressing something else entirely that has nothing to do with cheating. At least you should have checked my post above that na  Hope you won't shoot me one day oooooooo  I was only trying to say that maybe they didn't think very properly before getting married hence the problem with their marriage. I wasn't giving an excuse or reason why he is cheating or trying to justify it because you can see that i condemned him. |
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ThoniaSlim (f)
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SLAP YOUR SELF OUTTA OF THE LUST. . .MOFO! |
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Ebonyeyes (f)
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I am not giving an excuse for him to cheat but addressing something else entirely that has nothing to do with cheating. At least you should have checked my post above that na Hope you won't shoot me one day oooooooo I was only trying to say that maybe they didn't think very properly before getting married hence the problem with their marriage. I wasn't giving an excuse or reason why he is cheating or trying to justify it because you can see that i condemned him. Well you didnt make your point clear enough. |
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lytone (m)
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REALLY dued just forget about who is better and face your mistakes becos u are a man, dont let ladies start think we men are the same, just go back to your wife and stick with her, your missing an angel? why did u go to bed with your wife if u knew she wasnt an angel, pls man forget about beauty for u could only lust for her, go to your wife.
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iice (f)
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Awww, maybe with the help of babalawo, you can eat your cake and have it too
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dani1luv
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Poster you are what scientist do call a PROJECTILE;
You have a wife and childrens; and a so-called
Dumbass; Madam Kagoo came your way; so stupid of you
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FL Gators
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Are they blind? What do they see in you?
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190 (m)
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U are an excuse for a man.
No its sheep~ *coughs coughs* |
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Pharoh
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Well you didnt make your point clear enough. Okay here is it, His wife already had a kid from someone else before they met. They got married and in between them they also had one kid. Before he married his present wife he had a female friend he has not seen but they have been speaking on the phone. After his wife gave birth he met this lady in Lagos he has been talking with on the phone. All of a sudden he is having feelings for her and doubting about his marriage. What does the above scenario tells you?, My answer was the post you replied to. People look down on ladies who are after one so i am guessing maybe he married her out of pity (Don't intend to stretch it more than this) hence the lack of respect he has for her by going after someone else when she just gave birth.  I have already condemned him in my earlier post so i am not giving any excuse here. |
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ezinne1212 (f)
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Awww, maybe with the help of babalawo, you can eat your cake and have it too
lmao!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
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porta
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your a fool you what to eat your cake and have you better go back to you wife your wife is better |
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