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fatjulie
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please help, my boyfriend said it either i get slim or i leave
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Ebonyeyes (f)
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Did you gain weight during the course of your relationship? Your bfs approach is very cruel and nasty instead of criticising you, he should be helping and supporting you.
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Missy B (f)
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Do what is right for You and not just Your bf.
If You're TOO fat . . . . .Do away with some flesh.
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jay bee (m)
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please help, my boyfriend said it either i get slim or i leave
who is leaving who? dude is not even married to you and def doesn't have any right to threaten you abt the gadamn relationship. tell him i said he is a jack ass and should leanr how to communicate. oya bring your fat ass here to come get a pat on the back  |
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facibabe (f)
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is this guy after your body or love. lady if you really wish to slim down then you can go for some exercise but if u like the way you are then you have to look for someone that will like and love you the way you are and if you love this guy you are writing about then you can loss some weight so both of you can enjoy the relationship
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justwise (m)
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Did you gain weight during the course of your relationship? Your bfs approach is very cruel and nasty instead of criticising you, he should be helping and supporting you.
Have to agree with u, he needs to support her, then slagging her off. |
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chic2pimp (m)
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Do what is right for You and not just Your bf.
If You're TOO fat . . . . .Do away with some flesh.
I couldn't have said it any better. |
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Ben-10
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lol MissyB says ' do away with some flesh'  |
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Ani Lee (f)
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i dont mind his choice of words. Sometimes, the harsher the words, the closer to reality we are brought to and the more we are imposed to take action. Lose weight for yourself dear, not for him or any one else. Remember its your HEALTH hey.
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fatjulie
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i wasnt this fat before the relationship started, i was plump
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Pharoh
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I don't support the threat part but if you want to you should do because of yourself and not for him. But its good to bring out issues like this instead of suffering in silence because of ideas like 10 things you should not say to a lady |
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Missy B (f)
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Did you gain weight during the course of your relationship? Your bfs approach is very cruel and nasty instead of criticising you, he should be helping and supporting you.
The way NLanders jump into conclusion is so funny. Do You realise there are 2 sides to the story and he prolly didn't say it in a mean way? He should help her get fat? Ebony ehhhhh  i dont mind his choice of words. Sometimes, the harsher the words, the closer to reality we are brought to and the more we are imposed to take action .Lose weight for yourself dear, not for him or any one else. Remember its your HEALTH hey. Thank You! |
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Ujujoan (f)
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Hmmmmn! Na wa oh!  |
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Ani Lee (f)
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i wasnt this fat before the relationship started, i was plump
Ok i hope dat aint a justification but an answer to what was asked. Well, in any case, you have to shed off some of that fat, cause girl you know like we all do, being overweight comes with its fair share of risks as compared to being fit or within your normal BMI, |
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Ben-10
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The boyfriend knows what he has seen lately |
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chic2pimp (m)
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Abi ooo. Na who wan carry fatso for house |
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ichommy
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even your USERNAME PROOF IT LOL |
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iz2much (m)
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even your USERNAME PROOF IT LOL i 4 say |
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Ebonyeyes (f)
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LEXI, YOU AINT EXACTLY TYRESE FIT YOURSELF |
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wale.star (m)
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Your husband prefer Lepa to bad to Orobo to bad and he has probably telling you with style to leave
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whitelexi (m)
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LEXI, YOU AINT EXACTLY TYRESE FIT YOURSELF AT LEAST I SHOW MYSELF, U NKO? HOW WE GO KNOW SAY U NO BE ONE YOKOZUNA SEF?? |
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jay bee (m)
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LEXI, YOU AINT EXACTLY TYRESE FIT YOURSELF He ain't tyrese but he sure has the lyrics to rival even the best. go lexy go lexy go |
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y me (f)
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if he is dumping you because you are fat,then he is not worth having you as a gf just do what is right dear, burn that fat no matter what  |
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jay bee (m)
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my one and only YME is voluptuous and i lover her like dat? init though  |
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redsky1
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is this man your husband - abeg if he can't love you for you then move on to someone better - i made this mistake many many years ago startving myself cos my ex told me he doesn't like fat women and that if i put on weight it means he would have to cheat (meanwhile my dear i was a UK size 8/10 at the time) he still cheated and is still useless
me i'm happily married to someone who loves me for me fat or slim o!
abeg if you want to lose weight do it for yourself - if u do it for a man u will not be happy
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jay bee (m)
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@ebony larv
I'm sure it was all jokes.
oya kiss and make up. no fighting.
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