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yicob (m)
Can U Marry An Hiv Positive Patience If U Are Negative
« on: January 02, 2007, 03:34 PM »

?
shevchenko (m)
Re: Can U Marry An Hiv Positive Patience If U Are Negative
« #1 on: January 02, 2007, 03:43 PM »

Is this a game or what?
o.k my turn
Can you marry a gorilla if you are a human being?who is next?
@topic topic if u had put if we love him/her i'D have said yes.
but since it is none of such then lets call it,the marriage game i guess
who is next oooo?
edygirl (f)
Re: Can U Marry An Hiv Positive Patience If U Are Negative
« #2 on: January 02, 2007, 03:44 PM »

I guess not.
Coco29 (f)
Re: Can U Marry An Hiv Positive Patience If U Are Negative
« #3 on: January 02, 2007, 03:56 PM »

yes i can, a person with HIV is still a human being, him being positive does not mean i will become positive we just need to be quite careful thats all.
chronicles (m)
Re: Can U Marry An Hiv Positive Patience If U Are Negative
« #4 on: January 02, 2007, 04:05 PM »

The simple answer to the Question is YES.
marcustan (m)
Re: Can U Marry An Hiv Positive Patience If U Are Negative
« #5 on: January 02, 2007, 04:16 PM »

Hell no.I think d secondary essence of marriage is babies(primary is love).I can't bear not having babies.
Coco29 (f)
Re: Can U Marry An Hiv Positive Patience If U Are Negative
« #6 on: January 02, 2007, 04:26 PM »

Quote from: marcustan on January 02, 2007, 04:16 PM
Hell no.I think d secondary essence of marriage is babies(primary is love).I can't bear not having babies.


who said that you can't have babies if you or your partner have HIV  Huh
Genial (m)
Re: Can U Marry An Hiv Positive Patience If U Are Negative
« #7 on: January 02, 2007, 04:26 PM »

Quote from: marcustan on January 02, 2007, 04:16 PM
Hell no.I think d secondary essence of marriage is babies(primary is love).I can't bear not having babies.

PMTCT (Prevention of Mother To Child Transmission) or AI (Artificial Insemination) are options. Why do you think  HIV-infected marriages cannot involve healthy children?
ThoniaSlim (f)
Re: Can U Marry An Hiv Positive Patience If U Are Negative
« #8 on: January 02, 2007, 04:31 PM »

ignorance is really a disease Grin
shevchenko (m)
Re: Can U Marry An Hiv Positive Patience If U Are Negative
« #9 on: January 02, 2007, 05:02 PM »

what if i get infected in the process during love making orrrrr somehow.Would u call that ignorance?
ThoniaSlim (f)
Re: Can U Marry An Hiv Positive Patience If U Are Negative
« #10 on: January 02, 2007, 05:09 PM »

thats exactly why i say that ignorance is a disease,cause its obvious  you don't know a lot about the virus,your in nigeria check out with  NACA or SACA,you would understand more instead of displaying your ignorance Grin
Coco29 (f)
Re: Can U Marry An Hiv Positive Patience If U Are Negative
« #11 on: January 02, 2007, 05:10 PM »

Quote from: shevchenko on January 02, 2007, 05:02 PM
what if i get infected in the process during love making orrrrr somehow.Would u call that ignorance?

yes it would be a case of ignorance because for one it is more difficult for a man to contract HIV than a woman.

condoms sweetie condoms.

the fact that you know yr partner is positive should mean you take extra care with broken skin.


for example you would not go down on her if you have a cold sore etc.

and we all know that HIV can not be passed through kissing.

shevchenko (m)
Re: Can U Marry An Hiv Positive Patience If U Are Negative
« #12 on: January 02, 2007, 05:15 PM »

@thoniaslim @coco -----o.k let me go to the koko. what if in the process of lovemaking. the condom bursts.what happens?oya lecturer i am waiting for you.
ThoniaSlim (f)
Re: Can U Marry An Hiv Positive Patience If U Are Negative
« #13 on: January 02, 2007, 05:21 PM »

lol,now i see your not only ignorant but over ignorant,so i aint going to waste one more post answering Uso just take the advice i gave you,am out of of here Cool
Coco29 (f)
Re: Can U Marry An Hiv Positive Patience If U Are Negative
« #14 on: January 02, 2007, 05:27 PM »

Quote from: shevchenko on January 02, 2007, 05:15 PM
@thoniaslim @coco -----o.k let me go to the koko. what if in the process of lovemaking. the condom bursts.what happens?oya lecturer i am waiting for you.

sweetie please  take this as a chance to learn some thing.


with treatment for HIV the virus can disappear from the blood stream(not a cure just reduced so that is is not

detectable if a test is taken)making it very difficult if you are using condoms. Condoms do not just brake unless it is the wrong size or faulty.

if then the condom does brake you will be given medication to hinder HIV development.

quite a few people do not know, that if you are expose to HIV, and you seek medical advice the same time or the next day it is possible to stop the virus developing.

one just does not GET HIV JUST LIKE THAT, IT IS MORE DIFFICULT THAN YOU THINK. Wink

Pain
Re: Can U Marry An Hiv Positive Patience If U Are Negative
« #15 on: January 02, 2007, 05:42 PM »

Quote from: Coco29 on January 02, 2007, 03:56 PM
yes i can, a person with HIV is still a human being, him being positive does not mean i will become positive we just need to be quite careful thats all.

How Careful Can U Get.??

Comon, Teach Me Teacher!!

I Want To Learn How To Be CareFool Shocked
jaybaby (f)
Re: Can U Marry An Hiv Positive Patience If U Are Negative
« #16 on: January 02, 2007, 05:45 PM »

Phweeeeeeeeeeee Hard Q--I Dnt No if i can ***Shakes Head***
Coco29 (f)
Re: Can U Marry An Hiv Positive Patience If U Are Negative
« #17 on: January 02, 2007, 05:46 PM »

Quote from: Pain on January 02, 2007, 05:42 PM
How Careful Can U Get.??

Comon, Teach Me Teacher!!

I Want To Learn How To Be CareFool Shocked

read my posts above  Wink
Pain
Re: Can U Marry An Hiv Positive Patience If U Are Negative
« #18 on: January 02, 2007, 05:50 PM »

I See Nothing. Besides The Poster Said HIV Patience Not Patient

So Whats This Lecture All About Huh Shocked
Coco29 (f)
Re: Can U Marry An Hiv Positive Patience If U Are Negative
« #19 on: January 02, 2007, 05:52 PM »

@pain are you trying to be a pain in the ass Tongue  Tongue Cheesy roflmao


you can see the person made a mistake.


Coco29 (f)
Re: Can U Marry An Hiv Positive Patience If U Are Negative
« #20 on: January 02, 2007, 05:54 PM »

@pain


PS it is because of people like you why the stigma of HIV continues.
Pain
Re: Can U Marry An Hiv Positive Patience If U Are Negative
« #21 on: January 02, 2007, 05:56 PM »

So Coco How Bout Me Hooking U Up With An HIV +ive Fella.

I Know "couple HIV Fellas In Need Of True Love. Its An Opportunity to Field You Rare Talent.

I Mean How Careful Can One Get.
Coco29 (f)
Re: Can U Marry An Hiv Positive Patience If U Are Negative
« #22 on: January 02, 2007, 06:00 PM »

Quote from: Pain on January 02, 2007, 05:56 PM
So Coco How Bout Me Hooking U Up With An HIV +ive Fella.

I Know "couple HIV Fellas In Need Of True Love. Its An Opportunity to Field You Rare Talent.

I Mean How Careful Can One Get.

 sweetie i hope you always use condoms!!

and i have enough friends with HIV thanks.

however if your friends need some one to talk too by all means pass my email address.
Pain
Re: Can U Marry An Hiv Positive Patience If U Are Negative
« #23 on: January 02, 2007, 06:02 PM »

Whats A Condom Huh Huh
Coco29 (f)
Re: Can U Marry An Hiv Positive Patience If U Are Negative
« #24 on: January 02, 2007, 06:02 PM »

 Angry Angry Angry Angry
Pain
Re: Can U Marry An Hiv Positive Patience If U Are Negative
« #25 on: January 02, 2007, 06:05 PM »

Quote from: Coco29 on January 02, 2007, 06:02 PM
Angry Angry Angry Angry

Oh. Is That What It Looks Like?
Eurphoria (f)
Re: Can U Marry An Hiv Positive Patience If U Are Negative
« #26 on: January 02, 2007, 08:15 PM »

@topic

My answer is NO. I wont even start a sexual relationship if i knew, not to talk of marriage.----------call it SELF PRESERVATION 
kaecy5 (m)
Re: Can U Marry An Hiv Positive Patience If U Are Negative
« #27 on: January 02, 2007, 09:24 PM »

u guys r already fighting without understanding the question

"can u marry an HIV positive patience"


answer = is it patience that is HIV positive or any girl name patience that is positive, if her name is stella so the question would be will u marry HIV positive stella?
Eurphoria (f)
Re: Can U Marry An Hiv Positive Patience If U Are Negative
« #28 on: January 02, 2007, 10:05 PM »

please  thats just a typo **raised eye brow**
mamaput (f)
Re: Can U Marry An Hiv Positive Patience If U Are Negative
« #29 on: January 02, 2007, 11:06 PM »

please no.
ima1 (f)
Re: Can U Marry An Hiv Positive Patience If U Are Negative
« #30 on: January 02, 2007, 11:49 PM »

I say No because there is the risk of passing it down to your children and then making them surfer all through life. Condom is no guarantee that you would not contact HIV or get pregnant, the thing is no matter how careful you are, you are bound to slip up by mistake, if i love you then i will be there for you but no to the point of marriage.

But at the end it depends on how he got HIV, if he cheated, then he should live with it, that is absolutely not my business. i am not discriminating against those with the disease, i truly sympathize with them, but i care about myself and my future and wouldn't like to jeopardize it for anyone.
Eurphoria (f)
Re: Can U Marry An Hiv Positive Patience If U Are Negative
« #31 on: January 02, 2007, 11:57 PM »

ima

please you really don't have to break the reason down for anyone. I totally agree with you anyone with sense knows this but you know how it is, these days everything is PC.

Trust me many know this but say what they feel others want to hear.

Quote
i truly sympathize with them, but i care about myself and my future and wouldn't like to jeopardize it for anyone.

You are correct . I agree 100%
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