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charloski (m)
Sex On A First Date - Does It Kill A Potential Relationship ?
« on: October 27, 2009, 10:35 AM »

Sex on a First Date - Does it Kill a Potential Relationship ?
mrperfect (m)
Re: Sex On A First Date - Does It Kill A Potential Relationship ?
« #1 on: October 27, 2009, 10:44 AM »

Is likely to kill.
charloski (m)
Re: Sex On A First Date - Does It Kill A Potential Relationship ?
« #2 on: October 27, 2009, 10:48 AM »

even when your gurl wanted it, ?
$ammy (m)
Re: Sex On A First Date - Does It Kill A Potential Relationship ?
« #3 on: October 27, 2009, 10:52 AM »

Not necessarily o.If you guys like each other so much to fck on the first date,then so be it.
charloski (m)
Re: Sex On A First Date - Does It Kill A Potential Relationship ?
« #4 on: October 27, 2009, 10:56 AM »

@$ammy but it does nt really mean, bar?
MrPrsdent (m)
Re: Sex On A First Date - Does It Kill A Potential Relationship ?
« #5 on: October 27, 2009, 10:58 AM »

it makes no difference,either way

A player can wait 3 months ,get the sex,then disappear

A serious person can sleep on a 1st date and still continue on to a fruitful,lasting relationship
Stella N (f)
Re: Sex On A First Date - Does It Kill A Potential Relationship ?
« #6 on: October 27, 2009, 11:05 AM »

copy and past topic
Ujujoan (f)
Re: Sex On A First Date - Does It Kill A Potential Relationship ?
« #7 on: October 27, 2009, 11:06 AM »

I think it depends on the individuals involved and what their intentions are.

If the guy wan play, even if you do it on the 100th date, it'll kill the r/ship!
galatico (m)
Re: Sex On A First Date - Does It Kill A Potential Relationship ?
« #8 on: October 27, 2009, 11:07 AM »

Well it depends on the people involved, in most cases it kills the relationship, cuz the guy thinks whaoo this girl is a cheap slut and stuff like that .
The Henrys (m)
Re: Sex On A First Date - Does It Kill A Potential Relationship ?
« #9 on: October 27, 2009, 11:16 AM »

In most cases it has the tendency but it depends on the people involve and why they really want to go into that relationship.
charloski (m)
Re: Sex On A First Date - Does It Kill A Potential Relationship ?
« #10 on: October 27, 2009, 11:20 AM »

cos my guy yesterday just did it, i will not really say its a date,but hw woo the gurl nd had sex with her dat same day,
ezinne1212 (f)
Re: Sex On A First Date - Does It Kill A Potential Relationship ?
« #11 on: October 27, 2009, 11:30 AM »

Quote from: charloski on October 27, 2009, 11:20 AM
cos my guy yesterday just did it, i will not really say its a date,but hw woo the gurl nd had sex with her dat same day,

Good for him.

@ Topic, it's 50-50. If you're open about what you want after the deed, it eliminates the guess work.
steve49ja (m)
Re: Sex On A First Date - Does It Kill A Potential Relationship ?
« #12 on: October 27, 2009, 11:36 AM »

Potential relationship? You're kidding.

You guys would just be seks mates.

If im looking for a relationship, i wont have seks on the first date even if she wanted it not even 2weeks after knowing her Wink.
jay bee (m)
Re: Sex On A First Date - Does It Kill A Potential Relationship ?
« #13 on: October 27, 2009, 11:37 AM »

1st date could be after 6months of e-larvy larvy so wats the big deal?
POSAKOSA1 (m)
Re: Sex On A First Date - Does It Kill A Potential Relationship ?
« #14 on: October 27, 2009, 11:58 AM »

Quote from: MrPrsdent on October 27, 2009, 10:58 AM
it makes no difference,either way

A player can wait 3 months ,get the sex,then disappear

A serious person can sleep on a 1st date and still continue on to a fruitful,lasting relationship

*******end of discussions********    Cool Cool Cool Cool
yorke (m)
Re: Sex On A First Date - Does It Kill A Potential Relationship ?
« #15 on: October 27, 2009, 12:16 PM »

Quote from: Stella N on October 27, 2009, 11:05 AM
copy and past topic
e concern you?busy ass.
sleak (m)
Re: Sex On A First Date - Does It Kill A Potential Relationship ?
« #16 on: October 29, 2009, 12:07 PM »

@poster
i expect sex on the first date.
it does not prejudice my decision to go on into a lasting relationship or not!
nich (m)
Re: Sex On A First Date - Does It Kill A Potential Relationship ?
« #17 on: October 29, 2009, 12:08 PM »

Quote from: steve49ja on October 27, 2009, 11:36 AM
Potential relationship? You're kidding.

You guys would just be seks mates.

If im looking for a relationship, i wont have seks on the first date even if she wanted it not even 2weeks after knowing her Wink.
i reason with u, but

@ topic,
sex before marriage has its consequences. things beyond the human eye or imagination.  
blapo (m)
Re: Sex On A First Date - Does It Kill A Potential Relationship ?
« #18 on: October 29, 2009, 12:12 PM »

@Mrpresident i agree with you.


Relationship can go either way and many other factors come in after sex.
ThoniaSlim (f)
Re: Sex On A First Date - Does It Kill A Potential Relationship ?
« #19 on: October 29, 2009, 12:16 PM »

It really depends on the individuals involved. . .

I know of a couple that have been married for 6yrs now. . .they both met in a club. . .the dude just walked up to her and they had a couple of dances and before you know it. . .they both screwed each other in the dude's car. . .It was intended to just be a fling for both of them. . .but it blossomed into something serious. . .


SO basically. . .even if the individuals both have sex 2years into the relationship. . .if it ain't meant to be. . .then it ain't gonna be!

But its best to keep them legs closed!  Wink
honsule (m)
Re: Sex On A First Date - Does It Kill A Potential Relationship ?
« #20 on: October 29, 2009, 12:23 PM »

Quote from: ThoniaSlim on October 29, 2009, 12:16 PM
It really depends on the individuals involved. . .

I know of a couple that have been married for 6yrs now. . .they both met in a club. . .the dude just walked up to her and they had a couple of dances and before you know it. . .they both screwed each other in the dude's car. . .It was intended to just be a fling for both of them. . .but it blossomed into something serious. . .



exceptional case


Quote from: ThoniaSlim on October 29, 2009, 12:16 PM
But its best to keep them legs closed!  Wink

WORD Cool Cool Cool
ItohanH
Re: Sex On A First Date - Does It Kill A Potential Relationship ?
« #21 on: October 29, 2009, 12:45 PM »

Having sex at all while dating is dangerous and can kill the relationship and both party's destinies. think about this,  Huh Huh Huh
obailala (m)
Re: Sex On A First Date - Does It Kill A Potential Relationship ?
« #22 on: October 29, 2009, 12:46 PM »

No matter the amount of pressure i mount on the girl, I will think again if she succumbs on the first day.

Even if I really like her and even if she's a 'V', its a very bad first impression and she will definitely end up as my seks mate.
Ije-ebuka (m)
Re: Sex On A First Date - Does It Kill A Potential Relationship ?
« #23 on: October 29, 2009, 12:49 PM »

That is if one of you were forced to do it b/c if we decide to do it, I don't see why it have to kill the relationship
that is my own way of reasoning but someone may be still observing how donatus a girl can be and try her on the first / early days and think she use to do the same with her former friends, it is not wise to do such when you want something serious in a relationship.
personally I don't advice sex on first date.
youngdee (m)
Re: Sex On A First Date - Does It Kill A Potential Relationship ?
« #24 on: October 29, 2009, 12:50 PM »

Sex on a first date makes me love my girl more
Oluschenco (m)
Re: Sex On A First Date - Does It Kill A Potential Relationship ?
« #25 on: October 29, 2009, 12:58 PM »

It does kill it,
I once pressurised a lady i met for the first time and she accepted my advances, although i was able to control my feelings, but since then, i never get close to her because i look at her like an HIV+ person, although she may not be.
papabaks (m)
Re: Sex On A First Date - Does It Kill A Potential Relationship ?
« #26 on: October 29, 2009, 12:59 PM »

It Succkkksss, Very BAD!!! Huh

just take it easy and slow slow,
davidif (m)
Re: Sex On A First Date - Does It Kill A Potential Relationship ?
« #27 on: October 29, 2009, 01:00 PM »

Thoniaslim
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slimsy
Re: Sex On A First Date - Does It Kill A Potential Relationship ?
« #28 on: October 29, 2009, 01:02 PM »

It might not kill the relationship. But most guys might think that the girl is cheap.
Rolandrichy
Re: Sex On A First Date - Does It Kill A Potential Relationship ?
« #29 on: October 29, 2009, 01:15 PM »

YES! there can't be two ways about this we all know the truth. There is more to love in a relationship than sex.
Abbey_city (f)
Re: Sex On A First Date - Does It Kill A Potential Relationship ?
« #30 on: October 29, 2009, 01:23 PM »

Quote from: MrPrsdent on October 27, 2009, 10:58 AM
it makes no difference,either way

A player can wait 3 months ,get the sex,then disappear

A serious person can sleep on a 1st date and still continue on to a fruitful,lasting relationship
Correct!!!!

but as for me!!! it does'nt make any sense. . . . d guy will think d lady is so cheap!!!
Alxmyr (m)
Re: Sex On A First Date - Does It Kill A Potential Relationship ?
« #31 on: October 29, 2009, 01:26 PM »

@ Poster: why you come report her now? Is it because she no gree make you "enter the place"?
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