Your Once Virgin Girl Friend.

Now naija fellows, lets see dis together. You have a girl friend who is a virgin n both of u promised to keep the virginity till marriage. All of a sudden, something happened n d young lady was raped by some sets of unknown guys. At the end of the day, she got pregnant. When u get to know all the story, ll u still go ahead to marry her?

different strokes for different folks. Some men can accomodate that, some cant. Just depends on each individual. Some can live with the fact, some may be haunted by it for the rest of their lives.

Remember this is the same girl u said u love. If can not marry her cos of that then u don't really love her from the beginning.
The best u should do as one who really proclaim love for her to the point of deciding spending the rest of your life with her, is to get her terminate the pregnancy, test her for HIV and STDs, support her so that she get over the psychological trauma. Like u rightly pointed out, it is not her fault.

What a pity, that girl must be suffering a lot. Loosing her virginity in such a cruel way and almost loosing the man she loves     
I'm am really shocked, i can't imaging myself in such a situation, it is painful.

The truth is that my reaction in this forum may not be true, since emotion is a major factor here, but i know that i will hurt those bloody motherfuckers rapists and castrate them if possible.
Rape is not an acceptable behaviour.

Poster, i think you owe the girl two majors things. One is to help her overcome the trauma by showing her love, do not tell her you won't marry her (if that is your intention), show her all the love you can, if after she has overcome her trauma and you decide to tell her that you won't marry her based on the present situation, she will be in a position then understand you without a serious negative impact on her.
Secondly, get her opinion first on the issue of the baby, DO NOT force her into abortion (which she might opt for given how the baby came about).