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y me (f)
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i am not moved by the word LOVE
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onoxelvis (m)
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The woman was created with 1 of the 106 bones whilst the man was asleep. Girls will be girls, chicks will be chicks and babes will be babes. Wherewithal thou fallest, u shall see a difference.
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bammy (m)
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dont mind them,
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aoukane (m)
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intentions change with time
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wasobia (m)
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The truth shall set them free sooner or later.
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oyb (m)
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the short answer is that today, saying i love is one of the rituals required in the nigerian version of the modern mating dance
i guess naija chicks need to be told that so they can convince themselves they are not being cheap / giving it up too easily
which is why we have the other variant - i go marry you
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shesi (m)
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when it comes to this particular issue, women in general are just stupid (dont bother replying with the 'including your mom and sisters' line. i include them myself)
from the time they are children, they are told men will say and do anything for sex. they are told by their teachers, by their mothers, by their brothers, you name it. AND YET, they always fall prey to this same lie.
you met a guy, you've been on 4 or 5 dates with him. He says he loves you. you believe him. those that think they're smart say "oh i can't be fooled like that. you can't just meet me yesterday and tell me you love me, i wasn't born yesterday" ok, but you'll believe it in 2 months yeah? well guess what? you've just been deceived too.
It's like they just can't believe a guy can keep up a lie for 6 months just to get her to bed when infact, most guys can keep it up for 1 year and they haven't even left first gear.
there's a good reason why almost all the major religions prohibit sex before marriage. It's really to protect the womenfolk. Cus us men can be cold and calculating beyond the understanding of most women. They just cannot phantom it.
if i were to hazard a guess, i would say most men only fall in love with their women after about 2 years. anything earlier is just saying what they think she wants to hear.
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DEMO404
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See im a lying man i really dont care, i tell these girls whateva they wanna hear.
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Rooneyboy (m)
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Y wouldnt a guy lie ?When we all know that girls r audio beings and as such like lies.
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Rooneyboy (m)
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Y wouldnt a guy lie ?When we all know that girls r audio beings and as such like lies.
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Rooneyboy (m)
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Y wouldnt i lie ? When i know a girl can be so daft to believe my father is Gbenga Daniels when my name is Chinedu.
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C2H5OH (m)
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 because the naive little girls would rather be deceived. Hard to be frank about it, you know? You can't just be like "hey girl, I just wanna bone" and expect her to go home with you.
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ovo4u (m)
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I advise guys to stop this bad attitude, it is not fair. What goes around come around. It may bounce back to your lovely sister or your lovely daughter.
Well am sorry to say, it has being like that for long,so it not new to me if one sister or daughter get flog in the same way, But sex is not something the male enjoy alone, why making a big deal out of it self?, i even learn that the female enjoy it more better,please anyone should prove me wrong here if that not true. On the other hand,Lady hate the truth, it always the lie that trip them, so as soon as you start telling the truth, they look you down and just walk out, so it better to use the IQ you got to get what you need, so lady you see it now? |
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oyb (m)
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because the naive little girls would rather be deceived. Hard to be frank about it, you know? You can't just be like "hey girl, I just wanna bone" and expect her to go home with you. na so one of my randiers guy dey complain back in school whats with all this - why do we have to hang out for so long, blow so many sweet nothings why can't we just get out with it i want to get down you want to get down so lets just skip all this and get down |
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Ineed help
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I think it's the same reason a babe tells a guy she loves him when all she wants is his money. Some babes will even go ahead and marry these poor folks when all the love is his deep pocket.
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ovo4u (m)
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because that's simply wot some of them wants to hear.
And they like being lied to. why would someone you just met like 2 weeks ago open her legs just because you used the love word? Thing is they no the drill but love word is gateway to heaven for them at most times.
I don't even like the word love cos it's simply overused. I always insist on the "i really like you" words.
Did you say 2week? i think you have to re-think because now are days, they don't even use the words'' i love you''not anymore, before every other thing fall in place, Guys dey upgrade everyday, We know how we dey do am that time when we dey warri, very easy when you got the cash, Just carry her go where she never dream to enter once and make sure she high and eat well, every other things fall in place, if she nor dey high, then make sure she drink enough Malt to purge her . I know some people would say not all girls but i think 95% would go for this, if na lie prove me wrong |
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C2H5OH (m)
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na so one of my randiers guy dey complain back in school
whats with all this - why do we have to hang out for so long, blow so many sweet nothings why can't we just get out with it i want to get down you want to get down so lets just skip all this and get down
It's a cover up. Approaching her with dead-on approach like that is akin to basically telling her she's a slut. |
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nethacker (m)
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I think it's the same reason a babe tells a guy she loves him when all she wants is his money. Some babes will even go ahead and marry these poor folks when all the love is his deep pocket.
simple and settled |
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ovo4u (m)
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in fact this is one of the things guys do that piss me off they lie alot, hardly u get some one that's truthful they only need sex 4gotten that it's not love any way that's them am on my own.
What do you mean by that statement? Both couple enjoy the sex why making the thing scarce when you know that when you get in the mode later, you wouldn't want to stop doing the thing. |
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OYINBOGOJU
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ALL THE GIRLS EVEN THE SEX MORE THAN WE DO.
ITS THE SOCIETY THAT RESTRICT THEM FROM SAYING IT TO MEN HOW MUCH THEY WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH MEN.
ABOVE ALL WOMEN NEED AND WANT SEX MORE THAN MEN.
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ovo4u (m)
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ALL THE GIRLS EVEN THE SEX MORE THAN WE DO.
ITS THE SOCIETY THAT RESTRICT THEM FROM SAYING IT TO MEN HOW MUCH THEY WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH MEN.
ABOVE ALL WOMEN NEED AND WANT SEX MORE THAN MEN.
Gbam |
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OYINBOGOJU
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O SE GAN NI OVO4U
ABI I LIE
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obi123
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Because some guys are too cowardly to go straight to the point. i think it will save everyone the trouble if guys just came out told the chick whats up , are u in or out, if shes in, fine if shes not, move on to the next gullible unfortunate chick , simple!
i mean whats the point of telling a lady u love her when what u want is sex, then go through all the ceremony of wooing her and rubbish like dat, why not save time and money, tell her, whats on your mind, if u get liver!
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shotster50 (m)
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To Poster , Telling a girl you want to mess her isnt exactly a good way to break the ice is it???
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jeffman (m)
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i personally don't tell ladies what i don't mean. more so, i believe love takes time so just like someone said i stick to "i really like u " while specifically mentioning what i like. with a take it or leave it attitude, u wouldn't need to lie to a lady. if she no gree she no gree. i aint got a problem with that
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faakay (m)
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Because some guys are too cowardly to go straight to the point. i think it will save everyone the trouble if guys just came out told the chick whats up , are u in or out, if shes in, fine if shes not, move on to the next gullible unfortunate chick , simple!
i mean whats the point of telling a lady u love her when what u want is sex, then go through all the ceremony of wooing her and rubbish like dat, why not save time and money, tell her, whats on your mind, if u get liver!
Gba! Gba!! Correct! There are means of communication to tell her you want the KOKO, she will also get the signal instead of wasting bull shit time longing thing  Only Guys with strong mind can do this |
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OYINBOGOJU
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NOT ONLY TIME U WASTED, HOW ABOUT MONEY
THOSE MR BIGGS AND TANTERLIZER
ABO YOU FORGOT THEY LOVE FOOD LIKE THEIR MOTHER
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faakay (m)
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NOT ONLY TIME U WASTED, HOW ABOUT MONEY
THOSE MR BIGGS AND TANTERLIZER
ABO YOU FORGOT THEY LOVE FOOD LIKE THEIR MOTHER
Girls in naija always want you to go through this protocol and I don't buy this idea It's not even about the cash::: The fact is that they want the world to see you people together, Alakoaba  |
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na2day? (m)
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@ topic
love to men is sex, just like any other male creature God has created, love to women is the man's money, draw draw God no vex
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Vavavoom
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@ poster,
Being a man requires a lot of testesterone control. Those who can wait for when the lady is ready others<most> just tell whatever and agree to whatever is said/requested to get her pants off her waist. Nevertheless it is unfanthomable to picture a lady who'd raise her skirt for a man who'd just said, ''i want sex'', not even ones wife methinks. The reward is rich if one can wait, xplore the lady in question and find far reaching committments other than sex. To each his own.
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sammyzacks (m)
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To all the ladies,
The average guy would sure ask you for sex.
Just because he sleeps with you does not mean he is in love with you even if he says it.
Love is shown in the value he places on you, in the way he respects you and his willingness to go the extra mile for you.
So better be careful and never push a man to love you. Never use sex to make him love you. If he loves you for you, he will stay with you no matter what.
Cheers!
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