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zPixel (m)
Re: Guys: Why Tell A Lady You Love Her When What You Want Is Sex?
« #64 on: October 29, 2009, 08:33 AM »

Its the default password to the VALUT' Grin
obyann (f)
Re: Guys: Why Tell A Lady You Love Her When What You Want Is Sex?
« #65 on: October 29, 2009, 08:50 AM »

Quote from: seyi_11111 on October 27, 2009, 09:38 PM
i don't bleame does guy that say they love a lady just to have sex because some lady like talking sweet lie that talking bitter struth, i meet a lady sometime this years when i took a but to my school n will agree when will gonna meet in my school that day i took my sister jeep to school n she see the jeep asking me if i have another car i told her this car is not for me she said i lie its just make me mad @ her when she know i was in school how can i get money to buy a car of 4million which was own by my sister, am sure lady like that need sweet lie, i don't blame guys for any reason

Why would you borrow your sisters car when going for a date. why didn't you come with your legediz benz
anishe
Re: Guys: Why Tell A Lady You Love Her When What You Want Is Sex?
« #66 on: October 29, 2009, 08:58 AM »

Dear NL, how do i copy other people's statement if i need to use the statement for my own comment.

please, your explanation is sought.
skybeauty (f)
Re: Guys: Why Tell A Lady You Love Her When What You Want Is Sex?
« #67 on: October 29, 2009, 09:02 AM »

cos they are c*^t sucking, pathetic, blinking idiot, a foolish one at that
Alxmyr (m)
Re: Guys: Why Tell A Lady You Love Her When What You Want Is Sex?
« #68 on: October 29, 2009, 09:06 AM »

@ Poster; Better put:

Why allow him to have sex with you after he said he love you, despite knowing he said that all because of sex?

The two sides of the coin,
vescucci (m)
Re: Guys: Why Tell A Lady You Love Her When What You Want Is Sex?
« #69 on: October 29, 2009, 09:20 AM »

Guys say that cuz that's what girls wanna hear. No matter how many times a girl is told or warned, a guy with a sweet mouth is always gonna get his way with them. I mean girls in general. Some girls have much more sense but you don't need to warn these types in the first place
heather (f)
Re: Guys: Why Tell A Lady You Love Her When What You Want Is Sex?
« #70 on: October 29, 2009, 09:25 AM »

cos that's the language a lot of them understand
and that's y we have so many broken heart
holotee
Re: Guys: Why Tell A Lady You Love Her When What You Want Is Sex?
« #71 on: October 29, 2009, 09:39 AM »

I really dnt expect this to be an issue. I believe ladies are smart enough to know a guy's intentions from the first few moments of meeting him. Alloowing themselves to be swept away by the words of his mouth is however their own choice. Whether guys lie to them to get what they want or not; it's left to them(ladies) to make a choice. No one is forced to do anything she dosen't wanna do !
zPixel (m)
Re: Guys: Why Tell A Lady You Love Her When What You Want Is Sex?
« #72 on: October 29, 2009, 09:40 AM »

@anishe
copy the text u want 2 use , then click d second 2 d last button frm d buttons above d emotions and paste.
FL Gators
Re: Guys: Why Tell A Lady You Love Her When What You Want Is Sex?
« #73 on: October 29, 2009, 09:48 AM »

Because some girls are too trusting and easily led, simple as that.
ichommy
Re: Guys: Why Tell A Lady You Love Her When What You Want Is Sex?
« #74 on: October 29, 2009, 09:50 AM »

jamb question  Shocked but am diffrent
lorebobo (f)
Re: Guys: Why Tell A Lady You Love Her When What You Want Is Sex?
« #75 on: October 29, 2009, 09:52 AM »

you don't need to tell a lady you love her to have sex with her. if she wants to have sex with you, she will. which one be love?
sleak (m)
Re: Guys: Why Tell A Lady You Love Her When What You Want Is Sex?
« #76 on: October 29, 2009, 09:58 AM »

Love is what we call sex
so when a guy says im in love with you,, it means im in sex with u
no long thing.
Smiley Smiley Smiley Smiley
agathamari (f)
Re: Guys: Why Tell A Lady You Love Her When What You Want Is Sex?
« #77 on: October 29, 2009, 10:06 AM »

because guys are pigs and girls are stupid enough to fall for it
lannre (m)
Re: Guys: Why Tell A Lady You Love Her When What You Want Is Sex?
« #78 on: October 29, 2009, 10:13 AM »

because there is a correlation between, love and sex
macfarland
Re: Guys: Why Tell A Lady You Love Her When What You Want Is Sex?
« #79 on: October 29, 2009, 10:18 AM »

Every time is the guy, the guy! When ladies want to have sex and there just eat the man's money before they dump him and run away, what do they tell the man? no be the same 'I love you' rhetoric? Abegi!
macfarland
Re: Guys: Why Tell A Lady You Love Her When What You Want Is Sex?
« #80 on: October 29, 2009, 10:25 AM »

@anishe
copy the text u want 2 use , then click d second 2 d last button frm d buttons above d emotions and paste.

Thanks but not sure I still got it right.
galatico (m)
Re: Guys: Why Tell A Lady You Love Her When What You Want Is Sex?
« #81 on: October 29, 2009, 10:25 AM »

I would never do such  a wicked thing .
eyonigger (m)
Re: Guys: Why Tell A Lady You Love Her When What You Want Is Sex?
« #82 on: October 29, 2009, 10:36 AM »

I love u does not work that much anymore, the game has been upgraded.
Maxidoe (m)
Re: Guys: Why Tell A Lady You Love Her When What You Want Is Sex?
« #83 on: October 29, 2009, 10:45 AM »

I don't think you need to tell a girl you love her before you make love to her.I have had a lot of girls and the only one i ever told i love is my wife,have never ever told a girl i love her.No matter how had the look,talk,or behave they are very very easy to manipulate or convince.Before i married or when i played around,i use stuff such as i cherish you,i admire you,you are an ANGEL,you presence sends me haywire and many more romantic words,but i never used the word love cos its gonna be damn heavy in my mouth if i don't mean it.A girl had cried profusely telling me to tell her i love u,but i told her that,i wud be deceiving you and i cherish u so much that i cant deceive you.But it is really stupid to meet a girl and tell her you want to f*** her its just not our way in Africa,for girls saying it is cowardice not to tell her point blank,what would u do if a guy approaches you and tell you that,and guys girls that looks tough,outspoken and hard are the most vunerable, trust me am talking out of experience and you dont need to tell a girl you love her b4 u shred her,
ovo4u (m)
Re: Guys: Why Tell A Lady You Love Her When What You Want Is Sex?
« #84 on: October 29, 2009, 10:49 AM »

Quote from: OYINBOGOJU on October 29, 2009, 07:39 AM
O SE GAN NI OVO4U

ABI I LIE

Sorry didn't get your other language, what do you mean by O SE GAN NI OVO4U?
ovo4u (m)
Re: Guys: Why Tell A Lady You Love Her When What You Want Is Sex?
« #85 on: October 29, 2009, 10:51 AM »

Quote from: obi123 on October 29, 2009, 07:43 AM
Because some guys are too cowardly to go straight to the point. i think it will save everyone the trouble if guys just came out told the chick whats up , are u in or out, if shes in, fine if shes not, move on to the next gullible unfortunate chick  , simple!

i mean whats the point of telling a lady u love her when what u want is sex, then go through all the ceremony of wooing her and rubbish like dat, why not save time and money, tell her, whats on your mind,  if u get liver!  

Oga pastor, na you be scent, no man for this whole tread or nairaland, who will say he holy pass, abeg leave that thing jare
echofamozo (m)
Re: Guys: Why Tell A Lady You Love Her When What You Want Is Sex?
« #86 on: October 29, 2009, 10:52 AM »

The fact remains that if guys tell ladies the truth about their real intensions they won't believe it so for some guys to chieve their aims they all they need do is chip in what the ladies want to hear.
HMMM my little advice for the ladie is when a man come telling you he loves you after few days of meeting each other just know its a practical lie always put this at the back of your mind that real love takes time to show it self.
Bamsyle (m)
Re: Guys: Why Tell A Lady You Love Her When What You Want Is Sex?
« #87 on: October 29, 2009, 11:00 AM »


Why Tell A Guy You Love Him When What You Want Is Money??  Tongue
EUDDY
Re: Guys: Why Tell A Lady You Love Her When What You Want Is Sex?
« #88 on: October 29, 2009, 11:04 AM »

my dear i agree with you. what goes around comes around so guy be careful and moreover we still have   decent girls!!!!!!!!!!!!!.
nolio (m)
Re: Guys: Why Tell A Lady You Love Her When What You Want Is Sex?
« #89 on: October 29, 2009, 11:06 AM »

guy its hard.u can love with all your herat nowadays tinking of wht d girl is doing behind,beside when u c 1 2day,u c anoda prettier than d latter and u want to b wit her.simply,the world  its all about pleasure for now not love
MrPrsdent (m)
Re: Guys: Why Tell A Lady You Love Her When What You Want Is Sex?
« #90 on: October 29, 2009, 11:19 AM »

Quote from: shesi on October 29, 2009, 11:06 AM
when it comes to this particular issue, women in general are just stupid (dont bother replying with the 'including your mom and sisters' line. i include them myself)

from the time they are children, they are told men will say and do anything for sex. they are told by their teachers, by their mothers, by their brothers, you name it. AND YET, they always fall prey to this same lie.

you met a guy, you've been on 4 or 5 dates with him. He says he loves you. you believe him. those that think they're smart say "oh i can't be fooled like that. you can't just meet me yesterday and tell me you love me, i wasn't born yesterday" ok, but you'll believe it in 2 months yeah? well guess what? you've just been deceived too.

It's like they just can't believe a guy can keep up a lie for 6 months just to get her to bed when infact, most guys can keep it up for 1 year and they haven't even left first gear.


there's a good reason why almost all the major religions prohibit sex before marriage. It's really to protect the womenfolk. Cus us men can be cold and calculating beyond the understanding of most women. They just cannot phantom it.

if i were  to hazard a guess, i would say most men only fall in love  with their women after about 2 years.  anything earlier is just saying what they think she wants to hear.

This is the absolute truth and YET no one is commenting on it
MrPrsdent (m)
Re: Guys: Why Tell A Lady You Love Her When What You Want Is Sex?
« #91 on: October 29, 2009, 11:21 AM »

@topic

Girls: Why Tell A Man You Love Him When What You Want Is Money?

Nezan (m)
Re: Guys: Why Tell A Lady You Love Her When What You Want Is Sex?
« #92 on: October 29, 2009, 11:26 AM »

@OP; When two people are leading themselves into sin, it is normal for one to accuse the other when things go wrong.
majoroller
Re: Guys: Why Tell A Lady You Love Her When What You Want Is Sex?
« #93 on: October 29, 2009, 11:31 AM »

because love is giving someone the opportunity to hurt you and trusting them not to,
edoyad (m)
Sex and Lies
« #94 on: October 29, 2009, 11:31 AM »

Mr. president, you have my vote sir.
azubyky
Re: Guys: Why Tell A Lady You Love Her When What You Want Is Sex?
« #95 on: October 29, 2009, 11:36 AM »

this dayz majority of Girls like sex more than the Guyz they just need an excuse or reason for doing it
so stop blaming the guyz. u got what u needed. if not y cant u say no to him when he makes sexual advances towards u. at least u have your hand to push him away, your legs to close that thing in between your legs and your mouth to say NO. so ladies tell me. What are u SAYING!!
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