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ammamat (f)
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My fellow nairalander,
I met this guy and we ve been dating for over 6 month now i love him and i believe he also love me too.
But He had accommodation problem in the past 3 month and i cud not be so heartless to see him in that condition than to ask him to move in to my house since his friend;s house was occupied.
I know to some people this wud sound rubbish .
And since then we ve been staying together and his still looking for accommodation but now my own rent has expire and i am broke .
should I allowed him pay for my rent has he want to do or should I allowe him to get his accommodation
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rita@NL (m)
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I think you should pay for your rent even if you have to take a loan.
If he wants to pay ,he will without you telling him but dont tell him to.
I doubt if this your guy would wanna move out thou,it might take him centuries to get an apartment .
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Ebonyeyes (f)
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Well if he knows you are broke and he is freeloading then he has to cough out the money.
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ammamat (f)
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yeah actually, i did not ask him to pay for the rent, bt am afraid after paying for the rent if he wud want to move,
and i also don't want to tell him to live so that it wun't look as if am pushing him out of my house
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Ebonyeyes (f)
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Then tell him about your situation you cant bankrupt yourself and get evicted in the process just because you dont want him to feel somehow.  |
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galatico (m)
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I suggest you tell him your present predicament .
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steve49ja (m)
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Wait a min!!! If he dint move in, you wont be able to raise funds for ya rent?  If you allow him pay, be rest assured you would need prayers to kick out ya ''roommate''. Pay ya bills ma'm. |
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sunnyprof
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If he is paying any rent at all, let it be fr his own apartment!!!
Even if you have to move to his own place and latr find money for your own, so be it.
If you allow him pay for you, you can't push him out cos you don't own the place alone anymore.
So square it up in your mind that you need to pay your own rent.
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ammamat (f)
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] if you allow him pay for you, you can't push him out cos you don't own the place alone anymore.
So square it up in your mind that you need to pay your own rent. he chosse to do that am not telling him to |
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aristole (f)
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Very simple.Are you d one feeding him as well?
If not.His emergence into your life should not be that parasitic (as in affect your finances).
Source for cash somewia and pay your rent.
your rent would have been due even if u've not met him
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