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scemchee (m)
Your Candid Opinion Will Be Appreciated.
« on: October 29, 2009, 03:56 PM »

My friend is in love with two women and does not know who to go for. And from his theory about them, he said one will make a good wife while the other will make a good mother. Please give you candid opinion; if you were in his shoes who would you go for.
And to go further he derived his theory from this point:

Good wife: she is pretty and well shaped just the way he likes it. She is full of life and she takes no nonsense and will not wait a sec to treat your fuckup when ever you mess up. She is fun to be with as there is never a dull moment with her. She is sex appealing and very good in bed, she could do him for hours. She is very jovial and a good entertainer if ever your friends come visiting, she could make them want to get laid the way she will be touching you in there presence as if you had been away for a long time. She is not shy and very outspoken. But she is not homely and does not care about house chores; she did rather eat out than cook. Not that she does not know how to cook but she hates it. She is too inquisitive and will never give you a breathing space. To crown it all to bore you guys she hates anything that needs to be done that would be her. She is simply lazy. Very extravagant, careless and would not mind when married to you to leave with you to any part of the world at the expense of her children. She just wants to always be you. While the

Good mother: is totally the opposite of the other who is very homely and does all the house chores even before you think of it. She is not the ongoing type. She is educated and very brilliant and from a respectable family. She is really not his ideal woman as she is kind of the opposite. She respects the guy with all honesty. She is slow in anger and acts maturely when annoyed. She is not that jovial but she is okay. And the most that gives him concern is that she is not active in sex like the other girl and makes him to fear not to be forced to cheat on her when married. If married to her would be the types that will make you children believe in their self and make them see reason to aspire to be great.
Any good thing a child would get from the mother she is ready to offer and more.

So my fellow NL you have heard it all and your candid opinion will be appreciated.
Oluschenco (m)
Re: Your Candid Opinion Will Be Appreciated.
« #1 on: October 29, 2009, 04:26 PM »

A good mother-to-be, is far better than a good wife-to-be.
I prefer the second lady, life is not all about sex, but how your home will be at your absence, and your future(children). since she is good at taking care of the house and she comes from a respected family, i thereby recommend her, not because of today, but for tommorrow.
rita@NL (m)
Re: Your Candid Opinion Will Be Appreciated.
« #2 on: October 29, 2009, 04:30 PM »

Hmmmm . . .  this one hard die !
My woman gat to be both otherwise i'll cheat on her if i pick the second one ( Good mother).
galatico (m)
Re: Your Candid Opinion Will Be Appreciated.
« #3 on: October 29, 2009, 04:34 PM »

My prospective wife must have all the qualities of a wife and a mother or else I'll send her packing .
whitelexi (m)
Re: Your Candid Opinion Will Be Appreciated.
« #4 on: October 29, 2009, 04:40 PM »

I sense that the first is finer than the 2nd right?

If thats the case, then your friend is probably being blinded by her fine figure and bedmatics, having said that though, it will be a shame if he marries the 2nd and is not satisfied sexually. . .  Part of the rudiments of a good marriage is an attraction that leaves a man constantly chasing after his wife, its like falling in love over and over again and in such a marriage it is hard to get attracted to any other woman.

It is a tight situation, and i will not make any choices for him, but my advice is to not let beauty cloud his judgement.
iice (f)
Re: Your Candid Opinion Will Be Appreciated.
« #5 on: October 29, 2009, 04:45 PM »

Would have avoided the scenario of 'falling in love' with two people in the first place.  Na so people dey cause wahala for themselves.

Anyway. . .the 2nd one seems more sensible.  The first one will prolly run him broke
mrperfect (m)
Re: Your Candid Opinion Will Be Appreciated.
« #6 on: October 29, 2009, 04:55 PM »

Although both character is needed, I suggest you go for the second.
Because time shall come this sex of a thing won't make sense to you any more.
so stick to the second option and tell her what she has to improve on.
scemchee (m)
Re: Your Candid Opinion Will Be Appreciated.
« #7 on: October 29, 2009, 06:00 PM »

What can i ever do without you guys. thanks a lot for all your contributions, you av all hit ten the nail on the head.
bravo.
posakosa (m)
Re: Your Candid Opinion Will Be Appreciated.
« #8 on: October 29, 2009, 06:12 PM »

I call this MADNESS.
scemchee (m)
Re: Your Candid Opinion Will Be Appreciated.
« #9 on: October 29, 2009, 10:02 PM »

Quote from: posakosa on October 29, 2009, 06:12 PM
I call this MADNESS.
what is mad about the situation?
posakosa (m)
Re: Your Candid Opinion Will Be Appreciated.
« #10 on: October 29, 2009, 10:14 PM »

u seem to be shopping for a woman as if u are shopping for a car.


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